Character Analysis

We talk J-Lo and why it took her so long to find a man on her level, whether men are intimidated by self-sufficient women and why getting someone to commit isn't the accomplishment you think it is.

This episode covers Monica Lewinksy and how she withstood two decades of slut-shaming; douchey men with massage tables; and why settling isn't so bad.

Narcissists are THE WORST. Today we're talking about how to deal with toxic people and signs your friend or love interest is a total douche. We'll also parse why "the za za zu" is total bullshit and only found in toxic relationships like the one Carrie had with Big.

Was Ted Bundy Emotionally Unavailable? Uh, I guess you could say that. Barbara and I take a deep dive into the psyches of people drawn to unavailable partners; whether or not Ted Bundy was attractive and charming or just a basic bitch; and whether Rami Malek deserved that Oscar

How do you avoid getting too invested in a guy before you meet him and what are signs that he's going to flake? Introducing our weekly mini-dosde, where we'll cover a dating/sex/relationship letter submitted from a reader/listener.

Before you uninstall all your dating apps, listen to me and Dating Is Delicious founder Kira Citron discuss why so many people are struggling and what to do about it. We also discuss why dating coaches and Tinder Whisperers are big fat scams; how fear keeps us from truly connecting with people; and how I got my sexual groove back.

We're covering a lot this episode. To start, we discuss how to spot signs your internet date is a rage machine. Next, we explain why the wage gap is no excuse to make men pay the tab. (That's some white feminist BS.)Then we head over to Instagram and talk about the internet's latest social media obsession, Caroline Calloway, and our obsession with spoiled privileged white girls with too much money and not an ounce of self-awareness. As a palate cleanser, Kristin and I discuss why Carrie Bradshaw was - unequivocally- the absolute worst.