July 01, 2016

Are There Rules for Being a Submissive? LB043

45 minutes

Kayla Lords hosts episode 43 and answers a listener’s question: what are the rules for being a submissive?

In this episode:

* Kinky patrons are always welcome. Support the podcast through Patreon!

* The sarcastic answer to the rules question is: whatever your Dominant says. The less sarcastic answer is: whatever you and your partner agree to.

* In reality, the “rules” of being a good submissive are not that different from the rules of being a good human – with a kinky twist of course.

* Be honest.

* Communicate.

* Show respect.

* Have integrity.

* Look for the good Dominants.

* Be yourself.

* Educate yourself.

* Understand safety.

* Never forget about consent.

* If you have any other rules you’d recommend, share in the comments below or email them!

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Full Transcript

You’re listening to Loving BDSM podcast: episode 43. Hey, everybody. Kayla Lords here! This week I’m answering a question I recently received – what are the rules for being a submissive. Welcome to the Loving BDSM podcast. If this is your first time listening, glad to have you! If you’re back for another week, welcome back! Loving BDSM is produced every Friday for your kinky pleasure and education and show notes are found at kaylalords.com. Come back often and feel free to add the podcast to your favorite RSS feed or iTunes. If you love what you hear, we’d love a good review on iTunes to help other kinksters find us! You can follow me on Twitter @KaylaLords or stalk John Brownstone at southernsirsplace.com. All links are in the show notes.

Real quick reminder: for those who love this podcast and want to help keep it running or just show their appreciation, I am always looking for kinky patrons over on Patreon – www dot patreon dot com slash Kayla Lords will get you there. As many of you know, you wouldn’t be listening to this podcast without help from my kinky patrons that allowed us to get a professional quality microphone. Your support is appreciated – in any amount and it’s used to help me do this, my kinky writing, and keep the website going, too. So…if you’re interested and able, feel free to check me out on Patreon.

Now on to the show.

Okay, at first glance, the answer to the ultimate question – what are the rules – is pretty simple.

Whatever you and your Dominant agree to.

Okay, that’s it. Show’s over.

Kidding!

When I received this question, I honestly thought I couldn’t answer it. That there was no answer. Silly me. There’s always an answer.

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