Maybe you've done something wrong...

Maybe there's a deep discomfort that you keep trying to avoid...

Maybe you feel if you let yourself be with yourself quietly, the shame will swallow you whole...

The guilt and shame you feel may be justified.

And that is exactly why we need a sacrifice that allows us to live in confidence and freedom, peace and joy in life.

As followers of Jesus, we don't have confidence that "we're good enough" because of some baseless affirmation.

We have a strong foundation of reason as to why we have confidence.

The truth is, on our own...

We aren't good enough.

We don't deserve the goodness God gives us every day.

And we don't deserve His sacrifice.

But what we are as Jesus followers are receive-ers.

We are trust-ers.

We are people who say THE event that altered the human race 2000 years ago is WHY I can have freedom from shame.

If you have felt like you've been "paying for" the sin you've committed, it's time to receive the payment from God and start walking in your freedom as His son and daughter.

His payment actually means something in your day to day life.

You can never earn your way into being worthy of His love and goodness, peace and freedom. You get to believe and receive it. He is that good and loving and merciful and kind.

I invite you to let the gift of Jesus' sacrifice move you today.

Spend time in the story today and this weekend. Remember and receive His sacrifice for every part of your life and heart.

Love,

Belah

PS - We'd love to walk with you in this journey of living free in Christ, connected with your spouse in passion, purpose, playfulness and doing God's will as man or woman of God. We're here for you, find out the details at: delightyourmarriage.com/cc

PPS - Here is a quote from a recent graduate:

DW Before: We were planning on how to keep a family together while breaking our family up - We were at the end of ourselves and decided it was time to give up and go our separate ways.

DW After: WHERE DO I BEGIN!!! I have grown in patience, perspective, my faith and connection with God, my understanding of my husband, and peace. I have learned how to build my marriage.

​​ Change starts with me - God can only save my marriage if I am humble enough to surrender and let Him start with ME!!!!

​​Belah always pointed us to Jesus NOT to a strategy or an idea or concept. It was directly and purely to JESUS. He was the main focus, and everything else just fell into place. It helped me to re-center everything in my life.