Better For It

Ever felt like everything’s happening at once and you're just trying to stay afloat? Same.

In this raw, real-time checkpoint episode, Grace and Boston catch you up on the massive life pivots they’ve been navigating — from dodgy business deals to mindset breakthroughs, career shifts, and big plans for the pod. If you’ve been feeling stuck, scattered, or like you’re “behind,” this is the heart-to-heart you didn’t know you needed.

🔑 What you’ll get in this ep:

A behind-the-scenes on the messy but powerful lessons from a business betrayal (10:40)

How Grace is shifting gears toward running coaching and ditching perfectionism (26:15)

Boston’s experience getting scammed and how it reshaped his business values (17:00)

How to actually create urgency and momentum toward your goals (38:00)

A refreshingly honest convo about burnout, identity shifts, and figuring it out in real-time

💬 “You can either try and fail… or try and succeed. But if you don’t try, nothing changes.”

⚡ If you’re in your 20s, wrestling with big decisions, and trying to be better for it — this one’s for you.

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Feeling burnt out from trying to be everything to everyone?

You’re not alone — and you do not have to keep giving a fuck about it all.

In Part 2 of this two-part series, Grace and Boston get real about what it actually looks like to stop people-pleasing, set better boundaries, and take control of your energy in your 20s. From post-marathon burnout to the mental gymnastics of trying to be productive 24/7, they unpack why caring less strategically might just be your secret weapon.

You’ll laugh, reflect, and 100% relate to the raw moments — including Boston being caught mid-burnout staring at a wall 🫠 and Grace's internal monologue telling her to “book the Barry's class” while she’s trying to rest.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

🚫 Signs you’re giving too many fucks — and why it’s so hard to stop

⚖️ How to embrace “seasons” in life (yes, maintenance phases are productive)

🧠 Why your inner voice might be the one dragging you into burnout

👏 Practical tips for setting boundaries and not caving to the guilt

⏱ Episode Timestamps:

00:00 – Grace & Boston’s catch-up and post-marathon fatigue

04:52 – What “giving yourself grace” actually means

11:03 – How to unlearn productivity guilt

17:45 – Boston’s strategy for catching burnout before it wrecks you

23:20 – The power of saying “no” (and dealing with the guilt)

29:05 – Final thoughts + tip of the week

👉 If you haven’t yet, go back and listen to Part 1 of this series first — it sets the stage by showing you exactly why we give too many fucks in the first place.

💬 Tell us what you’re learning: DM us @betterforit_pod on Insta or comment your biggest takeaway.

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Because we’re not perfect either — we’re just trying to be better for it.

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This week, we’re taking you behind the scenes of our Paris Marathon experience – and it’s not all croissants and cobblestones. From literal squat breaks mid-race to falling head over heels (emotionally, not physically) for the Parisian lifestyle, this ep is equal parts laugh-out-loud and reflective AF.

We unpack how running 42km through the City of Love brought more than just sore calves – it brought clarity about what truly matters to us in our 20s: lifestyle, environment, food (the produce in Paris!) and the surprising way a city can align with your values.

🔥 What You'll Hear:

🕐 [00:00] Intro & marathon flashbacks (aka Grace's squat saga)

🥐 [06:25] Why Paris unexpectedly felt like “home”

🌍 [12:40] What travelling teaches you about your values

🛒 [16:55] The produce that nearly made us pack up and move

💭 [22:10] Thoughts on environment, fulfilment, and living intentionally

❤️ [27:45] Boston’s not-so-subtle hints about moving to Paris

💡 Top Takeaways:

Running marathons abroad reveals more than physical endurance – it shows what lights you up.

Your environment matters way more than you think. Especially when you’ve worked hard to understand what you value.

Sometimes you don’t need to follow your plan – just wander into a Parisian bakery and live a little.

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Because life’s better when you’re living it on your terms. And maybe with a baguette in hand.

“You can’t grow if you’re busy giving a f*ck about everything and everyone.”

Let’s be honest… caring too much is draining. In this unfiltered, feel-good episode, Grace and Boston are diving into the art of letting go — of people-pleasing, perfectionism, overthinking, and saying yes when you want to scream NO.

Inspired by Mel Robbins’ “Let Them” theory, this ep is packed with real talk, personal stories, and practical mindset shifts to help you stop obsessing over what others think and start protecting your energy like the badass 20-something you are.

👇 Here’s what you’ll take away:

– How to stop being a “fixer” or “emotional sponge” 🧽 (even if you were raised that way)

– Why people not liking you might be the best thing ever

– The problem with self-development becoming a to-do list

– Why boundaries are your new best friend (and how to actually set them)

– Signs you’re in a “shame spiral” and how to get out

– The one rule Grace and Boston live by when things feel overwhelming 💭

🕒 Time Stamps:

00:00 – Intro & messy life updates (sunshine, tech bros & marathon fatigue)

06:45 – The “Let Them” theory that changed everything

12:40 – Why self-help can accidentally become toxic

19:10 – Reframing rejection + the magic of not being liked

26:30 – Navigating career confusion, identity shifts & burnout

31:40 – Practical steps to give fewer f*cks (without becoming a robot)

38:20 – Pep talk for anyone feeling “meh” about where they’re at

👯‍♀️ Whether you’re stuck in a comparison spiral, struggling to find your voice, or just burnt out from caring too much — this episode will feel like a warm hug and a kick in the ass, all in one.

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Remember: Let them think what they want. You’ve got better sh*t to do.

You’ve heard it all before: “Carbs are bad,” “Cut bread to cut fat,” “Try carnivore!” But are we just recycling the same old BS with new branding?

In this episode of Start Here To Be Better For It, Grace and Boston peel back the layers on the latest diet trends (yep, we’re looking at you, Carnivore Diet 🥩) and ask the real question: Why are we so scared of carbs?

With a blend of science, lived experience, and a cheeky dose of humour, they break down the cyclical nature of nutrition trends, the psychological impact of restrictive eating, and the truth about low-carb dieting for body composition.

PLUS: The duo shares their recent Moroccan getaway—why stepping out of Manchester and into the sun literally changed everything. This isn’t just a health chat, it’s a full mind-body reset.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

- The importance of rest and sunshine: how Morocco became the reset they didn’t know they needed (6:00)

- Why you should actually book that trip you’ve been putting off (10:00)

- The real science behind low-carb diets and body composition (20:45)

- How fad diets get repackaged—and why we keep falling for them (25:30)

- Why carbs aren’t your enemy (spoiler: they’re your energy source) (29:20)

- Grace’s vulnerability around restrictive eating history (33:15)

✨ Whether you're stuck in a cycle of restrictive eating or just need a reminder to take a break and feel the sun, this episode is your sign to challenge diet culture and put yourself first.

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Pilates: just glorified stretching or a legit strength workout? 🤔 In this episode, we’re tackling one of the BIGGEST fitness misconceptions floating around social media—whether Pilates can actually build strength and replace traditional gym workouts.

⏰ Time Stamps & Key Takeaways:

0:00 - 5:30 → Life update: UK sunshine appreciation & why we booked a trip just to chase the sun ☀️

5:30 - 12:45 → The viral "Pilates Body vs. Gym Body" trend – what influencers aren’t telling you

12:45 - 18:20 → Can Pilates actually build muscle? Strength vs. toning explained

18:20 - 24:10 → The science behind resistance training in Pilates & why it’s NOT just stretching

24:10 - 30:00 → Should you swap gym workouts for Pilates? What’s best for strength, flexibility & overall health

30:00 - 35:40 → The best way to mix Pilates with weight training (without losing progress)

35:40 - 40:00 → Our final thoughts & why we think this debate is blown out of proportion

💬 What’s your take on the Pilates vs. gym debate? Have you tried both? Let us know in the comments!

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The running hype is REAL, but how do you actually get better without breaking yourself in the process? In this episode, Grace and Boston break down everything you need to know to level up your running game, avoid injury, and train smarter—not just harder.

From loading and recovery strategies to nutrition hacks that fuel performance, this episode is packed with practical tips to make you a stronger, faster, and more resilient runner.

🔥 Key Takeaways:

🚀 The biggest mistakes runners make—and how to avoid them ([12:40])

💪 Strength training for runners: What actually works ([18:10])

🥗 Running nutrition 101: What to eat pre & post-run ([23:50])

🏃‍♀️ The truth about running injuries & how to prevent them ([31:20])

🎯 Setting realistic goals & how to actually hit them ([38:00])

Boston also shares his recent half-marathon PB and the surprising reason he smashed his previous time without even training for it. Plus, Grace spills on her recent long run without music—was it mental torture or a form of meditation?

👉 If you’re a runner (or just thinking about getting into it), you NEED to listen to this episode. Hit play now on Spotify or Apple Podcasts! 🎙️

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Running has exploded in popularity—and we’re here for it. Whether you’re lacing up for your first 5K or deep into marathon training (like us 👀), this episode is packed with everything you need to run smarter, not harder.

🚀 What You’ll Learn:

🔹 Why running has taken over social media & why EVERYONE is joining run clubs

🔹 Common running myths—does running actually help you lose weight?

🔹 The truth about fueling—why running makes you hungrier & how to eat right

🔹 The game-changing secret to enjoying long runs (spoiler: don’t run alone)

🔹 How marathon training has completely changed our relationship with fitness

⏳ Episode Breakdown:

00:00 – Intro & life update 🌍

05:30 – Why is running so popular right now? 📈

12:45 – The biggest running mistakes (that most people make) ❌

20:10 – Nutrition for runners: What to eat before & after 🥑

28:00 – How we’re making marathon training actually FUN 🎉

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Losing fat isn’t about quick fixes or magic supplements—it’s about doing the simple things, consistently, for long enough to see results. In this episode, Grace and Boston dive into the science of fat loss, cutting through the noise to give you practical, no-BS strategies that actually work.

💡 Key topics we cover:

✅ Why slow and steady fat loss is the only way that works long-term

✅ How to structure your diet without feeling restricted

✅ The real reason sleep and stress impact fat loss

✅ Strength training vs. cardio—what’s actually best for burning fat

✅ Why focusing on habits over hacks is the game-changer

🎯 Skip to the good stuff:

2:30 – Why body fat exists in the first place (part 1 recap)

10:15 – The truth about "fast" fat loss

22:40 – Why calories matter, but not in the way you think

35:10 – How to stay consistent without losing your mind

🔥 If you’re tired of dieting fads and want a real, sustainable approach to fat loss, this episode is for you. Listen now on Spotify & Apple Podcasts!

🎧 Hit play, give us a rating, and drop a comment—what’s your biggest struggle with fat loss? 👇

Why is fat even here? 🧐 In this episode of Better For It, Grace and Boston kick off their two-part series, "Simplifying Fat Loss," by diving into the why behind body fat.

No fluff, just science, relatable banter, and practical insights.

From busting myths about fat to understanding its role in our bodies, this episode sets the foundation for healthy, evidence-based fat loss (without the crash diets or guilt trips).

Plus, the duo opens up about the challenges of a gloomy January and staying motivated when the world feels a little, well...bleak.

Jump to:

🔹 [0:00 - 5:00] Grace & Boston’s hilarious winter struggles – Blue Monday, cold weather blues, and morning walk dilemmas.

🔹 [8:00 - 12:30] Why we store fat: unpacking the biology behind it.

🔹 [12:30 - 20:00] Busting common fat-related myths and why societal pressure makes it harder to understand fat in a balanced way.

🔹 [20:00 - 28:00] The surprising link between mental health, movement, and body composition (and why “moving more” isn’t the whole answer).

💬 Ready for part two? Get excited for the next episode, where Grace and Boston cover the how: practical fat loss strategies that actually work.

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