The Late Bloomer Show

40. Are you being too picky?


Listen Later

When is pickiness a problem versus when your preferences are perceived as picky by others - that's the topic of this week's episode.

"Why haven't I found my person yet? Maybe I am just too picky?"

Sound familiar?

PIckiness can be a problem when the story you tell yourself is that nobody is good enough for you. I share why that type of story is typically rooted in past trauma and past self-protection; and what you can do about it.

I also explore how dating from a place of abundance instead of proving something or someone wrong helps you attract people you align with and are excited to be around.

In other words, when you stop trying to please others and instead turn the focus on your wants and needs, your person will gravitate towards you.

As you listen to this episode, ask yourself these questions: What do I sincerely want? How can I permit myself to be authentic? And, how can I work on remaining open to being surprised?

Chances are, my gorgeous friend, you are not too picky. But that doesn't mean there isn't some work to be done. SHOW NOTES: https://bit.ly/3h6s2qK

DATE BRAZEN ON INSTAGRAM: http://instagram/com/datebrazen

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

The Late Bloomer ShowBy Lily Womble

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

151 ratings


More shows like The Late Bloomer Show

View all
Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman by Damona Hoffman - Dates and Mates Media

Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman

305 Listeners

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships by Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

904 Listeners

We Met At Acme by Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

We Met At Acme

2,433 Listeners

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice by Dr. Morgan Anderson

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

1,129 Listeners

Ask a Matchmaker by Maria Avgitidis

Ask a Matchmaker

381 Listeners

Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast by Ali Jackson

Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

644 Listeners

Financial Feminist by Her First $100K

Financial Feminist

6,390 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

We Can Do Hard Things

41,506 Listeners

Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra Solomon by Dr. Alexandra Solomon

Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

298 Listeners

On Attachment by Stephanie Rigg

On Attachment

1,046 Listeners

Jillian on Love by Jillian Turecki | QCODE

Jillian on Love

1,385 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,335 Listeners

The Sabrina Zohar Show by The Sabrina Zohar Show

The Sabrina Zohar Show

4,978 Listeners

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

629 Listeners

Dating Intentionally by Talia Koren

Dating Intentionally

488 Listeners