"It's so scary to be nobody."

In this episode, I’m talking with Yarmila Alfonzetti, one of Australia’s leading arts professionals, a mother, a wife, a friend, and, in the truest sense of the word, a curious yogi.

Yarmila joins me with so much joy and openness to share her journey as a yogi. Together, we dive into themes of identity, ego, and what makes yoga retreats so special. She speaks about the gift of silence in practice, the experience of bliss, and how personal growth brings its own responsibilities.

Along the way, we reflect on the wisdom of our many teachers and the transformative power of retreats, reminding us that yoga is truly a lifelong journey of self-discovery and deeper understanding.

Here are a few of the nuggets we explore:

➖ Accepting our inner seeking nature can be challenging.

➖ The ego can be a significant barrier to growth.

➖ Silence and meditation become more important as practice deepens.

➖ The path of seeking is often filled with challenges and fears.

➖ Morality and kindness are essential in the pursuit of truth.

➖ Yoga retreats offer space for real learning and personal growth.

I loved this candid and spontaneous conversation with Yarmila. She mentioned that she always tries to be the best person in the room, and I believe she truly is.

This chat really feels like sitting down with two friends, and I think you’ll feel that too.

✨ Also, tune in to the intro for a special scholarship offer for our India retreat—open to one of our Curious Yogi Podcast listeners!

In oneness,

Bobbi

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