For Real: Life, Leadership, & Unlearning

304. Showing Up Imperfectly: How to Be a Better Ally and Embrace Authenticity This Year


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What does it truly mean to embrace your authentic self, even when it feels scary or uncertain? In this heartfelt episode, we welcome Don Mamone—photographer, speaker, author, and educator—to share their deeply personal journey of stepping away from societal expectations and living courageously outside the binary.

Don’s story is one of vulnerability, courage, and redefining identity. From facing decades of repression to embracing their true self and becoming a powerful advocate for authenticity, Don’s insights will leave you feeling inspired to explore your own journey and show up for others as an imperfect ally.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Don’s journey of self-discovery and the powerful moment they chose authenticity over societal expectations.
  • How to create safer, more inclusive spaces for marginalized communities, including practical tips for allies.
  • What it means to live outside the binary—and how this applies to everyone, not just those questioning gender norms.
  • The concept of "imperfect allyship" and why intention matters more than perfection when supporting others.
  • How unlearning outdated beliefs can lead to freedom, joy, and a deeper understanding of yourself and others.

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Connect with Don Mamone:

  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donmamone
  • Website: https://donmamone.com/
  • Different Doesn't Mean Broken: Living Courageously Outside the Binary: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1646494385/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_44MQ8MNYCWFPDDRBKZFF

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[00:02:30] I knew there was something different.

[00:05:56] To be authentic is euphoric.

[00:14:25] Courage means taking steps into the unknown.

[00:21:14] What does living outside the binary mean?

[00:28:15] Allyship isn’t perfect—it’s about intention.

[00:36:09] Are your actions creating a safer space?

[00:45:52] Who you are is exactly enough.

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