Becoming You Again

This week I'm joined by the vibrant Jessica Frew who shares her story of marriage, betrayal, divorce and so much more. Jessica talks about the moment she knew divorce was right for her and how she tapped into that knowing. She shares how she and her ex were able to come up with a 'divorce plan' for the sake of their daughter. 

You'll learn the importance of coming back to yourself after divorce. You'll also learn about the pitfalls of 'perfect partner syndrome', what it is and how to avoid falling into the trap of trying to be the perfect partner as you move into new relationships after divorce.

Don't miss this incredible conversation on divorce, growth and reconnection to self with Jessica Frew. Want to know more about Jessica? Check out the links below.

Jessica's IG.

Jessica's podcast - Husband-in-Law

Jessica's Free Workbook

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For more information and full show notes go to:
https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep158

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To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. 

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The uncertainty of divorce feels scary, worrisome and anxiety ridden.  In this episode we're going to understand the innate human quest for predictability and how that can be both a curse and a source of empowerment during divorce.

I'll walk you through how evolutionary biology plays a huge role in the pain we feel around uncertainty and what you can do to move through the uncertainty of your divorce moving toward a future that you actually want and are excited about.

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For more information and full show notes go to:
https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep157

To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. 

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!

If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. 

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Have you ever worried that the decision you make will be the wrong one, and so you stay stuck making no decision at all? Have you ever beat yourself up for "saying the wrong thing" or "doing the wrong thing"? Have you ever second guessed a decision during divorce? Have you ever  taken the blame for something that seemingly "went wrong"? If so, you're not alone. These are all forms of self doubt that many women experience throughout their divorce.

Today I'm talking everything self doubt. I'll reveal where those self doubt narratives are really coming from and I'll equip you with the way out of the self doubt trap so you can rewrite the narrative that shows up in your brain. Learning to drop the self doubt will ultimately lead to you owning your personal power in your own life.

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.

For more information and full show notes go to:
https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep156

To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. 

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!

If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. 

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We've all thought it about some aspect of our married life before: woulda, coulda, shoulda. In this flashback episode I'll be talking about my own experience of reliving the past over and over in my present day life and how doing that was creating more pain and suffering for me.

I'll teach you how to recognize when you're living in the past and how to let go of those painful stories to help you heal from your divorce by letting go of the past, learning to live in the present, and intentionally deciding who you want to be moving forward.

It's time to sift through the debris of the past, separate the facts from the fiction that our minds create and learn to recognize and rewrite the internal stories that color our perceptions and dictate our emotions. This is the path that leads to acceptance, self-compassion, and ultimately, the freedom to live fully in the present.

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.

For more information and full show notes go to:
https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep155

To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. 

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!

If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. 

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I'm talking everything triggers today. If you're going through a divorce, then you know how often triggers show up - sometimes expected but more often unexpected. These triggers, when you're not equipped to manage them, can rock the rest of your or sometimes the rest of your week. But don't worry, in this episode I'll give you a comprehensive guide to understanding these emotional cues, identifying and understanding their sources, and crafting a strategy to handle them with grace and self-compassion.

This week, we're not just talking about the problem; we're offering solutions. We'll walk through a series of practical steps to help you find your footing after a trigger turns your world upside down. I'll give you a four step process to follow to identify when you've been triggered and a guide to help you track trigger habits in your day to day life to help you become more aware of when they're happening and how to intentionally choose your response to the triggers moving forward.

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.

For more information and full show notes go to:
https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep154

To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. 

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!

If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. 

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This week I'm giving you another somatic practice called 'anchoring in blue'. This is a grounding exercise designed to steer you through the emotional waves of divorce towards more peace and self-assuredness. In this  episode, you'll learn to reconnect with your body's own language and find calm in the midst of divorce storms.

Use the art of anchoring in blue to anchor yourself as you deal with everyday stressors and complicated triggers that are constantly occurring during your divorce. The more somatic and grounding practices you have, the better off your healing process will be taking you into your new, beautiful life after divorce.

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.

For more information and full show notes go to:
https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep153

To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. 

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!

If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. 

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Grief has been on my mind lately as I struggle with my own personal grieving as my father is coming closer to his end of life. My experience reminded me that no matter the reason for our grief, it is essentially the same feeling that each one of us feel.

Grief is often a misunderstood emotion with many societal preconceived notions of what grief should look like. I'm breaking down the myths of grief and offering you some examples of why you may be holding on to grief. I'll also show you the power you will create in your own healing process when you open up to your grief and clear the emotional grief clouds that may be holding you back.

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.

For more information and full show notes go to:
https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep152

To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. 

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!

If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. 

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Feeling the heat of anger simmering through the veins of your post-divorce life? In this episode, we're going to step into a space where we confront the anger that bubbles up during and after divorce, an emotion too often dismissed or suppressed due to social stigmas. I'm going to teach you more than just how to 'vent', since we all know venting isn't really about allowing or releasing the feeling of anger inside your body.

I'll teach you how to harness your anger and allow it in ways that will empower and transform, as you follow a path for healthy expression and constructive release. But we don't stop there. You're going to leave this episode knowing specific ways to allow and release your anger in a safe way, followed by supporting your emotional wellbeing by knowing how to integrate yourself back into the here and now.

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.

For more information and full show notes go to:
https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep151

To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. 

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!

If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. 

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When the weight of divorce presses heavily upon your shoulders, you may discover an unexpected friend in the form of self-compassion.  By treating ourselves with the same care and understanding we would offer to a dear friend, we implement a powerful tool for healing and growth. This conversation about self compassion is about learning to be an inner ally and learning to quiet the inner enemy during the turbulence of change.

First you'll learn how to gauge how self compassionate you are, and then you'll learn the five tenants of self compassion and how to try each one out and see if it feels resonant for you. Join me on this path to learning about self compassion as nurturing this part of you will help to transform not just your current experience but your entire approach to your divorce and life beyond.

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text START to 88788

Loveisrespect.org

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.

For more information and full show notes go to:
https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep150

To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. 

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!

If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. 

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Embark on an insightful exploration of the tumultuous emotional landscapes portrayed in Netflix's "Beef" with me. I'll examine the emotional survival of the main characters, Danny and Amy, and uncover profound lessons in emotional resilience that you can apply to your own life. You learn how unchecked anger and impulsivity can mask the deep-seated pain and disconnection we face, especially during life's more trying situations like divorce. Their story serves as a mirror to our own, reflecting the critical need for emotional awareness to navigate the ebbs and flows of personal adversity.

I'll discuss the pivotal role that staying present with our feelings provides to be able to engage our prefrontal cortex for thoughtful decision-making. By sharing this fictional transformation, I offer you insights and practical resources to support your journey toward emotional clarity. Whether you're rebuilding resilience or simply seeking a deeper understanding of emotional awareness, join me in this episode that promises to inspire and guide you along your path to healing and growth.

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Make sure to follow and rate the podcast on your favorite podcasting app.

For more information and full show notes go to:
https://www.karinnelsoncoaching.com/post/ep149

To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. 

To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.

Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!

If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. 

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