Schools of Excellence: The No. 1 ECE & Private School Leadership Podcast

263. When School Leaders Drift: How to Anchoring Yourself Through Every Season


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Every school leader drifts, even the strongest ones.

Drift is not burnout, not laziness, and not a leadership flaw. It is one of the quietest, most human forces in leadership. And it shows up long before leaders ever realize they’re off course.

In this powerful episode, Chanie unpacks the two forms of leadership drift, Calm Drift and Chaos Drift,  and reveals why both are inevitable, expected, and deeply human. More importantly, she explains the one skill every school leader needs:

The ability to return.

Because leadership strength isn’t measured by how perfectly you stay on track.

Leadership strength is your capacity to return to your anchors, your rhythms, your clarity, and your truth.

Inside this episode, you’ll discover:

What Drift Really Is (and What It Isn’t)

  • Drift is not burnout — burnout is depletion.
  • Drift is not laziness — laziness is apathy.
  • Drift is the slow, subtle loss of connection to the rhythms that steady you.

The Two Types of Drift

1. Calm Drift:

The most dangerous form — when enrollment is strong, your team is stable, and systems are flowing. This comfort lulls leaders into relaxing their anchors, easing up on rhythms, and slipping into complacency without even noticing.

2. Chaos Drift:

When overwhelm, grief, or nonstop crisis slowly erode your routines, boundaries, health, and identity. It’s not dramatic at first — it’s the slow, quiet unraveling of “just one more thing.”

Why Drift Happens to Every Leader

Because leadership is human work.

And humans will always drift out of alignment through pressure, success, grief, or comfort.

The Path Back: Return

You don’t need a fresh start, a January reset, another software, or a new checklist.

You need to return.

Return to the rhythms that keep you anchored.

Return to the small practices that restore clarity.

Return to the version of you that leads with presence, steadiness, and grounded confidence.

Key School Leadership Themes You’ll Hear

  • Why systems require perfection — but rhythms allow humanity
  • How calm seasons can create complacency and drift
  • Why chaos drift drains your identity slowly and quietly
  • How rhythms become your “way home” in every season
  • Why consistency is not perfection — it is the willingness to return
  • How your anchors carry you through both storms and success
  • Why leaders don’t need more systems — they need sustainable rhythms

If you've been feeling off, foggy, tired, or disconnected — this episode will feel like a deep breath and a gentle nudge back to yourself.

If today’s episode made you realize you’ve drifted, whether in calm or chaos, start by identifying which part of your school’s foundation needs attention. 

Take the 5 Gear Diagnostic at schoolsofexcellence.com/diagnostic

It’s the fastest way to see which gear is sticking and what rhythm to return to next.

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