Shameless Leadership

730: How to Quiet the Haters, the Doubters, and the Skeptics


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If your voice has value and you’re using it as an agent to heal yourself and help others, it’s your job to be aware of the external noise you allow to inform your thoughts, beliefs, and actions. 

There will be people who try to diminish your voice, your power, and your credibility.

There will be people who do not believe you, who downright oppose you, who say you are not who you say you are.

There will be people who, out of their own insecurities, will deny your gifts, roll their eyes at your talent, and question your motives.  

How will you handle those who are disrespectful, dismissive, diminishing, and doubtful of who you are becoming?

This is a big question. It can be a lot to wrap your head around as you choose a path of growth, power, and agency.  

So YOU must know who you are and what you stand for.

In this episode, we will categorize the Haters, the Doubters, and the Skeptics in a meaningful way that will allow you to more clearly see how these folks take up space in your life.  

Then we will walk through 3 questions to ask yourself as you navigate interactions and situations with these folks so that you may conscientiously decide who gets to have a vote in who you are becoming and who does not. 

Your voice has value. Period. Even when others are questioning it, doubting it, or downright denying it.

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