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We've been going back in time on the blog and looking at how different eras viewed sex, so this week on the podcast we're bringing more of that conversation! Listen in as Sheila, Connor, and Rebecca break down what led to the sexual revolution and how the church responded to it at the time.

Links to things mentioned: 

Come support our peer-reviewed research and getting into more social media channels!
Connor's review of the 1970s sex book
My review of The Act of Marriage
Our sexuality through the ages series--start here and then follow the links at the bottom
Our rubric and scorecard of all the books we looked at for The Great Sex Rescue

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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We've got some AMAZING guests joining us on the podcast today, authors/father-daughter duo Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer! We hope you enjoy this discussion on church cultures, and can find your own church that is 'tov'!

Links to things mentioned:

Scot & Laura's book! https://amzn.to/2OP4Nb9 (A Church Called Tov)

Our rubric and scorecard
The Great Sex Rescue

To Support Us: 

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

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Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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This week's episode is going out to all the parents of teens out there. We know that sex and puberty can be a tough topic to navigate with your children as they grow up, so we wanted to really delve into that topic and hopefully help further healthy messages for the future generations!

The Whole Story: Our puberty & sex course for moms/daughters or dads/sons (or single parents & opposite sex child!)
The problem with Shaunti Feldhahn's survey question where she said that 82% of boys had little ability or felt little responsibility to stop the sexual progression
That study about teenagers and masturbation rates
The Great Sex Rescue: Our new book with lots of great research about lust, etc.

To Support Us: 

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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This is a jam-packed episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! We hope you enjoy listening in this week!

Links to things mentioned:

The Great Sex Rescue! And remember to rate and review!
Last week's long post on Emerson Eggerichs gaslighting abuse victims--and the podcast that went with it
The blog post where Emerson Eggerichs uses the stat both correctly & incorrectly at the same time
10 reasons rushing forgiveness ruins intimacy
Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family (that our letter writer referred to)
The Duty Sex Isn't Sexy podcast (that our letter writer referred to)
Why Unconditional Respect Isn't A Thing (where we looked in detail at Shaunti Feldhahn's survey question regarding respect)

To Support Us: 

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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We simply must change the way we talk about women in the church, because what is happening is dangerous.

Links to things mentioned:

The post yesterday where we discussed Emerson Eggerichs' sermons in detail
Last week's post on the Atlanta shootings and seeing women as dangerous
Study showing that non-fatal strangulation increases the odds of a woman being killed by seven-fold
The original sermon series by Emerson Eggerichs on YouTube--Part 1 and Part 2

To Support Us: 

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Let's discuss orgasms this week, shall we?! We're thrilled to announce our new Patreon!

Links to things mentioned:
 
The Great Sex Rescue
The Orgasm Course
The Honeymoon Course
The Orgasm Series

ᐧTo Support Us: 

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Another week where we're discussing sex and marriage here on the Bare Marriage Podcast!

Links to things mentioned:

The Great Sex Rescue — it's doing wonderfully and selling wonderfully! Thank you so much--and help us out by leaving a review on Amazon or Goodreads once you've read it!
Our survey methodology
Books that we liked--How We Love by the Yerkovichs; Boundaries and Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
10 Ways to Know if Your Church is Toxic
Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect
The story of Thalidomide

To Support Us: 

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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We planned to do a bit of a victory lap, and it did start out that way.
We’re just really raw with you about how demoralizing it is to see people just love our book and say what an amazing impact it’s had on them– and then have the powers-that-be still not care about hurting women.

Links to things mentioned:

The Great Sex Rescue
Our survey methods
Dr. Camden Morgante: And check out her "which purity culture myth affected you" quiz!
Our Podcast from last week discussing how children are not sexual
Our Honeymoon Prep Course (where we help people prepare for sex on the honeymoon--and how not to rush intercourse!)
Our correspondence with Focus on the Family around Love & Respect and abuse

To Support Us: 

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Sometimes the way we talk about sex is just plain, well, icky and weird.
We go back to basics and ask for a healthy way to talk about sex that isn’t weird!

Links to the things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue
Andrew Bauman

To Support Us: 

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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What happens when women are told: “If your husband is typical, he has a need you don’t have?”, as Love & Respect put it. 
If you hear that your whole life that women need affection while men need sex, and women don’t actually need that much. Well, should it be a surprise if we grow up believing that sex is not for us?

Links to things mentioned:
 
The Great Sex Rescue
Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin's Imago Marriage Counseling.
You can schedule a free consultation now--or check out his retreats.
My viral Twitter thread
Last week's post: How The Act of Marriage impacted me
Our libido series

To Support Us: 

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Support the show

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.