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Most guys are told to “just be nice” and “work harder.”
But that advice is ruining their relationships.
In this episode, we sat down with @EntrepreneursInCars — author of The Unplugged Alpha and one of the most influential voices in men’s self-development — to talk about why so many entrepreneurs sabotage their love lives without even realizing it.
Richard breaks down the uncomfortable truth:
- Why high achievers attract the wrong partners
- How losing frame kills desire
- What to look for (and avoid) when choosing a long-term partner
- And how to build a life that supports both business and relationships
This one’s for the founders, creators, and ambitious men who are tired of feeling like they have to choose between success and love.
If you want to build wealth without losing yourself (or your relationship), this is your playbook.
(00:00) Preview and Intro
(01:27) Why High Achievers End Up in Failing Relationships
(04:06) Beta-tization & The Degradation of Relationships
(06:16) Why Proximity, Familiarity & Exclusivity Can Kill Desire
(11:31) The More She Likes You, The Less It Costs You
(14:18) Should You Wait to Date Until You’re Rich?
(18:24) Why Women Are Attracted to 'Bad Boys'
(22:07) Green Flags in a Partner
(28:30) Has the Masculinity Pendulum Swung Back?
(30:23) Do Women Really Want to Prioritize Career Over Family?
(35:22) Why Simplicity & Polarity Work in Relationships
(38:05) How to Intentionally Lead in Long-Term Relationships
(41:52) Healthy Boundaries & Respect in Relationships
(44:19) Why Public Pedestalizing is a Mistake
(48:16) The Anti-Fragile Man Explained
(52:32) The Tate Brothers Influence
(58:57) How Men Build Trust Through Action
(01:00:49) Losing Male Friendships in Adulthood
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Watch This NEXT: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HlK2P76_ZZs
Want me to give you some help with your content business? Book in a call with me to discuss working together: https://www.voics.co/schedule
Most guys are told to “just be nice” and “work harder.”
But that advice is ruining their relationships.
In this episode, we sat down with @EntrepreneursInCars — author of The Unplugged Alpha and one of the most influential voices in men’s self-development — to talk about why so many entrepreneurs sabotage their love lives without even realizing it.
Richard breaks down the uncomfortable truth:
- Why high achievers attract the wrong partners
- How losing frame kills desire
- What to look for (and avoid) when choosing a long-term partner
- And how to build a life that supports both business and relationships
This one’s for the founders, creators, and ambitious men who are tired of feeling like they have to choose between success and love.
If you want to build wealth without losing yourself (or your relationship), this is your playbook.
(00:00) Preview and Intro
(01:27) Why High Achievers End Up in Failing Relationships
(04:06) Beta-tization & The Degradation of Relationships
(06:16) Why Proximity, Familiarity & Exclusivity Can Kill Desire
(11:31) The More She Likes You, The Less It Costs You
(14:18) Should You Wait to Date Until You’re Rich?
(18:24) Why Women Are Attracted to 'Bad Boys'
(22:07) Green Flags in a Partner
(28:30) Has the Masculinity Pendulum Swung Back?
(30:23) Do Women Really Want to Prioritize Career Over Family?
(35:22) Why Simplicity & Polarity Work in Relationships
(38:05) How to Intentionally Lead in Long-Term Relationships
(41:52) Healthy Boundaries & Respect in Relationships
(44:19) Why Public Pedestalizing is a Mistake
(48:16) The Anti-Fragile Man Explained
(52:32) The Tate Brothers Influence
(58:57) How Men Build Trust Through Action
(01:00:49) Losing Male Friendships in Adulthood
Support the show

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