00-2:50 Introduction and under-18 warning 2:50-4:20 introduction on Dossie and Janet 4:20-11:20 Is polyamory really about the sex? Answer: yes! How sex can be there even when it's not; what is "sex" anyway; should the right to a vibrator-induced orgasm be included in the bill of rights? 11:20-16:50 What do you see as the relationship between BDSM and poly lifestyles? Dossie comments on the BDSM community recognizing many different roles; Janet muses that BDSM folks often don't see sex as binary 16:50-22:50 Thoughts on what "sex" and "monogamy" mean; what feelings are likely to encourage jealousy; learning how to take care of yourself when jealous 22:50-24:10 on competitiveness in the BDSM scene 24:10-32:35 on role-playing Samwise and Gollum; on the victim/villain roleplay scenario and women's prison movies; emotional journeying and uncovering and welcoming the "shadow" through role playing 32:35-36:10 vulnerability of the top through the prom queen/juvenile delinquent scene Curious about upcoming Radical Ecstasy workshops? Check out Austin, Texas' GWNN Bash on September 17th or in Vancouver, Canada on October 15th through Libido Events.