Jill takes us back to episode 177 this week in which she delivers a powerful message about having compassion for ourselves, urging us to break free from the relentless cycle of self-criticism and perfectionism. Acknowledging the inner voice that often tells us that we are "not doing it right,” she invites us to challenge that narrative. Rather than constantly trying to "fix" or change ourselves, Jill suggests that the path to true growth and happiness comes from accepting and loving who we are, as we are!

Jill discusses the concept of letting go of the pressure to always improve and instead embracing a gentler, more compassionate approach to personal development. She shares a poignant analogy and compares the effort to heal while still criticizing oneself to trying to cure a wound with the same knife that caused the injury.

This episode of Be You truly emphasizes the importance of nurturing ourselves with love and patience, much like we would a child or a pet, and shifting the focus from achieving an ideal version of ourselves to simply allowing our true selves to emerge!

Tune in and walk away with a renewed perspective on personal growth, one that champions softness, kindness, and the recognition that true progress doesn't come from force but from grace. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not doing enough or not living up to expectations, then this episode is definitely for you!

Show Notes:

[01:17] - Jill discusses how self-criticism persists even when we believe that we've tuned it out, resulting in emotional harm. [03:27] - Trying to heal through self-criticism is like trying to heal ourselves by using the same knife that wounded us. [06:38] - Reaching goals through love and joy, Jill argues, is more sustainable than constant pushing and forcing. [09:29] - Jill suggests understanding your protective patterns without judgment in order to continue discovering your true self. [12:38] - It's important to remind yourself that you're doing great, even if voices tell you otherwise. [15:04] - In closing, be kind to yourself, listen to your body, and trust in your unique pace of growth.

 

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