Overcoming PTSD with Brad Schipke

#26 Self Talk: You vs. Your Trauma Voice | Recovery Secrets Series


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Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

 

Self-talk can make or break your recovery. In this session, Brad explains how to turn constant inner chatter into a practical coaching voice that helps you act, regulate emotions, and rebuild beliefs after trauma. You’ll learn why awareness is the first step and how to separate “you” from your thoughts using the “internal roommate” visualization.

We’ll draw a clean line between honest, compassionate self-talk and toxic positivity. Instead of pretending everything is fine, you’ll practice believable statements that acknowledge pain while pointing you toward the next doable step. Brad shares personal examples from sobriety and daily life to show how this becomes automatic over time.

You’ll also hear simple prompts—like “How can I do this?” and “What’s good here?”—to shift your brain from problem-focus to solution-focus. By pairing self-talk with tiny actions (get vertical, make coffee, take a shower), you’ll build momentum without pressure or perfectionism.

 

💡 What You’ll Learn

  • How to spot negative self-talk fast using the “internal roommate” exercise

  • Why believable, honest self-talk works better than toxic positivity

  • A binary filter to label thoughts as helpful or unhelpful so you can redirect quickly

  • Two go-to questions that flip rumination into solutions

  • How to attach positive self-talk to existing routines like showers or morning coffee

  • Ways to use self-talk in difficult moments (urges, overwhelm, mistakes) without shaming yourself

  • How reframing thoughts rewires beliefs, behaviors, and long-term PTSD recovery results

  • Micro-steps to get moving when stuck in bed or frozen by anxiety

  • How to coach yourself like your recovery hero would

    🧠 Key Takeaway

    Believable, compassionate self-talk—rooted in reality, not hype—rewires beliefs and becomes an automatic engine for recovery.

     

    🔗 Next Steps

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    CHAPTERS:

    00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
    01:10 The Power of Self-Talk
    03:26 Brad's Personal Journey with Self-Talk
    06:50 Building a Positive Relationship with Yourself
    14:46 Practical Exercises for Positive Self-Talk
    26:52 The Importance of Asking the Right Questions
    31:15 Morning Routine and Self-Talk
    31:26 Applying Positive Self-Talk
    32:56 Changing Beliefs and Actions
    34:38 Perfectionism and Overwhelm
    37:13 Introspection and Self-Discovery
    47:13 Handling Adult Responsibilities
    55:09 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
     

    Topics Covered:

    PTSD recovery • trauma healing • self-talk for PTSD • nervous system regulation • emotional regulation • trauma coping tools • overcoming negative thoughts • toxic positivity vs honest self-talk • cognitive reframing • belief change in trauma • mindfulness for PTSD • sobriety and trauma recovery • overwhelm and routine pressure • internal family systems protectors • practical grounding skills • motivation after trauma • daily recovery routines • resilience building

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