Do You F*cking Mind?

302. Limerence Vs Love: How Obsession is Getting in the Way of you Finding Love


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Do you find that you fall heeadd over heels with someone on a first date? Or even BEFORE the first date? Do you watch Rom-Coms and think Oh MY GOD that’s what I need. My beautiful bean you are confusing love with limerence.

I’m going to take you through what limerence is, how it differs from love, why romantic movies are selling you a LIE and finally – how to chill and calm your farm when you’re dating. It might just help you find someone you’re actually compatible with!

RECOMMENDATIONS

  • Listen to my interview with Sabrina Zohar where we talked about Limerence at https://pod.fo/e/216a82.
  • Read The Gottman framework for the 3 Phases of Love at https://bit.ly/gottman-love .
  • Listen to my episode 48. Lets break down attachment theory / styles’ at  https://pod.fo/e/1f8308 .
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    • CREDITS

      Host: Alexis Fernandez       
      Executive Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper
      Digital Producer: Zoe Panaretos
      DYFM Social Producer: Shania Magua
      Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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