Called & Crowned

If you’re looking to be an influencer, then this episode isn’t for you. 

But if you’re looking to become a woman of influence, someone who knows she’s called to more, who wants to create real impact, and who believes her story can help change lives - you’re in the right place. 

In this episode, Jake Havron unpacks the difference between being an influencer and becoming a Crowned Authority - a woman whose influence isn’t built on attention, but on conviction, character, and calling. He breaks down why followers don’t determine your worth, and how the women changing the world are often the ones who stop performing and start owning who God created them to be. 

Because the truth is, the authority you’ve been searching for isn’t something you have to earn. It’s something God has already placed inside of you. The question is: will you have the courage to pick up the crown?

(01:56) - Why So Many Women Feel Called But Stay Hidden

She built the business. She built the influence. She built the brand.

In this episode, we’re sharing a powerful conversation from Emily’s guesting on The Inspire Effect Podcast with Phil Valdez. While many people know Emily as an entrepreneur, speaker, and personal branding expert, this episode reveals the deeper story of how God healed her identity and redefined her understanding of influence and purpose. 

From growing up without a father to building a nine-figure sales organization, Emily opens up about the wounds success couldn’t heal, the relationships she almost sabotaged, and the encounter with Jesus that transformed her life from the inside out. She shares how faith reshaped her approach to business, personal branding, marriage, leadership, and purpose, and why true confidence isn't found in what you build, but in knowing who God says you are.

Whether you're building a business, leading a family, or simply seeking clarity in your next season, this conversation is a reminder that before God expands your impact, He often heals your heart. And sometimes the breakthrough you've been praying for begins with allowing Him to restore the person behind the brand.

(03:52) - How Childhood Wounds Shape Your Adult Life

You can have the perfect offer, the best strategy, and most polished brand. But why does it feel like something isn’t landing? Like people are listening, but not buying. They’re leaning in, but never fully committing. 

In this episode, Emily unpacks the uncomfortable truth behind influence and leadership - why people respond the way they do, and how your internal state is shaping outcomes far more than people are willing to admit. She also introduces a 5-step framework that opens up a different way of seeing what’s been driving your results all along, and what begins to shift when you finally become aware of it. 

This is a conversation about your spirit, your presence, and the invisible signals you’re sending every single day. If you’re ready to stop chasing outcomes and start becoming someone people are naturally drawn to, this episode will meet you there. 

(02:28) - What “Energy” in Business Really Means

Most people think clutter comes from being too busy or not organized enough. But what if the real reason your space keeps filling back up is that you’re holding onto things that are tied to a version of you God is asking you to release?

In this episode, Emily breaks down why clutter keeps coming back and why it has nothing to do with discipline. She unpacks the seven types of clutter that are quietly revealing what you’re still carrying, and helps you see how your space is often mirroring the version of you that no longer fits the season you’re stepping into. 

Beyond that, she walks you through a simple, faith-led framework to help you shift not just your space but your spirit. This isn’t just about having a perfect home. It’s about a woman who lives in alignment. Because the truth is, what you keep is shaping who you remain, but what you release determines what God can do next.

(01:23) - Why Your Clutter Is Not About Your House

She survived childhood trauma. Beat lupus into remission. Brought the world’s first cauliflower pizza crust to market when grocery aisles only sold the head. And exited her company at the top 1% of women founders to ever do an 8-figure deal.

Amy Lacey didn’t just build a business. She’s a woman whose life is marked by resilience, faith, and transformation. After years of striving, she made a defining decision: “God is my CEO.” Everything changed from that moment. Today, she helps others heal from the inside out, build meaningful businesses, and step fully into who they’re called to be.

In this episode, Emily sits down with Amy to go beyond the success and into the deeper story - the trauma she carried, how it showed up in her body, and the moment she chose forgiveness. Together, they unpack what it really looks to heal, surrender, and allow God to rebuild parts of your life that felt broken. This episode is going to stir something in you and remind you that no matter what you’ve walked through, you can be faithfully found.

(02:33) - The Hidden Trauma That Shaped Amy’s Body, Mind, And Business

She was born in a cave in Mexico. Today, she has been integral to more than two billion dollars in real estate transactions. But that’s not the story she wants told. 

In this episode, Emily sits down with entrepreneur, investor, and author Ruth Fernandez for a conversation that will deeply challenge almost everything you’ve been taught about money, success, and purpose. Ruth unpacks the Biblical principles behind wealth creation, why so many believers stay financially stuck, and how obedience unlocks provision. 

This episode goes far deeper than money. Together, Emily and Ruth expose the spiritual roots of fear, laziness, ego, hustle culture, and what it actually means to carry Kingdom wealth as a daughter of God. Whether you’re in a season of breaking cycles or building something new, this conversation is your invitation to stop begging for an inheritance that’s already yours and start walking in it.

(03:45) - Raised in a Cave in Mexico to Billions in Real Estate

She dropped out of law school without knowing what was next. Became an internationally recognized wedding photographer without owning a camera. Bootstrapped and an 8-figure tech company, knowing nothing about tech. And built a Top 1% podcast from the floor of her closet. 

Jasmine Star didn’t wait for permission. She built anyway. 

She’s the CEO of Social Curator, host of The Jasmin Star Show, and a sought-after keynote speaker and coach to more than 35,000 entrepreneurs worldwide. But behind the success is a far less polished truth: years of self-doubt, identity battles, and moments where quitting felt easier than continuing. 

In this episode, Emily and Jasmine go beyond the highlight reel into the reality of what it takes to bet on yourself when nothing is guaranteed. They talk about identity, burnout, obedience, motherhood, and faith, and why most people stay stuck, not because they lack opportunity, but because they haven’t fully committed to who they’re becoming. 

(03:42) - Permission vs Partnership: The Hidden Block Keeping Women Stuck

Most people don’t struggle with sales because they lack skill. They struggle because something in them feels… off.

If you’ve ever felt icky about selling, if your DMs feel like a graveyard of unanswered pitches, or if you know you have something that can change people’s lives, but you can’t figure out how to talk about it without feeling like a used car salesman, this episode is your wake-up call.

Jake and Emily unpack what most people never get taught about sales: that the problem usually isn’t the offer, the price, or even the audience. It’s the internal disconnect between belief, communication, and conviction. They explore the difference between influence and manipulation, why marketing can silently make sales easier or harder, and how trust is actually built long before the “close” happens. By the end of this conversation, you’ll start to notice the small, overlooked patterns in how you communicate that may be making selling harder than it needs to be,  and what shifts when you finally see them clearly.

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(03:09) - Why Selling Feels Uncomfortable

If you’ve been following our journey, you know this season has been one for the books. We’re 29 weeks pregnant with our baby boy, running Fordivine at full speed, speaking on stages, and navigating what it means to build a life and legacy at the same time. And the truth is, this season is changing us more than the baby ever could.

In this episode, Jake and I sit down for a full, unfiltered update. We’re talking about the real stuff - how our marriage has deepened through this season, what God’s been teaching us about surrender, how our businesses have shifted, and the fears and excitement of becoming parents. We also open up about the behind-the-scenes conversations we’ve never shared publicly before.

Whether you’re in a season of waiting, building, expecting, or just trying to figure out what God is doing right now, this conversation is for you. 

(02:25) - When Pregnancy Changes More Than Your Body

She’s 51, a grandma of two, and she has the body and the energy that most women in their 30s are still chasing. 

In this episode, Emily sits down with Patricia Hernandez, a perimenopause and fat loss expert who has personally guided 800+ women through the transformation they thought was behind them. She’s one of the most credible voices in the over-40 wellness space, blending practitioner-led protocols with real-life results. Her approach covers hormones, gut health, HRT, peptides, full labs, and the mindset shifts that make it all stick. 

Together, Emily and Patricia unpack what’s actually keeping weight on your body in this season of life. They go deep into the root causes: cortisol, estrogen, gut dysfunction, and why most traditional fat loss advice is written for a 25-year-old body. Patricia gives the real framework, practitioner-tested and client-proven. 

This conversation is layered with so much more than protocols. It's about reclaiming your body as an act of stewardship. God gave you this one vessel, and it is not too late to honor it well. Whether you've been struggling for two years or twenty, this episode is your invitation to stop fighting your body and start understanding it.

(03:41) - Why Your Body Stops Responding After 40