What separates sustainable high performance from occasional success? Often, it's not the big moments, but the small daily practices that create the foundation for excellence. In this final episode with MJ Insurance Chief Growth Officer and President of Benefits Consulting Andy Vetor, we explore how intentional routines enable us to maintain focus, energy, and impact across multiple demanding roles. 

Through powerful examples—from daily thank you notes to running through chemotherapy—Andy demonstrates how routines become the backbone of resilience and purposeful leadership. Whether you're looking to elevate your sales performance, leadership impact, or personal growth, this conversation offers practical insights for making your daily habits work for you.

Ever notice how the more attached you are to someone's success (kids, friend, client, or prospect), the less likely they are to listen to and take your advice? 

Through stories from sales, leadership and parenting, MJ Insurance Chief Growth Officer and President of Benefits Consulting Andy Vetor talks about how slowing down and asking questions actually helps the other person take ownership of improving or making a change, and touches on the magic of helping them connect what they might gain or risk with the actions or non-actions that they are debating.

Do you know what it’s like to stay unwavering and fully committed to asking questions and seeking to understand the other person’s perspective, versus sharing expertise or having all the answers? That powerful shift from no longer making yourself the lead character in the conversation, and instead allowing the other person to take on that lead role. This is exactly what long time client and friend Andy Vetor, Chief Growth Officer and President of MJ Benefits Consulting has done throughout his career as a top producer and leader. 

Warning, if you’ve convinced yourself that competency is how you build trust and win business—you won’t like this episode. 

Ever wonder how you can learn to embrace those uncomfortable moments? You know— the ones that light the path toward where you want to be headed verses where you currently are. Whether a difficult conversation, new routine, or some new action. 

In this episode, Pam and Dan break down:

• What's really happening in your head during those pivotal moments

• Why labeling something as "hard" versus "uncomfortable" changes everything

• How to stop letting your primal brain run the show

• Practical ways to build mental toughness one moment at a time

• The difference between being "good" and being a true professional

If you're tired of letting important moments slip by and ready to start showing up differently, this episode will change how you think about those daily choices that ultimately alter your path.

When was the last time you felt truly confident in a high-stakes sales conversation—not just trying to project confidence, but actually feeling it?

In this raw conversation, Kristie reveals what happened when she realized her "proven track record" wasn’t good enough. You'll learn the exact process she used to recognize when she was operating from fear versus authentic confidence, specific techniques for quieting the voice of self-doubt, and why examining the beliefs you formed long before your sales career is crucial to breaking through to the next level.

Whether you're hitting your numbers but feeling “imposter syndrome,” or sensing your past standards are no longer good enough, this episode may help you realize you’re not alone, and that there might be some things you can do to free yourself from the internal voice that wants to hold onto the past, and hold you back.

How do you fight off the anxiousness that floods in at times during your prospect and client conversations? The feeling  that causes you to jump to solving, use filler words in moments of silence, and to back off of asking good, meaningful questions?

In Part II of our conversation, Tim Filewicz shares his experiences in learning how to trust his voice of objectivity and detachment, and how he truly had to learn to let go ofimmediate gratification and focus on the moment, not the results.  

You’ll learn his specific morning routine, how he preps his mindset before important meetings, and what he tells himself to stay focused when things get uncomfortable.

Whether you’re in sales or leadership, you’ll discover practical strategies for building and trusting a process that works under pressure—even when your instincts are telling you to fall back on old habits.

How do you learn to trust a completely new approach or skill when the stakes are high? 

In this episode, Lockton VP Tim Filewicz shares how he transformed his mindset from seeking to be liked to embracing a peer to peer role, where the priority is to help his prospects and clients feel positive tension as they decide on change.   

You’ll learn how to break free from the "friend zone" in your client conversations and trust your new process, even when it feels uncomfortable.

Have you ever noticed how hard it is to truly build trust with someone new—even when you come highly recommended? 

That’s because we naturally hold people at a distance until we understand their intent.

In this episode, Pam and Dan explore a counterintuitive truth about sales conversations. 

They break down why telling prospects they don't need to do anything with you—that “not moving forward” is perfectly acceptable—actually increases your chances of having an open, honest dialogue. You'll learn how this simple shift in approach can transform your interactions, whether you're in sales, leadership, or even parenting.

In this episode, Pam and Dan break down what real mindset preparation looks like, and why it matters - especially if you want better results from your conversations. Telling yourself to be calm, confident, or courageous is not enough. If it was, you’d already be having the more meaningful conversations and results. 

Listen in as Dan and Pam show you what it takes to develop real mindset strength—the kind that lets you stay present, stay curious, and keep serving your prospect even when things don't go the way you hoped.

Goals: Why do they frustrate so many of us? 

In this episode, Dan shares a different approach to setting goals designed to help you break free from the traditional goal-setting trap. We'll explore why the word "goal" itself might be holding you back, and discover a powerful framework that focuses on achievement, creation, and experience instead. If you're ready to transform how you think about and pursue what you want in life - whether that's in sales, leadership, or your personal growth - this episode will give you practical tools and mindset shifts to make it happen.