Are you stuck being the only one enforcing structure while your partner hands out snacks and screen time like it’s Halloween?

Listen in as Alicia dives into one of the most frustrating parts of stepmom life — the moment you realize you’ve become the “bad cop” in your own home… and your partner is just vibing with chaos.

You’ll learn why this dynamic happens in blended families, how it affects your mental load and relationship, and what you can actually do to fix it. Hint: It’s not about being stricter—it’s about being smarter with boundaries, communication, and emotional self-preservation.

Key Highlights:

• Why you’re always the one enforcing rules (and why it’s not your fault)
• How guilt and avoidance shape your partner’s parenting style
• Scripts for conversations that shift the dynamic back to a team effort
• What to do when your partner refuses to step up
• Why stepping back doesn’t mean giving up

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