Very often society rewards and embraces narcissistic behavior. The narcissists appear to be very charming and persuasive to those they are not involved with on a regular basis. Anyone who stays around one long enough, will definitely see their true colors. However, if you're dealing with one, gain as much knowledge as you can about the disorder. Once you have a clear understanding, you'll be better equipped with knowing how to make your next move. You'll understand how to play chess and not checkers and how to use reverse psychology to regain your power and peace.