Power Your Parenting: Moms With Teens

# 303 Happy to Help


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Are you a mom juggling endless to-dos, only to wonder if it’s even possible to please a teen? Do you find yourself questioning whether perfectionism or people-pleasing is really helping you—or anyone in your family? You’re not alone, and this episode dives deep into these challenges with warmth and humor.


In this episode, host Colleen O’Grady sits down with author and podcast host Amy Wilson to unpack the invisible workload moms carry, the pressures of perfectionism, and the delicate art of balancing love with boundaries. Drawing from her new book, Happy to Help: Adventures of a People Pleaser, Amy shares laugh-out-loud moments and poignant insights into why moms often overextend themselves and how they can reclaim their time and joy. They explore societal expectations, self-imposed pressures, and how moms can reset the narrative by prioritizing self-care and genuine connection with their teens.


Amy Wilson is the author of the memoir When Did I Get Like This? and

her latest book, Happy to Help. Since 2016 she has been the co-host of

the Webby-honored podcast What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of

Motherhood. Amy is also an actor who appeared on Broadway and as a

series regular on TV sitcoms. She lives with her family in New York City.



Key Takeaways:

  1. Perfectionism Isn’t Sustainable: Moms often hold themselves to impossibly high standards, but recognizing and challenging these societal and self-imposed expectations can create space for authenticity and well-being.
  2. Redistribute the Invisible Workload: It’s not just about delegating tasks; it’s about teaching others in the household to notice, track, and take ownership of responsibilities.
  3. Connection Over Correction: Teens need to know they matter unconditionally. Balance pushing them toward their potential with simply being present and offering support without strings attached.


    This episode is a heartfelt reminder that you can step back, let go of perfectionism, and still thrive as a mom.


    Find out more at amywilson.com.


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