In this episode, we talk about getting out of the mindset that recovery is all about stopping a bad behavior. If the goal is to never act out again and nothing more - men are selling themselves short. Heart and character change associated with the process of not acting out is what is most important. Ultimately, the process is about becoming who God is calling you to be as a man.

Talking about threats or markers in recovery can help us to that end which we will introduce and explore in this episode. We also discuss acting in (or intimacy aversion) and how that fits into the threats assessment (a deep dive into Acting In, aka Intimacy Aversion is coming in two weeks, you won't want to miss that episode!

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