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  • 92. The Spiky Wartenberg Wheel Of Emotions

    C'mon guys, a tale as old as time. We've all been there - your Dom is seeing other subs, and your jealousy and the Social Media Demon have twisted the situation to be unbearable. How can we break jealousy down into more manageable components, and negotiate whether we want to deal in the first place? Lina shares from her own experience and has some ideas to tend to your tender feels.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    16 min
  • 91. Getting Left Hanging (Not In The Fun Way)

    A sub calls in wondering what to do when you've been in multiple relationships where the kink slowly vanishes over time. Are you going crazy?? No, this is a disappointingly common thing, and Lina's going to help you spin an annoying part of dating into a helpful learning experience.

    Send in your questions for the pod at memo.fm/askasub.

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    23 min
  • 90. Switch for Switch Poly Parenting with Evolving Love Project

    You guys — we did it — we trapped a true switch for switch poly couple with our big butterfly net and dove deep into their deeply respectful and inspiring relationship. Join us for a convo with charismatic Aussies Abbey and Liam for a tour through their individual love lives, and the love they have for fostering connections in their broader ENM community.

    To get the full version of this episode Join Patreon at $11/month or substack at $8/month.

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    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

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    Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com with code LINADUNE

    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    17 min
  • 89. Sub On The Street: Folsom Street Fair

    Get your spot in the Conscious Kink 2 Incubator and learn more about it here. Registration ends 9/27 at 11:59pm pacific.

    Get more Folsom info from this pamphlet.

    Special thanks to Cactus Cult Leather, BunnyLeather.com, Sylvan and Milton, SF K9 Unit, Bay Area Open Minds, The Satanic Temple and everyone who spoke to me at Folsom last year!

    Get my full discussion with Alex Kacha on Patreon or Substack.

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

    Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here.

    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

    Go here for information on how to record a voice memo

    Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com with code LINADUNE

    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    40 min
  • 88. Getting Off Hold

    We've all been there — an on again, off again dynamic that keeps us trapped in a cycle where we feel that person is the one who can unlock the sex life we really want, if only they'd switch back to "on again." In this episode we talk about the paradox of longing and how to get yourself licking new coffee cups before you know it.

    Get your spot in the Conscious Kink 2 Incubator and learn more about it here.

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

    Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here.

    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

    Go here for information on how to record a voice memo

    Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com with code LINADUNE

    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    14 min
  • 87. Rebuilding Your Dynamic After De-escalation

    More and more D/s couples are having to put their dynamics on pause lately, and we want to give you the tools to find your way back to each other. This week, Lina's talking about the integral role of play in building trust and putting your whole (figurative) p*ssy into your vulnerability.

    ***Get your spot in the Conscious Kink 2 Incubator and learn more about it here.***

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

    Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here.

    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

    Go here for information on how to record a voice memo

    Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com with code LINADUNE

    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    30 min
  • 86. Fewer Bisexual Fucks to Give

    We talk a lot on this podcast about feeling "queer enough," and a straight passing queer couple wonders how to feel more at home in queer spaces. Lina affirms that they're allowed to be there, and anyone whose opinion is worth considering is probably just thinking they're hot. Fewer queer cops, more queer fucking!!!

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

    Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here.

    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

    Go here for information on how to record a voice memo

    Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com with code LINADUNE

    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    26 min
  • 85. Safety is Hardcore with Tina Horn

    Writer, educatrix, and all around kink community badass Tina Horn joined us to talk all about hardcore kinks and fetishes and how we sort kinks into this category. Her new book Why Are People Into That?! is out now wherever books are sold.

    To get the full version of this episode Join Patreon at $11/month or substack at $8/month.

    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

    Go here for information on how to record a voice memo

    Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com with code LINADUNE

    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    20 min
  • 84. Divine Masculine & Feminine Energies are Sus

    GENDER!! Ever hear of it?! Lina's popping off on the presidential election, right-wing weird shit, and the subtle leak of conspirituality-adjacent terms like 'divine masculine & feminine' into sex education spaces. She also goes into why her submission doesn't feel feminine, but an intense space to reckon with the masculine. Controversial? Probably!

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

    Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here.

    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

    Find the excellent Conspirituality Podcast here.

    Go here for information on how to record a voice memo

    Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com with code LINADUNE

    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    37 min
  • 83. Chronically Kinky

    In a transmission from God's hot car, Lina discusses the relationship between kink and chronic pain, and advises a Spoonie who's playing with a doctor to enjoy the free medical care without shame.

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

    Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here.

    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

    Go here for information on how to record a voice memo

    Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com with code LINADUNE

    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    13 min

About ask a sub

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Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with…

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