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5 TRUE Reasons Why Girls Play Hard To Get! (Untold Secrets To Female Behaviors)

Are you constantly meeting her needs in the relationship, but she is not reciprocating? 

Do you find yourself chasing her more often than, and you feel like she is playing hard to get?

If this thought ever crosses your mind, you are in for a special treat. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the nuanced nature of romantic pursuits by uncovering five genuine reasons behind women's inclination to adopt the 'hard to get' stance. 

Apollonia sympathizes with how men struggle to get a woman's attention when she is playing hard to get it. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti guides you on recognizing the potential misinterpretation of women's intentions; the episode advocates for a balanced approach, emphasizing reciprocity as a pivotal factor.

Apollonia's advice will make you understand why she is playing hard to get and how to get her to start reciprocating. With a focus on decoding intricate female behaviors, Apollonia adeptly illustrates the various traits associated with this approach while providing insights to distinguish between healthy play and toxic dynamics.

So, if you are having trouble pursuing her while she plays hard to get, how to impact her positively to get her to call back, or even know this push-and-pull dynamic is healthy, this podcast episode is for you! 

Key points in this episode:

• 1:23 - She wants to see if you're invested. Often, this is a very materialistic relationship; she wants you to buy her expensive items and take her to expensive places, which is one reason women play hard to get.
• 2:00 - Apollonia's example of a transactional relationship. The guy will provide all the finances and, in return, feel good being with a good-looking woman.
• 2:54 - Chase me and show me you are worth it. This modern-day dating mindset of women trying to play hard to get can turn toxic.
• 3:32- The difference between pursuing women and chasing women. Apollonia will explain the difference between these two: following her is when you take more initiative; however, the women must return the favor equally. 
• 4:25 - She is not like "other girls". Women get judged for everything they do; this is a factor of why she is playing hard to get and play games with you. They want to be respected and think highly of.
• 6:28 - She is trying to make you jealous. This is an immature way to play hard to get; they will flirt with other men and talk about another man.. she will do this to see how you will react and make you jealous.
• 7:30 - A woman will try to make you jealous, but this is when you come in to state your boundaries. It is your job to sit down and talk to her about what you want in the relationship and see if she will try to justify her actions. This is when you will see the real side of her. This is when you decide whether to stay with her or not.
• 9:00 - Apollonia explains if a high-valued man will confront the situation of handling a woman trying to make him jealous. He will be assertive with his values, and already place boundaries in the beginning and talk to her about what he wants in the relationship.
• 10:15 - She is in and out of your life. It's a type of "relationship" that she will be with you for attention. This is her playing hard to get; she uses you for affection. 

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