Stepping away from an abusive relationship is like navigating through a maze blindfolded; it’s difficult, it’s frightening, but with the right guidance, you can find a way out.  In this episode I discuss steps for those considering this brave transition.  

The conversation is a deep dive into the world of separation planning amidst the turmoil of an abusive relationship, shedding light on not just the emotional, but also the strategic and practical considerations needed for a safe departure.

This episode unfolds the layers of preparation required in the face of coercion and control, the type that makes your heart race and palms sweat when you think of leaving. We touch on the essential steps of discreetly securing your documents and valuables, to establishing private communications and financial independence. 

It’s about understanding the unpredictable nature of an abuser when control slips from their grasp and ensuring the safety of children who are embroiled in this complex scenario. You’ll hear about the importance of choosing whom to trust with your sensitive plans and how to document everything to uphold your credibility.

Finally, we embrace the harsh reality of breaking free from a controlling partner, especially when they refuse to accept the end. Our discussion extends to include the invaluable role of professional support during these times, from legal advice to the support of a divorce coach. 
The choices aren’t easy, from changing locks to potentially leaving your home to ensure your safety.  My aim is to empower you with the strategies that can help you reclaim your life with courage and determination. This episode isn't just a conversation; it's an ally for those ready to turn the page towards a safer, more peaceful chapter.

I'm a specialist Separation, Divorce & Co-Parenting Coach based in Melbourne, Australia.

I support women to strategically navigate ongoing control and other forms of abuse after separation, and to optimise their outcome for themselves and their children.

Part of my specialist coaching includes helping women to optimise their court outcomes, particularly parenting arrangements. If you are navigating the court system with a controlling former partner, or suspect that you might in the future, I can help.


To learn more about what I do, and how to work with me, visit:
https://www.danielleblackcoaching.com.au

For more information about post-separation abuse: https://www.danielleblackcoaching.com.au/thank-you

For more information about separation planning (including a checklist):
https://www.danielleblackcoaching.com.au/separationplanning


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