Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 

Are You Addicted To Emotionally Unavailable Women? (FIX The Emotional Trap)

Do you constantly find yourself attracting the wrong women? 

Do you find yourself in a relationship where you feel like there is no thrill, and you're constantly trying to seek new ones and approach women who are not interested in you? 

If you're always in a situation when pursuing a woman and ends up feeling emotionally unfulfilling, it makes you move on to another woman, then you are in for a special treat; Apollonia Ponti will share her insights on knowing if you are addicted to an emotionally unavailable woman. 

Apollonia has worked with many clients and recognizes that some men, don't know that they are chasing an emotionally unavailable relationship. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia addresses identifying one's susceptibility to emotional unavailability in women and offers insights on rectifying this pattern (addressing the "Emotional Trap"). 

Apollonia's practical advice will shed light on the common tendency of mistaking the pursuit of emotionally distant women for a mark of high-value relationships. This mindset leads to an overestimation of a woman's worth, frequently driven by the allure of the chase. Apollonia further highlights the reciprocity between emotionally distant men and their counterparts, shedding light on the appeal of pursuing and triumphing over emotionally elusive partners.

So, if you want to know if you are addicted to emotionally unavailable women, how to identify emotionally unavailable, and how to start attracting emotionally available women, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:14 - You confuse the chase with high quality. Women come naturally to you; therefore, you are not interested in pursuing them. That is why you put more value in women than you can get; most of the time, it is the thrill. 
• 2:16 - It is not easy to get high quality. Most high-quality women are direct about what they want in the relationship; however, not-valued women will play around with you, which can lead to toxic relationships.
• 3:26 - You are unavailable yourself. Being honest with yourself is the right step for a mature relationship. Constantly breaking up and moving to another woman, it might not be them, but it might be you. 
• 4:29 - Apollonia explains more about unavailable in men and women. Because emotionally unavailable men attract emotionally unavailable women, you love the chase and the thrill of accomplishment after you are in a relationship with her. 
• 5:11 - You are living in fancy than in reality. You're constantly daydreaming about the good qualities of her and ignoring the bad ones. You're not expecting her to be unavailable and show toxic tendencies you miss. 
• 5:42 - Apollonia's coach called with a guy who was chasing an emotionally unavailable woman. He was living in a fantasy, trying to pursue a woman who had just gotten out of a relationship and was trying to heal from it. This is an excellent example of what not to do to an emotionally unavailable woman. 
• 7:14 - The hero complex. Her traumas extend to you, and she blames her concussions (or even accuses you). In return, you try to support and "fix" her instead of giving her space or even breaking up to let her start healing herself. 
• 8:54 - Apollonia explains further about the hero complex. She talks about how men who pursue emotionally unavailable women often lose themselves and become emotionally unavailable.

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