Feel like you're doing all the work but still getting overlooked? Watching teammates get opportunities you know you’ve earned? It’s frustrating, but you don’t have to stay stuck. In this episode, Coach Bre breaks down exactly how to handle it so you can take back control, improve your game, and get noticed for the right reasons.

Inside this episode:

 ✅ The #1 mindset shift that stops frustration in its tracks
 ✅ How to focus on what you can control (and why it matters)
 ✅ The right way to talk to your coach without sounding like you’re complaining
 ✅ How to turn this situation into fuel instead of a roadblock
 ✅ The key to making yourself impossible to ignore

The best athletes don’t let setbacks stop them; they use them to get better. Don’t miss this episode! Hit play now and take back control.

Episode Highlights: 

[00:00:00] Introduction. Feel like you're putting in the work but not getting the opportunities? In this episode, you’ll learn three key strategies to help you take back control and continue growing as an athlete.

[00:01:00] Focus on What You Can Control. You can’t control your coach’s decisions, but you can control your effort, attitude, and response. Shifting your focus to what’s in your control will help you grow rather than stay stuck in frustration.

[00:02:00] Avoid the Victim Mentality. Complaining, gossiping, or blaming your coach won’t change your situation. Instead, ask yourself how you can show up with the right work ethic, body language, and mindset to earn trust.

[00:03:00] Communicate the Right Way. Your coach isn’t a mind reader, so if you’re unsure about your role or playing time, ask for clarity. Use solution-focused questions like, “Coach, how can I contribute more to the team?” instead of comparing yourself to others.

[00:04:00] Seek Solutions, Not Just Venting. Coaches respect players who want to improve. Choose the right time to talk (not after a tough game) and approach the conversation with an open mind.

[00:05:00] Use This as Fuel, Not a Roadblock. Great athletes use setbacks as motivation to work harder. Instead of dwelling on what’s unfair, outwork everyone and make it impossible for your coach to ignore you.

[00:06:00] Final Takeaway. You have more control than you think. Keep showing up, taking action, and growing as an athlete. If this episode helped, check out the Elite Mental Game program for more tools to build confidence and mental strength.

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