BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

This week, your BFF’s are joined in the third seat by scholar and historian Amanda Timpson to discuss why we need to keep talking about LGBTQ+ people and our history in this moment. We also talk Netflix's taken on the history of Lizzy Borden and why Ryan Murphy is the white Tyler Perry. 

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This week, your BFF’s talk about the things no one told them about adulting and where they currently are in life. They pose a question that many of us are still trying to figure out, W.T.F. and W.T.A.F.? 

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This week, your BFF's sit down with the hilarious and real comedian Nori Reed to discuss how and why comedy needs to address social truths in this moment and why there needs to be more representation for ugly people. We also look at the complexities of what's happening around the event folks can't stop talking about and why KFC is better than Popeyes. 

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This week your BFF's sit down with Amber Cooper from the Match Group to discuss the one thing that has everyone stressed more than gas prices: DATING + RELATIONSHIPS. We also ask a very important question that so many of us wonder in every relationship we have - is every connection meant for us to learn something? We also discuss why the BLK app is where it's at! 

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This week your BFF's are joined by Rev. Don Abram to reflect on navigating both the beauty (and the harm) of the Black Church. We dive into what it means to reconstruct faith beyond toxic theology and how (and why) being in community with other Black queer people should be viewed as a sacred space.

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This week, your BFF’s process out loud what it’s been like to lose so many greats all at one time. We also talk about the ways they encouraged us and what type of legacy we want to leave behind when it’s our time to go to glory. 🙏🏾 

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This week your besties look back to when we were joined by the Kang of digital content - the one who keeps the content live, loud and in color, Chris Rodgers. On the show this week: a discussion about why we are sick and tired of being sick and tired as millennials. Chris also gives PayPal the stern talking too they deserve. 

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This week, the BFF's welcome viral creator Romeo Bingham to talk about the joy, labor, and pressure behind being an “overnight” moment. From the Dr Pepper jingle going national to the conditional care and scrutiny Black trans femmes face online, this we get into visibility, viral fame, pop culture, and the chaos unfolding everywhere else.

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This week the BFF's are doing a full episode of Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam. We talk about the things we love, the things people do that bring us joy, the things we can't STAND and the things we hope to never see or experience again. It's our house and we live here! 

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This week we are joined by our favorite Goddess on the court, Emma "Dilemma" Belizario as we unpack the myths and misinformation shaping the conversation around trans athletes in sports. In our convo we move beyond headlines to explore what’s truly at stake for trans girls and women, why these narratives persist, and what trans athletes are actually asking for when they step onto the court. It’s a necessary conversation about equity, dignity, and why we need to protect all trans people's right to play.

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