Alicia dives deep into a feeling many stepmoms know all too well—that gut-punch of jealousy or sadness when your stepkids talk about their mom. Whether it’s an innocent story, a glowing compliment, or yet another comparison, the emotional reaction can be real—and often comes with a heavy dose of guilt.

Alicia gets real about where those feelings come from, why they’re completely normal, and how to stop judging yourself for them. She unpacks the emotional triggers, gives practical mindset shifts, and shares personal stories that will have you feeling seen, heard, and way less alone in this messy, layered role.

If you’ve ever wondered why you feel the way you do—and how to hold space for your own emotions without spiraling or shutting down—this episode is for you.

Key Highlights:

• Why jealousy toward the mom doesn’t make you a “bad stepmom”
• The real emotional triggers behind comparison and resentment
• How to respond when your stepkids bring up their mom (without losing your cool)
• Tips for managing guilt, boundaries, and self-worth in these moments
• Real-life stories from Alicia’s journey that’ll have you saying “OMG, SAME”

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If this episode made you feel more human, more seen, or just less alone, send it to another stepmom who’s been silently struggling with this exact thing. You never know who needs it.

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