BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

By iHeartPodcasts

"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a w

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The podcast currently has 159 episodes available.

BFF: Black, Fat, Femme episodes:

July 15, 2025 Groove Is In the Coco Vita (Featuring Virr)
This week we welcome Virr to the show to discuss artist we wish got more shine, how their identity inspires their music and what lyrics we have always gotten wrong in songs. Did we also mention we play a round of song association and give Joho their flowers for being named San Diego's Business Journals Leaders of influences.

Applause, a round of APPLAUSE!

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1h 5min
July 08, 2025 Throw Us a Break!
This week, your BFFs sink their teeth into the blockbuster film, Sinners, by Ryan Coogler, and share how the movie has impacted how they see themselves (and how Annie is the true hero of the story). Then, we get into what the moviegoing experience means to us.

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1h 29min
July 01, 2025 It’s Trauma, Mama…
This week your bff's talk about the power of prayer, hop into their Iyanla bag (I wonder how she's doing) while confronting generational curses and discuss the best and WORST places to eat (since we both live out of a suitcase).

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1h 2min
June 24, 2025 Fight for Ghost Rights (Featuring Kim and Ket)
This week we welcome our favorite final girls, Kim and Ket from "Kim and Ket Stay Alive...Maybe" podcast for a mid-summer horror kiki. We talk weapons of survival, Michael Meyers getting in his ring steps and our favorite /not so favorite horror franchises. Jon also throws flowers at Los Angeles Parking Patrol.

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1h 41min
June 17, 2025 Too Fat, Too Furious (Featuring Tigress Osborn)
This week we welcome scholar, activist and movement maker Tigress Osborn on to discuss fat advancement, policy and why we all should care more about inclusion - even when it's not sexy. We also remix the last segment and discuss why we love our bodies exactly the way they are.

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Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!

Meet DoctorJonPaul on their book tour in a city near you

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1h 31min
June 10, 2025 Take a Look, It's In a Book...(Featuring Emely Rumble)
This week your BFF's kick it with therapist & healer Emely Rumble to talk discuss why literature can be healing and why it's so important to jot down your story. We also discuss east coast/west coast vibes and scream, "F*** ICE" from the top of our lungs.

Want Emely's or Jon's book? Be the first to email us (below) for your chance to win. :D

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1h 14min
June 03, 2025 The Kids Will Be Alright (Featuring Melanie Willingham-Jaggers)
This week your kick off pride month celebrating queer history, discuss what's at stake for our queer youth and what words of affirmation we have for those who are scared of what the future might look like. We also examine whether Joho might just be a native New Yorker.

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Reports Mentioned:

2023 LGBTQ+ Youth Report

2024 U.S. National Survey on the Mental Health of LGBTQ+ Young People

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1h 20min
May 27, 2025 Mild Sauce on My T*tties
This week your bffs break down what it means to be gender expansive in a world that is constantly trying to keep us trapped in the binary. We also talk our love for Taco Bell and why folks need to mind their business when folks say they don't partake in alcohol.

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Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!

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1h 11min
May 20, 2025 Rejecting Perfection (...and the Tariffs)
This week your bffs talk about what they have learned from being in the Beyhive, the struggles that marginalized people have to ignore perfection and the impact it has on Black youth. We also talk about why Sofi has the WORST layout ever and why you too should be rejecting the tariffs.

Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: [email protected].

Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!

Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!

Meet DoctorJonPaul on their book tour in a city near you.

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57min
May 09, 2025 I Can't Charm a Robot!
This week your BFFs get into their tech bag and discuss how tech has changed their lives as they’ve grown up and the realness of Black Mirror (why it gotta be Black?!). We also discuss why we hate self check out.

an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: [email protected].

Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!

Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!

Meet DoctorJonPaul on their book tour in a city near you.

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1h 14min

FAQs about BFF: Black, Fat, Femme:

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The podcast currently has 159 episodes available.

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