Learning to live in relationship is a skill, and one that many of us have not learned, let alone even considered. But to have the intimate, connected relationships we innately crave, it is imperative we learn to move into 'we' thinking, considering our spouse and our relationship just as much as we consider ourselves. When we can deeply desire our spouse's happiness and fulfillment just as much as our own, when we truly desire to understand them and be a part of making their life significantly better, then we are on the path to living relationally. If we just want to do what we want, we have no business being in relationship because choosing another person in our lives means we are also choosing to stop asking who is right, and instead focus on what is right for the relationship.

Thanks for listening! Want to learn more about this concept? Check out these podcasts:

#110 The Cost of Being Right on Apple on Spotify

#156 The Benefits of Being Wrong on Apple on Spotify

#217 Self-Respect and Being Wrong on Apple on Spotify

#216 One Up and One Down Relationships on Apple on Spotify

#244 The Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify

#295 Safety in the Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify

#296 Creating More Safety in Your Relationship on Apple on Spotify

#326 Stop Being Right, Start Being Safe on Apple on Spotify

#331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify

#332 Sense of Self – It's All In Your Head on Apple on Spotify

#333 Sense of Self and Dating on Apple on Spotify

#334 Sense of Self and Marriage on Apple on Spotify

#335 Sense of Self and Parenting on Apple on Spotify

#336 Sense of Self and Our Spirituality on Apple on Spotify

#337 Sense of Self and Our Sexuality on Apple on Spotify

#375 Sense of Self and the Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify

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