Hey, Blessed + Bossed Up family! As we take a short break from the podcast, we wanted to re-air the most listened-to episode of 2024! This episode, Surrendering to the Season, resonated deeply with so many of you, and it’s packed with timeless wisdom for ambitious women striving to balance family, faith, and purpose.

In this episode, Tatum gets real about navigating the delicate balance of building a thriving business and nurturing a loving home. She shares revelations about how God has been ministering to her in this season of marriage and motherhood, helping her redefine success and prioritize legacy over income.

Whether you’re a married woman with young children, a high achiever striving to fulfill your God-given purpose, or simply someone seeking encouragement in surrendering to God’s plan, this episode is for you. Tatum also dives into:

• The importance of aligning your value system with God’s priorities.
• How Proverbs 14:1 inspired a powerful perspective shift.
• Using your ambition and gifts to create legacy in your home.
• Encouragement for women building what they’ve never seen modeled before.

Key Takeaways:

• God calls us to seasons of focus and surrender for His purpose and glory.
• Your business won't fail because you’re focused on your family—obedience to God will multiply your efforts.
• High-achieving women can find harmony in serving both their home and their purpose.

Announcements:

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End your year in God’s presence! The Blessed + Bossed Up Society is partnering with Mornings with God ministry for a free Prayer-a-thon on December 31st. Together, we’ll cover six key areas: Spiritual Wellness, Health, Mental and Emotional Health, Finances, Community, and Relationships. Registration is FREE! bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

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Hey everyone! While we’re still on a brief podcast break, I wanted to share an exciting update and a timely word to help you navigate the end of this year and prepare for what’s ahead.

Special Announcement: Prayer-a-thon on December 31st

As the year closes, we’re thrilled to invite you to the Prayer-a-thon hosted by the Blessed + Bossed Up Society in partnership with Mornings with God ministry. This is your chance to come together in faith and expectation as we pray over six powerful areas:

• Spiritual wellness & development
• Health & physical well-being
• Mental & emotional health
• Finances & work
• Community & the nations
• Relationships

The best part? Registration is completely free! Whether you’re seeking clarity, breakthrough, or simply alignment with God’s plans for 2025, this event is for you. Don’t miss out— bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

This Episode: Peace and Perspective

As we move into the final stretch of the year, many of us are planning, strategizing, and seeking God’s will for our businesses and lives. But how do you know if you're truly in alignment with God? In this episode, we dive deep into the nuances of peace—both of the flesh and of the spirit—and how to discern the peace that comes from God.

Key Takeaways:

1. Defining Peace: The difference between the peace of the flesh (comfort and control) and the peace of the spirit (wholeness, harmony, and alignment with God’s word).
2. Peace as Confirmation: Why our emotions are not reliable indicators of being in God’s will and how to recognize the settledness of the Holy Spirit.
3. Practical Tips: Characteristics of God’s peace to help you confidently move forward in His purpose for your life and business.

Scripture References:

• Galatians 5:17
• Biblical definition of peace: Wholeness and harmony when all essential parts are joined together
• Joshua 1:8: "Meditate on the Word day and night so that you may be successful."
• Romans 8:28: "All things work together for the good of those who love the Lord."

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As we take a short break, enjoy this powerful replay of one of our most impactful episodes!

In this episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, we kick off the Bible on Business series, diving deep into how scripture provides practical and spiritual guidance for faith-based entrepreneurs. Tatum explores how the Bible equips us to operate as shepherds in our businesses, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing souls over sales and embodying Christ-like leadership.

Key Highlights:

• Special Announcement: Join the free Prayer-a-thon on December 31st, hosted by Blessed and Bossed Up Society in partnership with Mornings with God Ministry. Let’s close out 2024 in God’s presence, praying over key areas for 2025. Register Here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon
• Series Introduction: Tatum explains how God’s Word serves as the ultimate business guide, offering insights into leadership, integrity, and the responsibility of shepherding His people.
• Markers of Growth in Faith-Based Entrepreneurship:
• Moving from “God is my CEO” to becoming Christ-like shepherds in business.
• Shifting from hustle culture to leading as executives rooted in God’s wisdom.
• Shepherding Lessons for Entrepreneurs:
• Characteristics of sheep and how they parallel consumer behavior.
• The importance of prioritizing souls, not just sales.
• Biblical strategies to seek out disengaged clients and foster reconciliation.
• Scriptural Deep Dive:
• Matthew 18:12-14: Actively seeking and serving the "lost" in your business.
• John 21:15-17: Comprehensive care for all levels of your audience.
• Acts 20:28: Guarding personal integrity while shepherding God’s people.
• 1 Peter 2:25: Staying close to the Good Shepherd to avoid wandering.
• Encouragement for Entrepreneurs:
• Don’t let fear of failure paralyze you; God forgives, restores, and uses you for His glory.
• A reminder to remain steadfast and rooted in God’s path, even when business seasons are tough.

Take Action:

• Reflection Challenge: What areas of your business can you realign to reflect the heart of a shepherd?
• Share the Message: If this episode blessed you, leave a 5-star review and share it with a friend!

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This episode is a timely reminder to guard your heart and attention in today’s fast-paced, digital world. Originally recorded during a chaotic week, Tatum shares her heartfelt frustrations about the distractions and noise in online spaces that can pull believers away from truth. She explains how the enemy strategically attacks our attention and provides practical solutions to ensure we stay focused on God’s truth.

Key Points Discussed:

• The Duality of Technology: While the digital age provides incredible opportunities for believers to grow and share their faith, it also presents challenges such as false teachings, distractions, and spiritual elitism.
• The Enemy’s Attack on Attention: Why the devil targets our attention to steer us away from truth and how this can lead to lukewarm faith.
• Definition of Attention: How what we focus on can prepare our body to act, sometimes in ways contrary to God’s will.
• Guarding Your Heart: Practical steps to protect yourself from distractions and align your attention with God's truth.
• Pure Alternatives: How finding godly alternatives to music, media, and other influences can help you live a focused and faith-filled life.

Practical Solutions:

1. Use Technology Wisely: Leverage tools like algorithm filters to block distracting or harmful content.
2. Know Your Triggers: Avoid content or environments that tempt you away from God’s principles.
3. Be Intentional with Media: Replace secular influences with Christian alternatives, such as uplifting music and faith-based content.
4. Seek God’s Guidance: Pray for wisdom and discernment in managing your attention.

Join Us for the Year-End Prayer-A-Thon:

Close out the year in God’s presence! Join us on December 31st for a Prayer-A-Thon hosted by the Blessed and Bossed Up Society and Mornings with God ministry. We'll be praying over six key areas to prepare for 2025:

1. Spiritual Wellness & Development
2. Health & Physical Well-being
3. Mental & Emotional Health
4. Finances & Vocation
5. Community & The Nations
6. Relationships

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As we take a brief podcast break, we're replaying a foundational episode that will help you align your approach to business with God's will. In this episode, Tatum shares powerful insights on the posture required to do business God’s way. From understanding your relationship and righteousness to protecting God’s mission and maintaining focus, this episode is packed with wisdom for faith-driven entrepreneurs.

Key Points Discussed:

• Defining Posture: The approach and attitude necessary for doing business God’s way.
• Relationship First: Why your salvation and righteousness must be prioritized over your business and purpose.
• Actions Over Words: How your godliness should be evident in your actions and not just in your declarations.
• Protecting God’s Mission: Practical steps to safeguard the integrity of the work God has called you to do.
• Focus is Mandatory: The importance of staying tuned to God’s voice and avoiding the distractions of worldly pressures.
• Uncompromising Attitude: Remaining firm, bold, and unwavering in what God has called you to do, regardless of opposition.
• Faith Over Anxiety: Shifting your perspective to walk in confidence, knowing God’s plans for you are good.

Links to Relevant Episodes:

• https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/5041e895/239-dont-put-the-cart-before-the-horse
• https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/503ec376/how-to-have-a-business-meeting-with-god

Join Us for the Year-End Prayer-A-Thon:

Mark your calendars for December 31st! The Blessed + Bossed Up Society is partnering with the Mornings with God ministry to host a Prayer-A-Thon. We'll be praying over six key areas to prepare for 2025:

1. Spiritual Wellness & Development
2. Health & Physical Well-being
3. Mental & Emotional Health
4. Finances & Vocation
5. Community & The Nations
6. Relationships

This is a free event and the perfect way to close out the year in God’s presence. https://bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

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I’m so excited to introduce you to a podcast that’s close to my heart, created by one of my incredible mentees, Remi Roy. If you’ve ever felt like your quiet, introverted nature might hold you back from pursuing your God-given purpose, this show is for you.

About the Podcast

The Driven Introvert Podcast is a faith-inspired space designed specifically for purposeful introverts. It’s the place for dreamers, doers, and entrepreneurs who are ready to birth the dreams, callings, and ideas God has placed in their hearts.

When I first started working with Remi and heard the name of her show, I fell in love immediately. As a driven introvert myself, it resonated deeply. I know firsthand that being an introvert doesn’t mean you’re not passionate, determined, or called to do great things. And that’s exactly what Remi’s podcast speaks to.

On this bi-weekly show, Remi offers unique perspectives on what it means to follow your dreams, passionately pursue your purpose, and live a life that matters—all while embracing the strengths of your personality.

Episode Recommendation: “For Those Who Feel Left Behind in Life”

This episode from Season 2 is a must-listen for anyone who has ever felt stuck or like life is passing them by. Drawing from her personal experiences, Remy shares powerful insights on:

• Reframing your perspective to see God’s hand in your circumstances.
• Taking bold steps of faith, experimenting, and trusting God with the outcomes.
• How to navigate seasons of disappointment and learn from life’s challenges.

Why You Should Listen

What makes The Driven Introvert Podcast so special is Remy’s authenticity and ability to connect with her audience on a personal and spiritual level. Her content is packed with inspiring conversations, valuable resources, and reflective insights that will empower you to believe in the life and work God has called you to.

Where to Listen

The Driven Introvert Podcast is available on all major podcast platforms. Click the link in the show notes to tune in, and don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! https://thedrivenintrovert.buzzsprout.com/

Prayer-a-Thon Announcement:

Join the Blessed and Buffed Up Society in partnership with Mornings with God for a free virtual Prayer-a-Thon on December 31st. Covering six key topics—spiritual wellness, health, mental health, finances, community, and relationships—this is the perfect way to close out 2024 and align your heart with God’s plans for 2025. Register here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

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Hey B+BU Fam!

We're on a podcast break for the month of December, but I couldn’t wait to share this episode with you. As we wrap up the year and focus on cultivating a deeper connection with God, this conversation will challenge and inspire you to create an atmosphere of Him in your daily life.

Episode Highlights:

• God’s Word for Anxiety: Tatum reflects on a recent revelation from God: the antidote to anxiety is to create an atmosphere of Him. What does this mean in practice, and how can we cultivate that atmosphere in our lives?
• Omnipresence vs. Manifestation of His Presence: Dive into the difference between God always being with us (omnipresence) and experiencing His undeniable, manifested presence.
• Joy as Awareness of Grace: Learn how joy is rooted in being aware of God’s unmerited favor and how this perspective can shift your focus.
• Practical Steps to Cultivate God’s Atmosphere: Tatum breaks it down into three areas we can control:

1. What We Consume: How our physical, mental, and spiritual consumption affects our environment.
2. What We Focus On: Tips to focus on God, even when life feels overwhelming.
3. Who We Communicate With: The importance of communicating with God, even when His presence feels distant.

Mentioned in This Episode:

• Scripture References: Philippians 4:6, James 1:2, and the definition of joy and faith from the Bible.
• Personal Testimonies: Tatum shares her journey of trusting God during a difficult season of miscarriages and how it strengthened her faith.
• Practical Tips: From cleaning up your diet to listening to prophetic instrumentals, discover ways to make God the focal point in your life.

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As we wrap up the final live episode of 2024, host Tatum Ayomike reflects on eight incredible years of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast. From heartfelt thanks to loyal listeners to a deep dive into Chapter 4 of Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritz, this episode focuses on the vital leadership trait of brokenness and its role in maintaining a Christ-centered life. Tatum emphasizes the importance of spiritual discipline and accountability, sharing lessons from scripture and practical examples for leaders in both the physical and digital spaces.

The episode concludes with encouragement to stay connected during the upcoming break with reruns of fan-favorite episodes and a preview of exciting content for 2025.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. Reflections on the journey of Blessed + Bossed Up and what’s to come in 2025.
2. Key insights from Chapter 4 of Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritz, including:

• The nature of brokenness as a leadership trait.
• The dangers of pride and the pull toward sin.
• Practical examples of maintaining humility and dependence on God.

1. The importance of spiritual discipline and vigilance for modern leaders, particularly in the online space.
2. How to draw inspiration from athletes' discipline and apply it to spiritual growth.

Scriptures Referenced in This Episode:

• 1 Timothy 3:6-7
• 2 Timothy 2:20-22
• 1 Corinthians 9:24-27
• Galatians 2:20
• 1 Corinthians 10:12
• 1 John 1:8

Homework Assignment:

Watch a sports documentary that highlights the dedication and discipline of top athletes. Use it as inspiration to assess your own spiritual discipline and commitment to eternal priorities.

Reruns During the Break:

Stay tuned for replays of some of the best episodes over the years, handpicked to inspire and equip you during December. Twice a week, these episodes will keep the wisdom and encouragement flowing as we prepare for a fresh start in 2025.

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts https://a.co/d/07Gthfy
• Netflix documentaries referenced: Simone Biles: Courage to Soar, Sprints, and Starting 5

Thank you for an incredible year of growth and support. As we enter 2025, let’s continue to live out our calling, making God the CEO of every area of our lives. See you in the new year!

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In this special mailbag episode, Tatum answers questions submitted by her audience, covering a variety of topics related to spiritual growth, entrepreneurship, and personal development. From navigating guilt and conviction in your spiritual journey to handling pride and self-sufficiency in business, Tatum shares practical advice and biblical wisdom to help you walk boldly in your faith and purpose.

Episode Highlights:

Question 1: Navigating Guilt and Spiritual Growth

• A listener asks about overcoming guilt associated with seeking deeper spiritual understanding and reconciling it with their upbringing in Southern Christianity.
• Key takeaways:
• Recognize the difference between guilt and conviction from the Holy Spirit.
• Be cautious of spiritual practices that may appear safe but are not biblically sound.
• True spiritual depth comes from abiding in Christ, studying His word, and enduring trials with obedience and faith.

Question 2: Dealing with Prideful Thoughts

• A listener asks about managing pride in the face of accomplishments.
• Key takeaways:
• Understand that pride can manifest as self-sufficiency, not just self-exaltation.
• Maintain a posture of humility by reflecting on God’s role in your journey.
• Obedience to God and the process He’s taking you through are the true measures of success.

Question 3: Overcoming Overwhelm During Transitions

• A listener juggling a new business, certifications, and a job search asks how to manage the overwhelm.
• Key takeaways:
• Submission to God and structure in daily life are key.
• Practical tools like AI (e.g., ChatGPT) can help create schedules and plans tailored to your specific needs.
• Surrendering to God’s timing and seeking His guidance brings peace amid transitions.

Question 4: Restarting a Podcast with Impact

• A listener shares their struggle with podcast inconsistency and asks how to relaunch effectively.
• Key takeaways:
• Focus on show development: research your audience, clarify your message, and create a plan.
• Use tools like surveys and analytics to tailor your content to your audience's needs.
• Consistency and preparation are key to overcoming creative blocks.

Question 5: Discerning a Career Transition

• A listener asks how to know if God is prompting a career change after a difficult semester teaching.
• Key takeaways:
• Seek God’s guidance and be patient for His answer.
• Process emotions from the challenging season and allow God to provide peace and clarity.
• Trust that God will reveal the right time and way to transition.

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In today’s episode, Tatum introduces one of her amazing mentees, Clarissa and her new podcast, Purified and Proven. Tatum shares the inspiring story of Clarissa's journey to launch her show, overcoming self-doubt and distractions to walk in obedience to God’s calling.

The Purified and Proven Podcast is designed to help believers stay committed to their walk with God, offering practical advice and encouragement to navigate the mental and emotional struggles of the Christian journey. Tatum highlights a sample episode titled Nothing is Too Hard for God: Overcoming Doubt and Trusting His Promises, which explores how limiting beliefs and self-doubt can hinder us from fully trusting God’s plan.

Tune in to hear Clarissa’s powerful insights, reflection questions, and actionable steps to grow in faith and embrace your God-given identity. https://redcircle.com/shows/purifiedandproven/ep/702b54bb-fc45-48e8-a67c-e3ab44da48c3

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