We called our podcast Loving BDSM because we’re a loving D/s couple who love the BDSM lifestyle, and we want other curious kinksters to love it, too! For the first episode, listeners get a much needed reminder that BDSM doesn’t require a lot of rules and anyone can participate.

From this episode:

* Why we’re podcasting

* We want your questions and topic suggestions: Contact me or contact John Brownstone

* Two rules in BDSM: Play safe and gain consent. Always.

* Dominants, submissives, tops, and bottoms – oh my!

* Anyone can be kinky – all genders, all sexual preferences, all races, all sizes. Everyone.

* Science says BDSM is good for us: BDSM Correlated With Better Mental Health

* If you want to be kinky, go for it!

I will point out (before someone else does) that I make an unspoken assumption in this episode that all kinksters practicing BDSM are of legal age. Consent cannot be gained from a minor. When I tell you to get consent, I mean legal consent. (Maybe I’ll make that a topic for another episode. Hmmm…thinking…)

Not too bad, right?

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Full Transcript:

Hi there!

Welcome to the very first episode of Loving BDSM, a podcast from Kayla Lords (that’s me!) and John Brownstone (eventually – when I can get him to sit down and record with me).

We’re still a little baby podcast so as we go along things might change and, I hope, get better and better. By the way, the show is called Loving BDSM because we’re a loving D/s couple in a long-term relationship who love BDSM.

Apparently, and I never know these things until someone sends me a link online or mentions it in a comment somewhere, there’s a myth out there that BDSM and love don’t mix. Oh, and that BDSM and sex don’t happen.

For some people that’s completely true. In my world – and that of many of my kinky friends, BDSM, love, and sex definitely mix.

As we publish more episodes over time, you’ll hear one or both of us talking about our own relationship and what we’re learning and experiencing in BDSM and as a D/s couple. (He’s the Dominant and I’m the submissive, in case you wondered.) We’ll also share tips, tricks, and things we’ve learned in the BDSM lifestyle. We figure that we’re not the only ones who could use the information and since there’s so much bad information out there, we’ll do our part in sharing the good stuff – and hopefully help out our fellow kinksters.

If you ever have a question or something you want us to discuss, you can always contact us through our websites – the links are in the episode notes or you can go to kaylalords.com or southernsirsplace.com. We have a place for you to contact us right from the front page. Yes, we love hearing from people and yes, we respond back. Unless you’re creepy – I’m looking at you random submissive guy who wanted me to be your mistress.

So who the hell am I and why am I talking about BDSM?

My name is Kayla Lords and I’m a submissive, a babygirl, and a masochist. He’s John Brownstone and he’s a primal sadist and a Daddy Dom. Yes, I call him Daddy. No, I don’t have Daddy issues.

I’ve been in the lifestyle since 2012 – not a long time but long enough to have learned a few things. I’m also a sex blogger and an erotic author and a contributor to Kinkly and Submissive Guide. Most of what I write about centers around BDSM in some form.