We all get caught in relationship drama from time to time. Whether it's with our partners, friends, family members, or even ourselves, these patterns can feel frustrating and difficult to escape. The good news? There are frameworks that can help us recognize when we're stuck in drama and practical tools we can use to shift into more empowering dynamics.

In this episode, we dive into the Drama Triangle, a powerful model that helps us understand the roles we play in our relationship conflicts, and explore how we can transform these patterns into healthier interactions. We share our own experiences getting caught in these cycles and the small but significant steps that have helped us break free.

We’re unpacking:

— The Drama Triangle model and its three archetypal roles: victim, hero (rescuer), and villain (persecutor)

— How we each have preferred "on-ramps" to drama that feel familiar even when they're uncomfortable

— The ways we unconsciously maintain drama cycles in our relationships

— How we can play multiple roles in the Drama Triangle, even all by ourselves

— The Empowerment Dynamic as an alternative to the Drama Triangle

— How to transform from victim to creator, hero to coach, and villain to challenger

— Why small actions can create significant shifts in breaking drama patterns

— The importance of recognizing when you're in the Drama Triangle before you can step out of it

— How non-monogamy can amplify drama triangles by adding more people to the system

— Real examples from our relationship where we've gotten stuck in drama and found our way out

— Why it's so challenging (but possible!) to break free from familiar patterns

Resources mentioned in this episode:

— The Drama Triangle model by Stephen Karpman

— The Empowerment Dynamic

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