All the Grief

In this episode, Mark Rafaely shares his profound journey through grief, faith, and community, highlighting how Jewish rituals and cultural practices have supported him in navigating loss and finding meaning in life after tragedy.

key topics

• Mark Rafaely's grief origin story involving the loss of his parents
• The role of Jewish rituals like Shiva and Kaddish in processing grief
• The impact of community and cultural identity on healing
• How immigration and cultural roots shape perceptions of loss
• The significance of rituals like lighting candles and building altars in remembrance

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Ksenia Merck shares her profound journey through grief, her creative process in illustrating her husband's science fiction novel Ghost Flower, and how art and love serve as healing forces. This episode explores themes of love, loss, legacy, and the transformative power of creative expression.

Connect with Ksenia

https://www.merckiipress.com/

Instagram: @merck2press

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/merck-ii-press

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/merck2press

key topics

• Ksenia Merck’s grief origin story and her journey through loss
• The creative process behind illustrating Ghost Flower
• Themes of love, sacrifice, and legacy in the novel
• The role of art in healing and connecting with loved ones
• The importance of self-compassion and taking time to grieve
• The collaboration with her late husband’s work and their shared vision
• Travel and its influence on artistic and spiritual journeys
• The significance of love stories and enduring connections

takeaways

• Art and creativity can serve as powerful tools for healing grief.
• Love and legacy can transcend physical absence and continue to influence us.
• Taking time to grieve and honoring your own process is essential.
• Creative collaboration with loved ones’ work can deepen connection and understanding.
• Travel and exploration can inspire and deepen spiritual journeys.

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In this episode, Andrea and Rebecca, welcome back sisters Aurena Green and Brianna Rose to explore the multifaceted nature of grief, transition, and the importance of trust and spaciousness in healing. They share personal stories, insights on navigating loss, and the power of supportive relationships.

key topics

• The experience of moving through grief and transition
• The importance of trust and spaciousness in healing
• Personal stories of loss and resilience
• The role of supportive relationships in grief
• Insights on emotional regulation and nervous system hacks
• The impact of family dynamics and individuation
• The significance of owning one's contribution to life changes The relationship between grief and joy and how to hold both
• The importance of authenticity and self-love in healing
• Navigating estranged relationships and acceptance of limitations
• The concept of dancing with no hope and embracing uncertainty
• The role of tears of futility in processing grief
• The impact of family dynamics and generational differences
• The importance of boundaries and self-care in relationships
• The process of letting go of control and surrendering to life’s flow

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In this episode, Andrea and Rebecca invite back, sisters Aurena Green and Brianna Rose to explore the multifaceted nature of grief, transition, and the importance of trust and spaciousness in healing. They share personal stories, insights on navigating loss, and the power of supportive relationships. In this episode, Brianna, Rebecca, Andrea, and Aurena explore the complex nature of grief, joy, relationships, and the dance of hope and no hope.

key topics

• The experience of moving through grief and transition
• The importance of trust and spaciousness in healing
• Personal stories of loss and resilience
• The role of supportive relationships in grief
• Insights on emotional regulation and nervous system hacks
• The impact of family dynamics and individuation
• The significance of owning one's contribution to life changes The relationship between grief and joy and how to hold both
• The importance of authenticity and self-love in healing
• Navigating estranged relationships and acceptance of limitations
• The concept of dancing with no hope and embracing uncertainty
• The role of tears of futility in processing grief
• The impact of family dynamics and generational differences
• The importance of boundaries and self-care in relationships
• The process of letting go of control and surrendering to life’s flow

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In this heartfelt episode, Lindy Yoshida, a certified financial planner and grief educator, shares her profound insights on how grief impacts financial identity and decision-making, especially during divorce. She offers practical tools and compassionate guidance to help women navigate financial and emotional upheavals with confidence and grace.

key topics

• The link between grief and financial identity
• Practical tools for managing money during emotional upheaval
• The importance of community and support in grief and divorce

  Connect with Lindy Yoshida

• https://lindyyoshida.com/
• Download her Financial Reset Guide: https://lindyyoshida.myflodesk.com/financialresetchecklist
• Connect on Instagram @lindyyoshidacoaching

Andrea and Rebecca interview Carl Manlan about his debut book of poetry, I Can Breathe. Together they delve into the profound ways grief impacts our lives, identity, and relationships, featuring intimate stories, poetic reflections, and expert insights. Join us as we explore how grief is a universal, shared experience that can foster empathy, healing, and connection.

In this episode:

• Andrea shares her experience of physical grief after her father's passing
• Carl Manlan introduces his poetry collection "I Can Breathe" and discusses grief as a journey of renewal
• Experts discuss grief in different cultural and personal contexts
• Reflection on the significance of language and storytelling in grief processing
• Practical insights on how showing up for others in grief strengthens our collective humanity
• The importance of patience and emotional acceptance in long-term grief management
• How current global conflicts deepen collective grief and empathy

Resources & Links:

• I Can Breathe by Carl Mandlin (Link to purchase or more info)
• https://www.youtube.com/@InsideTheBluePrintPodcast

Connect with Carl Manlan:

Instagram @carlmanlanofficial

• https://ke.linkedin.com/in/carlmanlan

In this episode, Andrea and Rebecca are joined by poet Cheryl Slover-Linett for a deeply moving conversation about grief, trauma, motherhood, land, and the healing power of poetry. Cheryl shares how her life experiences shaped her work, including the long arc of writing The Seduction of the Daughter in 15 Pieces and the emotional care required to tell a traumatic story without overwhelming herself or the reader.

• The strange emotional tension of Colorado spring: beauty, heat, fire risk, and unease
• Cheryl’s grief origin story and the moments that shaped her early life
• How trauma, memory, and grief show up in poetic form
• Writing about sexual violence with care, specificity, and boundaries
• The role of nature in holding difficult creative work
• Mother wounds, protection, and the grief of not being fully protected
• Land, colonization, ancestry, and the grief embedded in place
• Hope, recovery, and what it means to keep living with unresolved pain
• The embodied power of poetry and why form matters

Cheryl Slover-Linett

Poet based in Santa Fe, New Mexico. Her work has appeared in multiple literary journals, and she also leads wilderness retreats through Lead Feather, the nature-based nonprofit she founded in 2008.

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• Mistletoe

Connect with Cheryl:

• Get her book of poetry: https://dulcetshop.myshopify.com/products/the-seduction-of-the-daughter-in-fifteen-pieces-cheryl-slover-linett-copy 
• Lead Feather Wilderness Retreat

In this conversation, Andrea and Rebecca talk with Becky Galli who shares how a life of unexpected losses shaped her perspective and how writing became a way to process, reflect, and stay connected to what matters most.

• Becky opens up about the recent hospitalization and what it felt like to recover afterward.
• She shares the origin of her grief story: the sudden death of her 17-year-old brother.
• The conversation explores how each family member grieved differently and how they stayed connected.
• Becky reflects on raising children with special needs, divorce, and paralysis.
• She explains how writing columns, books, and daily reflections helped her navigate life.
• The episode closes with a discussion about when people feel least alone in grief.

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Becky Galli is an author and columnist who writes about love, loss, and healing. She is the author of Rethinking Possible and Morning Fuel, and writes the weekly column Thoughtful Thursdays.

Find her online at

https://rebeccafayesmithgalli.com/

On Instagram @chairwriter

Andrea and Rebecca welcome poet Sarah Hanson to explore her journey through an abusive relationship, leaving, and truth telling as a tool to reduce shame. They discuss the power of storytelling, the nuances of relationships, and finding respite in the places that nurture our souls. Discover how her poetry offers a space for healing, understanding, and embracing imperfection.

TOPICS

• The role of honesty, storytelling, and emotional truth in healing
• Understanding grief’s origins and its impact on identity and relationships
• The significance of nature, water, and stillness as sources of respite

KEYWORDS

grief, poetry, healing, honesty, self-compassion, trauma, relationships, mental health, storytelling, vulnerability

RESOURCES

Conjuring the Hurricane | Sarah Hanson Book | Memoir-in-Verse

CONNECT with Sarah Hanson:

Instagram | Website

In this episode, Jermaine Ee shares how grief, legacy, and intentional living intersect through his work with HeirLight—a tool designed to make estate planning and leaving an emotional legacy accessible. Tune in for inspiring stories about the invisible inheritance of values and the importance of living in a way that honors our loved ones and ourselves.

Key Topics:

• The profound impact of grief and how it shapes our understanding of legacy
• The origins of HeirLight and its mission to make estate planning more accessible
• Personal stories of loss, including Jermaine’s experience with his mother’s passing
• How shared family traditions and conversations deepen our connections
• Rethinking independence and community in aging and life planning
• The transformative power of storytelling for healing and legacy-building
• Lessons learned from cultural perspectives on love, obligation, and materialism
• Practical approaches to designing a life centered around connection rather than possessions
  

Connect with Jermaine Ee:

• HeirLight - Jermaine’s innovative estate planning tool

• www.eejermaine.com 
• Instagram: @eejermaine 
• www.linkedin.com/in/eejermaine

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