Accidental Swingers

Every couple who has entered, or thought about entering, the swinger lifestyle worries about the emotions and feelings that come with seeing your partner having sex with another person. They worry about having feelings for others and what impact it can have on their current relationship.

Crimson Dragonfly and Phoenix Phyre join Myrina and Tristan in this roundtable discussion about feelings and emotions in the swinger lifestyle. They talk about the fear and jealousy that can occur as well as feeling conflicted and the guilt some feel when they suddenly have feelings for one of their play partners.

The foursome shares some of their experiences, talk about their own issues dealing with jealousy and guilt and share what happened when they first experienced intimate feelings for a lover. They also uncover the magic bullet to working through all these issues: communication with your partner; and give some tips and examples of how to do just that.

The Accidental Swingers discuss the tough choices Myrina had to make as a Hotwife when it comes to playing with "single" men. She made some decisions about what consensual non-monogamy means for her when it comes to playing.

They talk about the week of play with Myrina's visiting boyfriend and why that relationship is coming to a very visible end.

They introduce their newest playmate, "Brad" and they talk about their first time playing with a single guy after meeting him for a first time that night. And, in pure Accidental Swinger fashion, how they f'ed that up but learned some great lessons!

Days after returning from her hotwife trip, Myrina and Tristan go on a sleepover date with Tristan's girlfriend and her husband.

Wanting to experience some one-on-one girl time without any men around, Myrina and Amber decide to leave the guys at the bar and have their own playtime.

Afterward, Tristan and Amber almost get us thrown out of the hotel. And later what looked like an evening cut short for Myrina turns into a hot FMF and then a long night for everyone!

In this bonus podcast episode, Myrina and Tristan talk about the circumstances and issues that brought them to the point of reconsidering their plans to attend Naughty N'awlins 2021.

They also discuss what happened in their "vanilla lives" that subsequently turned ALL of their hot and sexy vacation plans upside down.

Myrina and Tristan share their feelings with each other after Myrina arrives home from the trip that solidified her status as a Hotwife and afforded Tristan the opportunity to have a few "hall passes" of his own. As Tristan often says, this time was an "inflection point" in their lifestyle journey. They also talk about their upcoming return to Naughty N'awlins and realize, in a strange way, they've come full circle as they return to New Orleans but they bring with them 3 years of wisdom, knowledge and growth to the experience that awaits them this year.

Experiencing sex and sexuality on HER terms, Myrina's transition into a Hotwife and Slut begins. After her 10-day trip turned into a 3-week stay, Myrina took full advantage of her "hall pass" and ended up with playdates almost every single night for the second half of the trip. Myrina and Tristan, separately, both recorded their thoughts about the transformation that was taking place and the emotions that surrounded what was obviously a huge shift in their lifestyle dynamic. Myrina also encouraged Tristan to have a few "hall pass" dates of his own and he talks about a surprising reaction to the style of play one of his dates prefers.

In May of 2021, Myrina and Tristan decided to start recording, what they call, "After Party Episodes". Recorded after a party or event(ful) weekend, After Party episodes chronicle what Myrina and Tristan are doing "right now" - as they emerge from their Covid-induced hibernation and begin swinging again. These raw and largely unedited episodes are typically posted within 24 hours of recording and are available as a Thank You to listeners who donate to help support the Accidental Swingers podcast. We are making the first After Party episode available to ALL listeners as a Thank You to you as well! (Visit our website for more information on how to support our podcast and get access to all the After Party bonuses!)

Myrina has to travel to her childhood home to help out family. With ten days away from home, Tristan tells Myrina to let her hair down and try to use her "hall pass". Little did they know that what was supposed to be a 10-day trip would completely change both Myrina and Tristan forever.

What do an over-served playmate, pierced "lady parts", a drummer, and an exhibitionist all have in common? They're the collection of steamy, sexy, and fun stories that round out this episode. Nine months into their lifestyle journey was the end of the year and Myrina and Tristan went out with a bang .... literally!

Hearing that the holidays were a downtime for swingers, Myrina and Tristan packed their calendar with playdates and playmates. The year-end brought closure to one relationship but unknowingly opened the door for experiences and a transition that Myrina and Tristan were not expecting.

Not quite as accidental or unexpected as the accidental boyfriend; we kinda saw this one coming. So why do Myrina and Tristan find themselves, once again, surrounded by so many emotional landmines?

Myrina struggles with Tristan's new relationship. Communication, sharing and trust become the key components to navigating these feelings and issues. Myrina digs deeps to understand her feelings and has a few epiphanies that help her understand her reaction to Tristan's new girlfriend. A valuable experience for two relatively new swingers to have to face head-on.

With continued clarification and reworking of expectations, Myrina and Tristan have one of the most hot, steamy and sexy playdates with Tristan's girlfriend and her husband!