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  • 102. When Is Romance A Limit?

    A listener calls in feeling big feelings about a new Dom, and Lina talks about making the most of the safe havens we find along the road to our dream situation. And maybe covering those safe havens in saliva a bit, idk!!

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    Daddy Issues series on Patreon or Substack.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    33 min
  • 101. Tough Love For People Pleasers

    Hey!! Hey you!! Stop worrying about upsetting people with your very reasonable needs and requests! In today's episode, a caller worries that their Dom is upset by their needs/wants/suggestions, and Lina goes Big Sister Mode to set them straight.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    20 min
  • 100. Abolish The Family with Sophie Lewis & An Erotica Surprise

    No family?! Community kitchens?! Mandatory orgies?! Less social isolation?! This is the future the left wants, and Lina is forcing it down your throat this week alongside brilliant guest Sophie Lewis who wrote the book on family abolition. Join us for a discussion about tentacle porn, muppet theory, and liberatory queer futures.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    24 min
  • 99. Fear Is Good, Actually

    This Christmas, fear isn't just for the ballot box. That's right, a caller wants to know how to negotiate with fear around kinks, edges, and, the scariest monster of all, the terrifying ordeal of being Known by another human being. Also in the intro Lina sets expectations for Babygirl (medium) and encourages all of you to get to work on your kinky screenplays in 2025.

    Kinky Movies That Don't Suck

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    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    30 min
  • 98. Queer Pill Your Holidays

    A caller wants to know if straight people are ruining kink, and Lina gets into the history of gentrification in the kink world and how well-meaning straights can use their kink for good. Also a diatribe on how Fake Doms have class-traitor vibes. Sorry it had to be said!!

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    31 min
  • 97. Debuting Your Kinks: A Formula

    Ever wondered how to drop the news of some of your less mainstream kinks in a relationship? You know… the really head-turning ones that would shock polite company? The ones that keep you up at night googling really specific gear? The ones that pop up in your head even as you're trying to write the description of your podcast?? Well this week Lina is sharing an actionable formula for introducing your new partner to what you want, and also laying down a new Ask A Sub commandment — no dragging Doms into Dominance. Now back to those kinks…

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

    Submit questions for this podcast by going to memo.fm/askasub and recording a voice memo.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    29 min
  • 96. Age Gap Autumn

    Gather 'round to hear the debauched tales of connection, mutual support, and hot sex contained in the ever problematic social media boogeyman… the Age Gap Relationship!! These crowdsourced stories come from our very own AAS community and will warm your freezing cold heart, ever so briefly slake your unquenchable thirst, and perhaps expand your dating app age filters.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    16 min
  • 95. The World Needs Male Subs

    Looootttttaaaaaa feelings about gender this week, huh folks? We're discussing the "gender wars," how you can assist in the political apocalypse, and how to embrace one's identity as a male submissive.

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

    Submit questions for this podcast by going to memo.fm/askasub and recording a voice memo.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    29 min
  • 94. Feral Raccoon Hour with the AAS Moderators

    Come one, come all, to the wholesome dumpster we raccoons cluster in also known as the Ask A Sub discord community. The community is a benefit of patreon and the reason it's so many people's favorite place on the internet is the absolutely top tier moderation and vibes-curation brought to you by our mod team. Hear the voices of the people behind the server in this exclusive interview! You know you wanna join us…

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

    Submit questions for this podcast by going to memo.fm/askasub and recording a voice memo.

    Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here.

    Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com with code LINADUNE

    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    23 min
  • 93. Kink for Survivors

    A caller wants to know how to use their kinky toolkit to address a recently resurfaced memory of past trauma, and Lina gets into how kink, while not a panacea, can be supportive as we transform triggers into memories.

    Send in your q's at memo.fm/askasub

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

    Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here.

    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

    Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com with code LINADUNE

    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    20 min

About ask a sub

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Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with…

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