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204. How to ask your friend to be a co-conspirator for your dating life (and what to do if they're not supportive)


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Why do we always feel awkward asking our friends for help with our love lives? Imagine the game-changing power of having a trusted squad of co-conspirators in your corner, ready to support you. This episode dives into how to ask your friends to be your co-conspirators in love—one of the top three ways to date IRL!

Now, it's not that your friends are clueless about dating; they just need to learn how to help you in a way that matches your wants, needs, and desires. In this episode, Lily guides you through a co-conspirator invitation, so your friends can really be there for you.

Here's what you'll learn in this juicy episode:

  • Learn how to spot the friends who are perfect for this role and how to prepare for that all-important invitation 
  • Asking someone to be your love-life co-conspirator is an honor—here’s how to make sure you’re ready to have that convo.
  • Not every friend will be a good fit as a co-conspirator, and that’s okay.
  • Discover creative solutions to avoid dead-ends and establish boundaries.
  • FAQ on Co-Conspirators: Everything from the best personality types for this role to how to figure out if your friends are mentally available, and overcoming the shame of asking for help.

Tune in and transform your dating life with the help of your very own dream team! 🎙️✨

Links: You can pick up your copy of Thank You, More Please where all books are sold right now, and then sign up for Date Brazen Listening Guide at datebrazen.com/book! Friend Forward Podcast Fighting for Our Friendships, Danielle Bayard Jackson

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/invite-friends-to-be-co-conspirators

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