Your keys aren't lost. Your mind isn't going. And no, that's not Alzheimer's. Dr. Majid Fotuhi, Adjunct Professor, Johns Hopkins University & author of The Invincible Brain, busts the biggest myth in women's brain health: that the fog, the forgetfulness, and the "wait, why did I walk in here?" moments of perimenopause are a sign of something sinister. Spoiler: they're not. And your brain? It can literally grow.

From the surprising science of how walking three times a week can give you a measurably bigger brain, to why your hearing aid might be the best thing you ever do for your memory, Dr. Fotuhi gives us proof that midlife isn't a decline — it's a new childhood. And this time, you're in charge.

Episode Overview (timestamps are approximate):

Resources mentioned in this episode: https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep458

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Dr. Stephanie covers tendon anatomy, how they respond to mechanical loading, why "stiffness" is actually desirable, and the evidence-based rehab hierarchy: load management, isometrics, heavy slow resistance training, and elastic recoil progressions. She addresses common issues for women over 40—lateral hip pain, rotator cuff problems, tennis elbow, patellar tendinopathy—and explains how perimenopause and hormone shifts create vulnerabilities.

Whether you're dealing with a cranky Achilles, can't sleep on your side due to hip pain, or want to prevent future injury while strength training for life, this episode gives you the tendon operating manual you didn't know you needed. Plus: why tendons are Dr. Stephanie's spirit animal (they hate surprises, just like her).

Episode Overview (timestamps are approximate):

Resources mentioned in this episode can be found at https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep457

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Dr. Maria Sophocles examines the “bedroom gap,” the disparity in sexual expectations and challenges between men and women in midlife. In this episode, she explains how menopausal hormonal changes, together with psychological and cultural pressures, affect women’s sexual agency. Many women internalize norms that prioritize a partner’s needs over their own, leading to shame about reduced libido. This conversation is a call to action for women to prioritize their sexual health and engage in honest dialogue to support healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Episode Overview (timestamps are approximate):
(0:00) Intro/Teaser
(5:00) The Bedroom Gap
(10:00) Hormones & The Neiman Marcus to IKEA Transition
(14:00) Systemic Estrogen vs. Vaginal & The Cancer Fear
(23:00) Hormone Therapy & The Healthy User Bias
(26:00) Non-Hormonal Options
(32:00) Sex After a Heart Attack
(40:00) Sex Span as Health Span
(42:00) Why Women Think Sex Is For Men
(49:00) Where to Learn About Sex
(55:00) How to Talk to Your Partner
(1:10:00) Redefining Sex at Any Age
(1:13:00) After Party with Dr. Stephanie

Resources mentioned can be found at https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep456

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Ready for the breast health conversation nobody's having? Harvard-trained breast radiologist Dr. Lilian Ebuoma gives a masterclass that covers everything from why your daughter might be developing breast buds at 7 (spoiler: it's not just you) to the real deal on mammograms, dense breasts, and that one lifestyle change that drops breast cancer risk by 25%. Whether you're navigating perimenopause, worried about lumps, confused about nipple discharge colours (yes, there's a rainbow), or just want to understand your breasts better—this episode gives you the knowledge and confidence to advocate for yourself.

Plus, Dr. Lilian shares the one question that transforms patient care and builds trust across cultural divides. If you own breasts or care about someone who does, press play.

Episode Overview (timestamps are approximate):

Resources mentioned in this episode can be found at: https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep455

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Dr. Doug Lucas, a double board-certified orthopedic surgeon and osteoporosis specialist, who dives into the secrets of maintaining optimal bone health. In this episode, you will discover why bone health is vital for women of all ages and learn actionable tips to build and maintain strong bones from your teens to your golden years. Brace yourself for intriguing insights, such as the surprising benefits of prunes as an independent intervention for osteoporosis! This episode is a comprehensive guide to nurturing your bones through diet, exercise, and hormonal balance.

Episode Overview [Timestamps are approximate]:
(0:00) Introduction
(4:00) Why Women Get Osteoporosis in Their 40s
(11:00) The Chronic Dieting Problem & Under-Eating Epidemic
(17:00) Pregnancy, Breastfeeding & Bone Density
(23:00) Hormones Explained
(34:00) Nutrition for Bone Health
(43:00) The Boron Secret & Prunes for Bone Density
(47:00) Exercise That Hurts Your Bones
(55:00) How to Lift Weights for Bone Health
(1:04:00) Weighted Vests, GLP-1s & Bone Medications
(1:23:00) The After-Party with Dr. Stephanie

Resources mentioned in this episode can be found at https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep454

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"Estrogen is not a hormone; it's a family of hormones,” says Dr. Felice Gersh. “You can't say fat does this or fat does that—you have to say which fat. The same with estrogen.” That’s right, she is back to challenge the conventional "lowest dose for the shortest time" approach to menopausal hormone therapy, explore why menopause creates a default pro-inflammatory state, how different estrogens activate different receptors, and why understanding these distinctions matters for cardiovascular health, bone density, brain function, immune response, and metabolic health.

Episode Overview (timestamps are approximate):
(0:00) Intro/Teaser
(2:00) Welcome to an Estrogen Masterclass
(6:00) The Estrogen Family: E1, E2, E3, E4 Explained
(15:00) Alpha vs. Beta Receptors & Why It Matters
(27:00) Menopause, Inflammation & Gut Health
(33:00) Menopause as a Hormone Deficiency State
(45:00) Why the Women’s Health Initiative Got It Wrong
(59:00) When to Start Hormone Therapy (Age 35?)
(1:13:00) Bioidentical vs. Synthetic Hormones
(1:22:00) Vaginal Estrogen: Canary in the Coal Mine
(1:32:00) BiEst & Topical Estrogen for Skin
(1:40:00) After Party: Dr. Stephanie’s Takeaways

Resources mentioned in this episode can be found at: https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep453

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Award-winning health journalist Meghan Rabbitt discusses her groundbreaking book, "The New Rules of Women's Health.” This conversation tackles what's broken in women's healthcare—from outdated anatomical terminology named after "pale, male, and stale" doctors to the dangerous myth that women are just "small men." They explore why heart disease (not breast cancer) is women's #1 killer, the clitoris as more than just a "button," autoimmune disease surges in midlife, and why menopause deserves better PR.

Episode Overview (timestamps are approximate):
(0:00) Cold Open: What’s Broken in Women’s Health
(4:00) The Problem with “Bikini Medicine”
(7:00) Why Language Matters: Renaming Our Body Parts
(13:00) The Cow Clitoris Scandal & Female Anatomy
(22:00) Heart Disease: Women’s Real #1 Killer
(27:00) Autoimmune Disease Surge in Midlife
(34:00) Normalizing Suffering
(42:00) How to Use This Book with Your Doctor
(47:00) The Upsides of Menopause
(51:00) After Party: Dr. Stephanie’s Final Thoughts

Resources mentioned in this episode can be found at https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep452

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Think testosterone is just a male hormone? Think again. In this game-changing conversation, Shalin Shah, CEO of Marius Pharmaceuticals, debunks a major myth in women’s health. Spoiler alert: women have more testosterone than estrogen, and when those levels drop during perimenopause and menopause, it affects more than just libido. Brain fog, disrupted sleep, stubborn belly fat, and a feeling of losing strength and vitality are common symptoms. While men have had access to testosterone therapy for decades, women have been left in the dark until now. 

Shalin explains the importance of testosterone for various bodily functions, debunks myths that prevent proper treatment, and shares the revolutionary science behind the first effective oral testosterone therapy that aligns with the body’s natural rhythms.

Episodes Overview (timestamps are approximate):
(0:00) Intro/Teaser
(3:00) Understanding Testosterone in Men and Women
(6:00) Clinical Signs and Symptoms of Low Testosterone
(11:00) Testing and Diagnosing Testosterone Levels
(13:00) Challenges in Hormone Therapy for Women
(21:00) Environmental and Lifestyle Factors Affecting Testosterone
(23:00) Increasing Natural Testosterone Levels
(30:00) Modes of Testosterone Delivery
(35:00) Female Hormone Therapy: Standardized Dosing
(39:00) Debunking Myths About Testosterone
(44:00) Dosage and Monitoring for Testosterone Therapy
(51:00) Challenges in Accessing Hormone Therapy
(54:00) Global Availability and Future of Oral Testosterone
(58:00) The After-Party with Dr. Stephanie

Resources mentioned in this episode can be found at: https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep451/

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Dr. Stephanie goes "holiday-solo" for the third and final time this week to discuss the growing claim that obesity is mainly genetic, with diet and exercise only accounting for 15% of results. She explains why this messaging is scientifically questionable and potentially harmful, especially for women in perimenopause and menopause who feel powerless. In this candid solo episode, Dr. Stephanie addresses the recent trend of medical professionals suggesting that GLP-1 medications like Ozempic are more effective than lifestyle interventions, and why this approach undermines women’s agency. She acknowledges genetic predispositions but argues that resistance training and protein-forward nutrition should remain our primary tools for metabolic health.

Episode overview:
(0:00) Intro/Teaser
(2:00) The Instagram Post
(4:00) The Role of Neurochemicals in Obesity
(5:00) Glucose Metabolism and Muscle Quality
(6:00) Hormonal Changes in Midlife
(7:00) Critique of Genetic Determinism in Obesity
(12:00) The Importance of Diet and Exercise
(19:00) Teaching Healthy Habits to Children
(21:00) Final Thoughts and Action Steps

Resources mentioned in this episode can be found at https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep450/

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TROSCRIPTIONS - There’s a completely new way to optimize your health. Give it a try at https://troscriptions.com/BETTER or enter BETTER at checkout for 10% off your first order.

JUST THRIVE HEALTH - Take the Just Thrive FEEL BETTER challenge today, and save 20% on your first order. Go to https://justthrivehealth.com/better and use the code BETTER to see the difference for yourself or get a full product refund, no questions asked.

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As we wind down 2025 in this second of three solo episodes, Dr. Stephanie takes a pause to express her deep gratitude for the Better community and guide you through a meaningful year-end reflection. This isn't about toxic positivity or pretending everything was fine—it's about acknowledging the highs and lows, the lessons learned, and the strength you discovered (even when you didn't know you had it).

In this intimate solo episode, Dr. Stephanie shares reflective questions and gratitude practices to help you take stock of 2025 and set intentional (not pressured) direction for 2026. Whether you're in your pyjamas in that post-Christmas vortex or out for a walk, this episode offers a gentle hand and a tender heart as you close out the year.

Episode Overview (timestamps are approximate):
(0:00) Intro/Teaser
(2:00) What Gratitude Really Is (& What It’s Not)
(4:00) 2025 Gratitude Inventory
(14:00) The Gratitude Note Exercise
(15:00) What Did I Survive & Learn?
(18:00) What Am I Ready to Forgive Myself For?
(21:00) How Do I Want to Feel in 2026?
(24:00) What Will I Prioritize Even If No One Claps?

Resources mentioned in the episode can be found at https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep449

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TIMELINE - As perimenopausal women, we know we are in a fight against time to preserve our muscle strength and endurance, plus our recovery needs are greater. That's why you save 20% at https://timelinenutrition.com/better with code BETTER.

ONESKIN - Harness the power of peptides for fuller hair and glowing skin. Save 15% at https://oneskin.co/better with code BETTER.

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P.S. When you're ready, here are two ways Dr. Stephanie can help you:

Subscribe: The Mini Pause — My weekly newsletter packed with the most actionable, evidence-based tools for women 40+ to thrive in midlife.

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