Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week discussing winter on the West Coast, old pains that probably need some attention, and the chaos that unfolds when convenience goes too far.

01:08 - Wild Replacements & Delivery App Chaos
A DoorDash interruption turns into a full breakdown of the audacity of modern delivery apps. From kids and girlfriends riding along to replacements that make absolutely zero sense, Ashley + Ashley spiral over their worst Instacart, Uber Eats, and DoorDash experiences.

18:36 - Things I Saw on the Internet: The Oregon Trail Generation
Let’s be real, millennials don’t panic because we’ve already survived everything. Pandemics, epidemics, loss, and pure chaos… all before middle school. The Ashleys unpack how childhood games like The Oregon Trail, The Game of Life, Monopoly, Sorry, and Operation were basically a crash course in adulthood. Millennials played life. Kids nowadays play Roblox. And it shows.

23:49 - Things I Saw on the Internet: Male Perspective Therapy
You know how men give relationship advice? Blunt. Harsh. And somehow… exactly Ashley N’s speed. The Ashleys unpack why feedback from platonic male friends can hit differently than hearing the same advice from your girlfriends. Plus, why women often benefit more from male friendships than men do from female ones. Cue the double standards. LOL.

34:58 - It’s Question Time!
The Ashleys get into meals that impress, the most attractive trait in a man, breakup cleanup habits, and a very clear stance on threesomes.

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Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week with a proper pour of Kim Crawford, struggling through French words nobody actually knows how to pronounce, and realizing confidence really will take you far.

00:00 - Welcome Back to Ask Ashley

05:25 - Overthinking the Positive
Ashley W is deep in her choose joy era. It’s all about the power of words, rewiring your brain toward positivity, and why overthinking the positive is just as valid as overthinking the negative. Things take an emotional turn after a moment with Ashley’s mom leaves the girls with unexpected tears, a reminder that a sweet moment mixed with Kim Crawford will do it every time.

15:28 - When the Internet Goes Out and So Does Your Sense of Safety
The internet went out for over 24 hours at Ashley N’s house. No Netflix, no Ring cameras, no alarm system, no cell service. It led to the very real realization that modern safety and sanity are dangerously tied to the internet.

20:14 - Things I Saw on the Internet: Honest Mom Internet
One time for the unhinged but deeply validating corner of the internet where moms are finally telling the truth. From chaotic mornings and zero patience to breastfeeding pressure, pregnancy grief, and IVF realities. The pretending motherhood is aesthetic has officially expired. Shoutout to honest mom creators.

29:50 - It’s TV Time! From Love Island Australia to Real Housewives
Ashley W makes a brief attempt to bring Ashley N back into Love Island, but with an uncommitted bestie, she quickly pivots to the big dogs. Enter Real Housewives of Potomac. Karen in jail, Wendy & Happy Eddie catching fraud charges, mid-season mugshots, insurance scams, aliases, and why Potomac might be the most perfectly timed Housewives season we’ve seen in years. Reality TV is back doing what it does best: documenting the downfall in real time.

41:50 - DYQ Meme of the Week: Let’s Skip the Talking Stage
In the era of getting flewed out, women are hopping on planes and trusting internet strangers at alarming rates. But was it really any better back in the day? The Ashleys swap their riskiest “just go” stories: fake IDs, random men, public bus rides to the club, and almost flying into an active war zone. The conclusion? Risky behavior used to feel normal. Now it just feels unnecessary. Make them work for you, ladies.

48:50 - It’s Question Time!
Ashley + Ashley discuss morality amongst friends, favorite scents, loyalty, top-notch aura, and celebrity delusion.

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Ashley and Ashley are back in the studio this week, reminiscing on Jock Jams, MTV Spring Break, the D.A.R.E. program, and dads who smoke big ganja.

00:58- Let’s get ready to rumbleeee!!
Who remembers Jock Jams?! Arguably the greatest sports mix of all time. Somebody track down the DJ who made that CD because they really laid the blueprint for Kidz Bop.

07:41-  Family Photos & Teen Attitudes
Ashley N is a professional when it comes to photoshoots… except when you add a teenager. New clothes, bad moods, untucked shirts, and the very real realization that her daughter might act a lot more like her dad than she thought.

14:30-  Ashley’s French Date Night at Home
If there’s one thing Ashley W is gonna do, it’s overachieve. A simple “wine & dinner at the house” turned into a full French experience: a sommelier, a private chef, a wine tour of France, flags, playlists, and more.

23:55-  D.A.R.E. Was… a scheme set up by Todd
The ‘90s drug prevention program taught kids way too much about crack pipes, spoons, and “uppers vs downers.” The off-duty cash cow is giving… the only people truly around the drugs were the officers themselves.

34:16- TV Time: All’s Fair, All Her Fault, All Good… Or Maybe Not.
The new Kim Kardashian Hulu drama is the hate-watch phenomenon happening in real time. How can a show reviewed so terribly deliver 3.2 million viewers and a Season 2 renewal? Because of people like The Ashleys.

43:30- Dear Young Queen Meme of the Week
“I don’t know who needs to hear this, but you’re a great mom. Those kids are just bad. They get it from their dad.”
From looking like their dad to acting like their dad, the Ashleys get into projection, co-parenting, and some of the best unfiltered advice on choosing who you sit next to at parent–teacher conferences.

49:31- It’s Question Time!
Ashley + Ashley discuss hearing the word “no,” choosing a generous man over a rich man, avoiding Apple shortcuts, and absolutely chaotic app behavior.

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Ashley + Ashley are back this week with heavy opinions, light patience, and zero tolerance for systems that don’t make sense. 

00:06 - The NFL Mushroom Helmet: A new soft-shell covers helmet designed to reduce concussions but only about 9-13 players are wearing it this season?! Huh? Confusing to anyone else?  The Ashleys get into CTE, short NFL careers, exploited bodies, and why their sons will be struggling through literally anything else.

06:19  - Kids, AAU Sports & The $3,000 Childhood Upcharge:  Auntie Ash is refusing to go spend another $100 to watch her niece play 2 AAU basketball games. Ashley N breaks down what it really costs to raise a kid in sports. Monthly fees, tournaments, travel, wristbands, uniforms, and surprise expenses.

15:52  - Ashley Enters Her Anime-Adjacent Era:  Never thought the day would come when Ashley + Anime went together in the same sentence. But… here we are. Black anime kids, Naruto peer pressure, Adult Swim propaganda, Kid Cudi cartoons, Comic-Con alternate realities, and why Daria is the only gateway animation Ashley respects.

22:46 - It’s TV Time! Rewatching Scandal With Adult Eyes: Toxic love, secret service hoe phases, Vermont houses that never got built, and how Olivia Pope might actually be the villain. Netflix sent out the Scandal alert and Ashley N dove right in. 

35:35 - It’s Question Time!  The Ashley’s are discussing Warm brownie politics (edge vs middle), parked car therapy sessions, disappearing for 24 hours, getting arrested, switching lives, and what Ashley would absolutely lose her mind over if she had to parent for a day.

Motherhood, Guilt & The Emotional ROI of Parenting: The ladies get honest about what nobody tells you about being a parent. The sacrifices, the love, the imbalance, and the question nobody can answer beforehand: Is it actually worth it?

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Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week with a little chaos, a little wisdom, and a whole lot of opinions. From not understanding life on Do Not Disturb to $2 Jäger bombs. From detoxing from tequila to remembering when people could smoke on airplanes… these two have thoughts this week, loud ones.

1:02 – Do Not Disturb Etiquette
The Ashleys take a hard stance against people who live their lives on Do Not Disturb. If your phone stays muted from sunup to sundown… grow up. Adults have responsibilities. Take your damn phone off DND.'

5:10 – The TikTok-Famous Chinese Medicine “Doctor”

Ashley N heads to downtown LA to see the viral Chinese Medicine doctor who checks your pulse, looks at your tongue, collects cash only, and sends you home with a 10-day tea that ruins your entire week. A nightmare from start to finish.

13:57 – Ashley W Has Entered Her Gin Era
Tequila has been dethroned. Ashley W is officially a gin girlie now and accepting cocktail suggestions. French 75s? Gimlets? Meanwhile, Ashley N still has Bombay Sapphire trauma, so she might take a beat before joining the movement.

18:30 – The Importance of Having a Regular Spot
Ashley W’s PSA of the week: get yourself a regular establishment. A bar, a restaurant, somewhere people know your name AND your order. A server who flirts a little and brings your dessert without asking? That’s emotional support. That’s community.

27:31 – Dear Young Queen Meme of the Week
Changing a man’s name in your phone is an absolute no-no. The Ashleys didn’t write the rule, they just follow it. Because “as soon as you give a dude the benefit… here come the MF’n doubt.”

30:45 – Cheating in the Notes App
Cheating used to happen in texts. Then DMs. Now? The Notes app. Private shared notes, locked folders, hidden conversations… The Ashleys uncover the creativity (and stupidity) of modern betrayal.

38:49 – It’s Question Time!The ladies dive into this week’s wild questions: spitting preferences (no thanks), last lies told, matching tattoo ideas, and what their reality TV–watching cult would require daily.

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Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio and officially kicking off a brand new season of Ask Ashley: The Podcast! This week, the ladies tackle modern dating, relationship soft-launch culture, millennial mom struggles, and internet chaos — from random boyfriends and linen outfits to new math, scammers, AI hallucination, and the dark side of Snapchat DMs.

Included in the episode:

00:00 – Welcome to the elite joy of watching a girl hard-launch a random boyfriend on Instagram. Not the ex, not the friend-group rebound — a RANDOM. The mystery, the deep dive, the investigative obsession… this is premium internet girl behavior.

02:53 – Linen Outfits & Summer Style: Linen is gorgeous… until you sit down. The ladies debate the most over-hyped summer fabric, how to wear linen without panic, and why we all keep buying it anyway.

7:14 – Parenting + New Math Struggles: The kids are older, the homework is harder, and “Singapore Math” is breaking spirits across America. Decimal division? New teaching styles? Parent homework Zooms? HELP.

16:42 – Snapchat Scam Storytime: Ashley W receives a shocking message: “You’re beautiful… can I send you money?” Is it sweet? Is it creepy? Is it a scam? Is it fraud? Is it… something worse?
 Plus… the arrival of G Baby.

25:08 – It's TV Time!
Ashley + Ashley unpack the Hurricane Katrina documentary and the shocking failures that made a natural disaster far worse than anyone realized. Then they break down Unknown Caller, aka the most unhinged high school catfish story of all time. Real chaos. Real tears. Real therapy needed.

37:40 -Things I saw on The Internet

44:48 – It's Question Time!
Ashley + Ashley debate:
• banning drunk texting
• self-regulation
• opinions nobody asked for
• AND the famous “$1M vs 1 penny doubled” challenge.

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Ashley + Ashley are back this week, reporting live from the comforts of their own homes.  This week they are catching up on expensive doctor visits, no touch laws, boxtox in the brain stem, the value of little people, and more.

00:52- How many nights a week do you eat out or order in? Cooking isn’t for everyone, and by everyone, we mean, Ashley + Ashley.

05:19 - New Hairdo, Who Dis? Both Ashleys have a new do, but apparently one looks like a “real black girl” and the other looks like a “hot auntie.” 

11:05- Things I Saw on the Internet segment is remixed this week. It’s more like Things your mom saw on the internet this week. From advice on how to deal with narrccasists to how to deal with razor blade throat, the Ashleys’ moms are a special duo.

21:11 - It’s time for a Dinner Break! The Ashleys welcome interruptions from their favorite little person, Chayce, and their favorite big person, Ash W’s man.

27:55 -  If you ask a man what color nail color to get, do you go together? The Dear Young Queen Meme of the week took Ashley + Ashley to a place no one was ready for.

34:38  - It’s Question Time!  Ashley + Ashley discuss high school crushes, what has gradually disappeared over the last ten years, prostitution, and biggest regrets.

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Ashley + Ashley are back this week, reporting live from the comforts of their own homes.  This week they are catching up on expensive doctor visits, no touch laws, boxtox in the brain stem, the value of little people, and more.

00:52- How many nights a week do you eat out or order in? Cooking isn’t for everyone, and by everyone, we mean, Ashley + Ashley.

05:19 - New Hairdo, Who Dis? Both Ashleys have a new do, but apparently one looks like a “real black girl” and the other looks like a “hot auntie.” 

11:05- Things I Saw on the Internet segment is remixed this week. It’s more like Things your mom saw on the internet this week. From advice on how to deal with narrccasists to how to deal with razor blade throat, the Ashleys’ moms are a special duo.

21:11 - It’s time for a Dinner Break! The Ashleys welcome interruptions from their favorite little person, Chayce, and their favorite big person, Ash W’s man.

27:55 -  If you ask a man what color nail color to get, do you go together? The Dear Young Queen Meme of the week took Ashley + Ashley to a place no one was ready for.

34:38  - It’s Question Time!  Ashley + Ashley discuss high school crushes, what has gradually disappeared over the last ten years, prostitution, and biggest regrets.

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Ashley + Ashley are back and catching up long distance—with red wine in hand, of course. This week, the ladies are talking ACT/SAT testing, the difference between vocalists and singers, new Taco Bell orders, Ashley W’s ankle injury (as diagnosed by Ashley N, sports injury expert), and so much more.

00:00 - Welcome back to Ask Ashley: The Podcast

02:32 - It’s official, Ashley N’s daughter has graduated from middle school and she officially has a high schooler! Everything is happening really fast. Really, really, fast.  It’s giving panic, nostalgia, and all the feels.

07:26 - Sza likes bugs bro. In fact, she loves them. Both Ashleys attended the Kendrick & Sza “Grand National Tour” - one as a Kendrick fan and one as a Sza Fan, can you guess which is which? 

26:14- Let’s talk The Purse Basket. Ashley W thought she was breaking news, but Ashley N’s already a card-carrying member of the Basket Club. Redemption comes quickly when Ashley W drops a wild revelation about “OPP”—and where they both stand on it. Spoiler: Ashley + Ashley absolutely are not down with OPP.

34:49 - It’s TV Time! The ladies bring their latest binge list, from reality show chaos to off-the-radar gems. If you’re in a TV slump, this is the segment to pull you out. 

43:00 - It’s Question Time! The ladies discuss the brilliance of Shaq’s business empire, the politics of choosing which side of the bed to sleep on, staying friends with your ex, and that one time where everything just. kept. going. wrong.

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It’s Mother’s Day weekend and the mamas came to slay. And by slay, we mean grab a coffee and get into some real talk—like unconventional parenting advice, possibly starting an OnlyFans, putting your kids in therapy early, and the wild ride that is co-parenting.

This week, the ladies are joined by Felicia Latour—entrepreneur, one of the voices behind The Mama's Den podcast, founder of Somebody’s Mama, and most importantly, she is somebody’s mama. This is the Mother’s Day episode you didn’t know you needed… but you’re welcome.

00:00 – Felicia kicks things off with some parenting wisdom—starting strong with, “Marry rich.” But don’t clutch your pearls just yet, because there’s a comma after that, not a period. She breaks down the deeper meaning behind wanting more for your daughter. It’s the kind of advice that gets laughs and a few head nods from moms everywhere.

07:58 – The Ashleys caught one of Felicia’s infamous IG Story rants, and let’s just say… they felt that. It turns out, watching women get rich off OnlyFans is starting to look a little too tempting. 

16:01 – Everyone loves to glamorize entrepreneurship, but these working mamas are here to keep it real. Freedom is cute until you realize it comes with stress, sacrifice, and not nearly enough naps. They talk burnout, boundaries, and why nobody should romanticize the “girl boss” life without knowing the full picture. If you’ve ever run a business and a household at the same time—this one’s for you.

21:24 – Felicia has been in the co-parenting trenches for over five years and has the wisdom (and war stories) to prove it. Meanwhile, Ashley N is new to the game and still trying to figure out how to “co” without chaos. Felicia shares the importance of patience, grace, and knowing when to step back. It’s a raw and relatable conversation that’ll resonate with anyone navigating parenting with an ex.

38:05 – It’s Question Time! The ladies open up about hoarding things—like skincare, t-shirts, shoes… and maybe a man or two. They also talk about people who wildly overestimate their own abilities and the random things that can bring them to tears.

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