Sometimes we look at our blowups and wonder -- how did we even get here?

How did a wrong turn, an unpaid bill, an unwashed dish, or a burnt potholder... turn into World War III?

What happened here?

And why is this kind of nonsense tearing our family apart at its foundations?

It's because you're not really fighting about a potholder.

You're fighting about all the unmet expectations from the years and years of pain you've experienced. And so is your spouse.

How do you get out of this cycle?

And more important: what does Jesus require of you in this cycle?

What does is matter in eternity whether or not you succumb to these kinds of blow ups?

Well, my goal is to give you a bit of fear of the Lord to decide you are going to be a real follower of Jesus and the blow ups aren't gonna fly.

I hope you'll listen in with an open heart and a desire to grow and be edified. And ultimately a desire to grow closer to God's will for you.

Blessings,

Belah

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