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  • 62. Accessible Glory Holes with Andrew Gurza

    Disability advocate, sex toy creator, and host of Disability After Dark Andrew Gurza joins us to talk all about non-binary identity, dating while disabled, and how we can improve accessibility in kinky and queer spaces.

    To get this full episode, go to Patreon or Substack.

    For that piece of writing I was talking about get it on Patreon or Substack.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    32 min
  • 61. The Veto Blues

    A sub is concerned that her Dom's wife is going to veto their dynamic and wonders how she can modify her behavior to make the wife more comfortable. Lina talks about which feelings we have control over (only our own) and how to give yourself grace during liminal times.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    16 min
  • 60. The 24/7 D/s Buffet

    So you've got somebody to do 24/7 with - great! Now how the hell do you narrow down all the options and create a bespoke practice just for you? Lina walks a listener through the buffet of options, and helps guide the process of assembling a satisfying D/s plate covered in consent gravy.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    19 min
  • 59. Neurospicy & Ready To Party

    This week a caller on the autism spectrum and his partner with ADD wonder if there is a link between kink and neurodivergence. Let's talk about it!

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    21 min
  • 58. Kinky Divorced Moms Deserve A Win

    Due to unforeseen circumstances (we got COVID), in lieu of this week's scheduled episode please enjoy this rerun of a season 2 favorite. Lina interviews a listener who got in touch to share the story of her custody battle with her sex-negative ex-husband, and the unexpected win that arrived at the end of her story.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    22 min
  • 57. What Is Humiliation Anyway?

    First Lina delivers a hot take about how women who sleep with men can become marginalized within kink, then teases out the difference between humiliation and degradation kinks while making fun of dating app bing bongs (as usual).

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    25 min
  • 56. Dovetailing Purity Culture Into Kink

    We're back! And we're kicking purity culture in the pants!!

    Get info about the Friday 1/26 Deep Dive here!

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    22 min
  • 55. You Do Not Have To Be Good

    A sub calls in asking how to make amends for past mistakes. Spoiler alert: you do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert repenting. Unless you're into that.

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Get a year of Patreon for $50 (that's two months free!) before the rate goes up to $6 on 1/1/24.

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    25 min
  • 54. Bloodlust & SW Labor Rights with Empress Wu

    The words filth and perversion barely begin to scratch the surface of what's on offer in this interview with Empress Wu and her singular penchant for scenes that expand into systems that fuck gender, the body, notions of inside and outside, as well as existence itself. Here in the free preview, we discuss Wu's journey into pro-Domme work as well as her thoughts on sex work decriminalization.

    Paid listeners will receive the full hour and fifteen minute interview featuring specifics of her wild Dominance practice.

    Get the complete interview on Patreon for $11/month or Substack for $8/month.

    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/94681123?pr=true

    Substack: https://askasub.substack.com/podcast

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!

    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    32 min
  • 53. What If I Don't Have Hard Limits?

    A sub is concerned about sending the wrong message when telling Doms she doesn't have hard limits. What to do?

    To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!

    Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here.

    Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to [email protected]

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    Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0

    CREDITS

    Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune

    With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

    Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

    Music by Dan Molad

    17 min

About ask a sub

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Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with…

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