Living with Heart: From Birth to Death

98 - Addiction and its Formation


Listen Later

Click here to read the episode highlights. 

 

The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) and The Voice of the Heart Center (vothcenter.com). You can connect with Dr. Chip Dodd at [email protected]. Contact Bryan Barley for coaching at [email protected]

 

Be sure to subscribe to Dr Chip Dodd’s new Substack. He will be sharing two to three articles a week. The topics focus on healthy relationship, personal growth, and leadership. 

  • What is Substack? It is a subscription-based platform that allows independent
  • writers and other creators to publish content directly to their subscribers’ inboxes.

    • The cost of the subscription is only $7 a month. Dr. Dodd shares content two to three times a week. The content focuses on healthy relationship, personal growth, and leadership. To subscribe, use the link above or go to chipdodd.com.
    •  

      In this new season, “What is Addiction” we will focus on three main aspects of addiction:

      • what addiction is
      • how addiction operates
      • what recovery entails
      •  

        How Addiction Operates

         

        Addiction as a feelings problem

         

        Addiction is a “feelings” disorder. A disorder of not knowing how to face, feel, and deal with the feelings that come with living life on life’s terms. 

         

        Life is a “feelings” experience, one we don’t control as much as we must face, feel, and deal with as wisely and productively as we possibly can.

         

        To face life wisely and productively requires that we live in connection with others and God in an intimate way. 

         

        The substitute for living relationally connected is to distract ourselves from our own needs. This means that we attempt to find a counterfeit connection that offers a relief, but not what we genuinely need.

         

        The distraction from our own hearts becomes the addictive process.

        Addiction is marked by negative consequences for the addicted person, but their actions don’t change.

         

        Addiction also has its foundation on the defense of denial.

         

        Denial has five characteristics:

        1. Denial of facing the reality of what is occurring.
        2. Denial of the feelings related to reality.
        3. Denial of the needs related to the feelings.
        4. Denial about talking about the first three characteristics.
        5. Denial of the need to trust that things can actually be different.
        6.  

          Addiction is rooted in toxic shame.

           

          Toxic shame is the internal sense of contempt a person has towards 

          • their feelings and needs
          • the “clumsiness” of being human 
          • the reality of imperfection

          • Click here to continue reading the episode highlights.

            ...more
            View all episodesView all episodes
            Download on the App Store

            Living with Heart: From Birth to DeathBy Dr. Chip Dodd & Bryan Barley

            • 4.9
            • 4.9
            • 4.9
            • 4.9
            • 4.9

            4.9

            105 ratings


            More shows like Living with Heart: From Birth to Death

            View all
            Wild at Heart by John Eldredge

            Wild at Heart

            1,701 Listeners

            FamilyLife Today® by FamilyLife Network

            FamilyLife Today®

            1,720 Listeners

            That Sounds Fun with Annie F. Downs by That Sounds Fun Network

            That Sounds Fun with Annie F. Downs

            10,515 Listeners

            Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex by Dr. Juli Slattery and Authentic Intimacy®

            Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

            1,664 Listeners

            Typology by Ian Morgan Cron

            Typology

            3,208 Listeners

            Knowing Faith by Kyle Worley, JT English, Jen Wilkin

            Knowing Faith

            2,364 Listeners

            Raising Boys & Girls by That Sounds Fun Network

            Raising Boys & Girls

            1,912 Listeners

            The Bible Recap by Tara-Leigh Cobble

            The Bible Recap

            36,426 Listeners

            The Jennie Allen Podcast by Jennie Allen

            The Jennie Allen Podcast

            6,641 Listeners

            Dadville with Dave Barnes and Jon McLaughlin by That Sounds Fun Network

            Dadville with Dave Barnes and Jon McLaughlin

            1,388 Listeners

            Deepen with Pastor Joby Martin by Pastor Joby Martin

            Deepen with Pastor Joby Martin

            589 Listeners

            The Family Discipleship Podcast by Cassie Bryant, Chelsea Griffin, Adam Griffin

            The Family Discipleship Podcast

            589 Listeners

            Lisa Harper's Back Porch Theology by AccessMore

            Lisa Harper's Back Porch Theology

            2,886 Listeners

            The Best of You by Dr. Alison Cook

            The Best of You

            905 Listeners

            The Dr. Josh Axe Show by Dr. Josh Axe

            The Dr. Josh Axe Show

            1,423 Listeners