A HOLY MESS | Purpose, Recovery, Trauma, Life Coaching, Shame, Regret

Welcome back!

This is part 2 of a 2-part episode—so if you didn't listen to episode 76 with Therapist Jim Beebe—please pause this episode jump onto episode 76 first, and THEN come back to this one. 

"Maybe the shadow of sadness is joy, and the shadow of shame is grace."--Jim Beebe. 

Today, Jim dives into concepts like radical acceptance and how to become more grace-based with ourselves.

If you are a professional at judging yourself, this episode will bless you and empower you with tools to help you.

Jim is one of our show's go-to experts and guides! Jim has been a therapist for over 40 years and has worked with thousands of people. Yes, thousands. He knows his stuff—He was originally going to seminary to become a Pastor, but life hit and happened, and by the Grace of God, the Lord led him into becoming a Therapist—and I couldn't be more grateful! He and his wife also teach a marriage seminar that is powerful and amazing. If you want more info or to get in touch with Jim—818-787-1242

Also, if you want to experience more of the LOVE and GRACE of God, I got you! --Jump into The Feel Better Journey—a 6-week program to help you experience more peace and joy. It's a biblically based Program that was created through blood, sweat, and tears of experience, finding freedom in my own life, and then walking through the material with others.

If you are ready to feel better and walk in more acceptance and grace for yourself —no matter your story or history--this is the program for you! 

Sign up here: https://www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney

Love,

Dani 

Want to hang out weekly for six weeks with me?!—Join "The Feel Better Journey,"—The program starts at the end of February, and I'd love to have you join us! Sign up soon! 

If you have questions and want to connect or have questions—schedule a virtual coffee with me! I'd love to connect! 

Here's the link to my calendar: Dani's Calendly

Link for more info and to sign up for The Feel Better Journey: https://www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney

To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com

Need prayer or want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> [email protected]  

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Hello, my friends!

Today's episode is ONE of my favorites EVER! It's with Therapist Jim Beebe—and if you've been around the Podcast for a bit, you know Jim is one of our favorite guests and one of my favorite humans on the planet! 

Jim has been a therapist for 40 years and is an expert on humans and their emotional and spiritual experiences. Jim has a beautiful family and has been married to his wife Jane for 35 years, and they have two grown kids. 

Ok, so today is one of those episodes you will probably want to listen to over and over again—the way Jim describes our struggles with our thoughts or, as he likes to say it, "our shitty committee" or harsh voice in our head is so helpful. Jim also talks about why it's so hard to change our thoughts. If you struggle with your thought life—THIS is the episode for you!

I know many of us shame ourselves because we still wrestle with our thoughts and feelings at times—and we sometimes are so hard on ourselves because it's so difficult to change.

I think Jim's perspective and wisdom will bless you! 

This is a 2 part episode—so be sure to check back for Episode 77 tomorrow! 

I love you guys—I am here for you—please send prayer requests and let me know how I can support you in prayer!

🌟Jump into the next round of The Feel Better Journey with me as your guide. It's a 6-week program designed to help you FEEL BETTER and find more peace, especially if you're struggling with feelings of unworthiness, regret or you're hard on yourself.

If judging yourself is a superpower, I got you, and this program will help. 

I'd love to journey with you! Reach out if you'd like to set up a coffee chat with me to find out more here. Or sign up for the Program here: https://www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney

Love,

Dani 

Want to hang out weekly for six weeks with me?!—Join "The Feel Better Journey,"—The program starts at the end of February, and I'd love to have you join us! Sign up soon! Space is limited for this round. 

If you have questions and want to connect to see if it's the right time for you—jump into my calendar and book a virtual coffee with me! I'd LOVEEE to connect! I love connecting with our Podcast community! Here's the link to my calendar: Dani's Calendly

Link for more info and to sign up for The Feel Better Journey: https://www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney

To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com

Need prayer or want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> [email protected]  

To get in touch on Social Media -> Facebook and Instagram

Want to join Dani's email list? https://mailchi.mp/danisumner/email-list

☎️Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆

Hello, my friend! 

Have you been affected by toxic beliefs within some Christian circles? I know we all probably have at some point or another. I hope this episode encourages you. 

This episode was prompted by a conversation I had with my son Zac. Someone mentioned to him and some friends that if they follow Jesus closely they won't struggle in life... There's so much to unpack here--but I want you to know you don't have to repent for being human. Or repent for human struggles or tendencies like wrestling through depression, anxiety, fear, or sadness. There are enough barriers in our walk with Jesus on this planet. Rest assured—those fundamental human struggles, He is not holding them against you. I promise. 

I'm fired up today. 'Chill Dani' will return in episode 76. Maybe. Haha. Actually, I've never been labeled 'chill,' but you get what I mean. 

🎉🥳Doors are closing soon! Jump into the next round of The Feel Better Journey with me as your guide. It's a 6-week program designed to help you FEEL BETTER and find your worth, especially if you're struggling with feelings of unworthiness, regret, or hard on yourself. If judging yourself is a superpower, I got you, and this program will help.

I'd love to journey with you!

Reach out if you'd like to set up a coffee chat with me to find out more here on my calendar. 

Love,

Dani 

🌟Want to hang out weekly for six weeks with me?!—Join "The Feel Better Journey,"—The program starts at the end of February, and I'd love to have you join us! Sign up soon! Space is limited for this round. 

Link for more info and to sign up for The Feel Better Journey: https://www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney

🌟To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com

🌟Need prayer or want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> [email protected]  

🌟To get in touch on Social Media -> Facebook and Instagram

🌟Want to join Dani's email list? https://mailchi.mp/danisumner/email-list

☎️Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆

Hello, my friend! 

If you love honest and real humans, you will love today's episode and be encouraged so much by 2 of our very own! Carol Smithbeck and Kim Luna recently went through my new program, The Feel Better Journey. Today they share their experience, and I love their hearts and how candidly they share their struggles. 

You are not alone, my friend! You are sure to be encouraged by them! 

Please reach out if you need prayer.

Enjoy today's episode. 

Love,

Dani 

🌟Want to hang out weekly for six weeks with me?!—Join "The Feel Better Journey,"—The program starts soon, and I'd love to have you join us!

*Space is limited for this round. So reach out if you have questions and want to connect to see if it's the right time for you—jump into my calendar and book a virtual coffee with me! I'd LOVEEE to connect! I love connecting with our Podcast community! Here's the link to my calendar to schedule a time: Dani's Calendar

🎉🥳Link for more info and to sign up for The Feel Better Journey: https://www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney

To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com

Need prayer or want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> [email protected]  

To get in touch on Social Media -> Facebook and Instagram

Want to join Dani's email list? https://mailchi.mp/danisumner/email-list

☎️Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆

Hello, my friend! 

*On the fence or have more questions about The Feel Better Journey? Or want to know if it's the right season for you to jump into the program when it launches again at the end of February? Let's connect for a few mins on the phone to chat through it all. I'd LOVE to connect with you! Here's a link to my calendar to set a time--or email [email protected] with your questions. 

Oh, you guys, today's episode is so helpful! Therapist Jim Beebe is our guest--Jim has such a way of making us feel normal and teaching us not to resent ourselves or our journey. He shares about the 'gift of being human' and other thoughts that are so helpful and hopeful. 

He shares so candidly about his own life and inner workings. And he talks about tools that help us build resiliency inside and how to get through rough moments. Jim is such a gift to our community! 

"The struggles themselves can keep us in our struggles."—Jim Beebe. 

To get in touch with Jim: 818-787-1242. Here's a link to Jim's Article on Acceptance. 

Other conversations/episodes with Jim as a guest: Episode 5, Episode 6, Episode 29, Episode 61 & Episode 62

Mentions:

Man's Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankl

Alanon daily devotional

Jesus calling

Scriptures mentioned:

2 Corinthians 10:5

Romans 8:37

Romans 12:2

Isaiah 49:21

Love,

Dani 

🤗Want to hang out weekly for six weeks with me?!—Join "The Feel Better Journey,"🎉—The program starts at the end of February, and I'd love to have you join us! Sign up soon! Space is limited for this round. 

🌟If you have questions and want to connect to see if it's the right time for you—jump into my calendar and book a virtual coffee with me! I'd LOVEEE to connect! I love connecting with our Podcast community! Here's the link to my calendar: Dani's Calendly

💫Link for more info and to sign up for The Feel Better Journey: https://www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney

🎉To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com

🙏🏽Need prayer or want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> [email protected]  

🤳🏼To get in touch on Social Media -> Facebook and Instagram

🤳🏼Want to join Dani's email list? https://mailchi.mp/danisumner/email-list

🥳Need a step-by-step guide for Spiritual Growth in any season? Join The Spiritual Intentions Framework- 12 foundational principles to Spiritual Growth when all else fails -> https://www.danisumner.com/spiritualintentionsframework 

☎️Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆

What's up, my friend?!

Hello! Ok, I'm so excited to introduce you all to Dr. Erica Garcia Thomas today! She is truly a miracle—she's been through hell and back and has such a great perspective on life and her process—she's so refreshing. You will love her. AND she's one of "us" and part of our Podcast family, which soo blesses me to share her with you all!

Erica's so authentic and vulnerable in her sharing today, and I know it will bless you with her honesty. She candidly shares about struggles with an emptiness inside she has wrestled through and not feeling good enough, even though she is an overachiever. She's also very open about how difficult it can be to embrace God's love and grace sometimes. I'm telling you, she's the real deal! 

No matter where you are on your journey, Erica will encourage you with her heart, experience, and transparency.

Erica was part of the first round of The Feel Better Journey, and I wanted her to share her experience and what it was like with you all. She took the 'host seat' for a bit and asked me some questions, too—that was fun! ;) 

Remember, no matter where you are in life or what you are going through, you are NOT alone! Reach out if you need prayer. We are here-- [email protected]

Love,

Dani 

💫Want to hang out weekly for six weeks with me?!—Join "The Feel Better Journey,"—The program starts at the end of February, and I'd love to have you join us! Sign up soon, space is limited for this round. 

🤳🏼If you have questions and want to connect to see if it's the right time for you—jump into my calendar and book a virtual coffee with me! I'd LOVEEE to connect! I love connecting with our Podcast community! Here's the link to my calendar: Dani's Calendly

🎉Link for more info and to sign up for The Feel Better Journey: https://www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney

To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com

Need prayer or want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> [email protected]  

To get in touch on Social Media -> Facebook and Instagram

Want to join Dani's email list? https://mailchi.mp/danisumner/email-list

Need a step-by-step guide for Spiritual Growth in any season? Join The Spiritual Intentions Framework- 12 foundational principles to Spiritual Growth when all else fails -> https://www.danisumner.com/spiritualintentionsframework 

☎️Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆

Hi friend!

I share a funny story in today's episode that I hope encourages you! And I share one tip that has enormously helped me over the years: how not to receive harsh words when said to you. I hope it helps you! 

Song mentioned: "Damn It Feels Good To Be Me" by Andy Grammer // iTunes // Spotify // YouTube

The verse mentioned Ephesians 3:17a-18: "And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord's holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ,”

🌟🎉Also, if you are interested in journeying with me in the 6-week group coaching program—"The Feel Better Journey,"—doors officially open today!🎉🌟 The program begins at the end of February, and I'd love to have you join us! Space is limited. If you are interested and have questions, please email me, and we can grab a quick call. Please check out the link for more info and to sign up: https://www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney

Love,

Dani 

To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com

Need prayer or want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> [email protected]  

To get in touch on Social Media -> Facebook and Instagram

Want to join Dani's email list? https://mailchi.mp/danisumner/email-list

Need a step-by-step guide for Spiritual Growth in any season? Join The Spiritual Intentions Framework- 12 foundational principles to Spiritual Growth when all else fails -> https://www.danisumner.com/spiritualintentionsframework 

☎️Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆

Hello my friend!

Holy moly, can a lack of deep relationships burden our hearts and minds, especially when we long for deep friendships. 

In today's episode, I talk about the power of and our desire for deep relationships that we all long for. Yet, so many of us struggle to find those relationships, so if you're struggling, hang in there. 

You are not alone! 

I also shared a funny story that I hope makes you laugh and that you don't judge me for! I'm a work in progress… ;) 

Quotes of the week: 

"Next to grace, I bet God thinks making us need each other was one of his best ideas." -Bob Goff.

Song of the week: 

“Brother” NEEDTOBREATHE // YouTube // Spotify // iTunes //

Inspiring Scripture:

Judges 4:8 "Barak said to her, "if you go with me, I will go' but if you don't go with me, I won't go."

So much love to you,

Dani

🌟JOIN the Waitlist for "The Feel Better Journey," a 6-week group coaching course to help you feel better as you journey through your struggles, hardships, and loss. Email [email protected] to join the waitlist or to find out more! 🌟Launching in February! 

💫 Need a step-by-step guide for Spiritual growth in any season? Join The Spiritual Intentions Framework- 12 foundational principles to Spiritual Growth when all else fails -> https://www.danisumner.com/spiritualintentionsframework 

🤗 To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com

🙏🏽 Need prayer or want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> [email protected]   

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☎️Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆

Hello, my friend!

Quick encouragement episodes are back, and I hope they encourage you!

In today's episode, I share a quick story and walk you through a quick visualization meditation as well. I hope it helps you! 

Quotes of the week: 

“The meaning of our lives emerges in the surrender of ourselves to an adventure of becoming who we are not yet.” —Brennan Manning

Song of the week: 

“Goodness of God” CeCe Winans // YouTube // Spotify // iTunes //

Inspiring Scripture:

Proverbs 29:18a “Where there is no vision, the people perish”

So much grace & LOVE to you,

Dani

🌟JOIN the Waitlist for "The Feel Better Journey," a 6-week group coaching course to help you feel better as you journey through your struggles, hardships, and loss. Email [email protected] to join the waitlist! 

💫 Need a step-by-step guide for Spiritual growth in any season? Join The Spiritual Intentions Framework- 12 foundational principles to Spiritual Growth when all else fails -> https://www.danisumner.com/spiritualintentionsframework 

🤗 To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com

🙏🏽 Need prayer or want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> [email protected]  

🎉Want to join Dani's email list? https://mailchi.mp/danisumner/email-list

☎️Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆

Happy New Year, friend!

I'm praying for you and your 2023. Good things ahead! 

I hope today’s episode blesses and encourages you! 

Verses mentioned: Ephesians 3:16-21

Song mentioned: 

“Keeping Your Head Up” by Birdy. // iTunes // Spotify // YouTube (Fyi, the YouTube link is a mixed version we found--not the original song)

So much gratitude & love for each of you,

Dani :)

🌟JOIN the Waitlist for "The Feel Better Journey," a 6-week group coaching program to help you feel better as you journey through your struggles, hardships, and loss. Email [email protected] to join the waitlist! 

💫 Need a step-by-step guide for Spiritual growth in any season? Join The Spiritual Intentions Framework- 12 foundational principles to Spiritual Growth when all else fails -> https://www.danisumner.com/spiritualintentionsframework 

🤗 To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com

🙏🏽 Need prayer or want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> [email protected]  

🎉Want to join Dani's email list? https://mailchi.mp/danisumner/email-list