Come Curious

By Florence Bark & Reed | QCODEComedy Society & Culture Health & Fitness Sexuality

Ranking
46th
on Sexuality
Favorites
327
Followers
Typical duration
49 min
per episode

Based on Podcast App listening data

Come Curious episodes

August 14, 2025 Jealousy Confessions: How to Stop Obsessing
Green-eyed monster? Babe, we’ve been there and this week, Florence and Reed are dragging jealousy out of the shadows and into the daylight. From obsessively stalking your ex’s new boo to side-eyeing your partner’s “just a friend,” we’re spilling our rawest confessions, messiest moments, and the tips that actually help you stop spiralling.

We’re talking envy vs jealousy, ex etiquette, and why sometimes (don’t lie) you like it when your partner gets a bit possessive. Plus, how to handle friends who trigger you, why boundaries are inward not outward, and the little tricks that stop obsessive thoughts in their tracks. This isn’t just “don’t be jealous” nonsense - it’s honest, unfiltered, and yes, a bit unhinged.

Whether you’re in a monogamous bubble, navigating non-monogamy, or still creeping your ex’s sister’s Instagram… this one’s for you, curious f**kers.

Rate & Review
If we’ve ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink texting your ex at 2am - smash that five star, baby.

Want more?
Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon:
👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious

Follow us on Instagram
@comecurious - slide into our DMs with questions, stories & voice notes!
Follow Florence: @florencebark
Follow Reed: @reedamberx

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
1 hr 9 min
August 08, 2025 Parenting and Porn with Erika Lust
It’s time to talk about… PARENTING & PORN.
What happens when your career is in porn — and you’re planning for parenthood? Florence is flying solo this week and sitting down with legendary erotic filmmaker Erika Lust for a juicy, no-holds-barred convo on raising kids in a world obsessed with sex but terrified of sexuality.
From fighting censorship and dismantling shame to the nitty-gritty of how to actually talk to your kids about porn, we’re going deep into the messy, meaningful overlaps between pleasure, politics, and parenting. Erika shares her wisdom from 20+ years in the industry, why tech bros keep banning her, and how to raise informed, empowered (and media-literate) young people without freaking out over their screen time.
Plus:
✨ Sex education that doesn’t suck
✨ Parenting through the porn panic
✨ Why pleasure is power — and why your kids need to hear that too
Whether you're a parent, a porn-lover, or just a curious fker wondering how to raise a less fked-up generation, this one’s for you.
Rate & Review
If we’ve ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your browser history — smash that five star, baby.
Support the podcast + watch full episodes on Patreon:
👉 www.patreon.com/comecurious
Follow us on Instagram
@comecurious
@florencebark
Podcast Produced by @bxsassy2

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
1 hr 15 min
July 31, 2025 Empowering Submissive Men with Saint Arson
It’s time to talk about… SUBMISSIVE MEN. 😈
Florence and Reed are joined by the magnetic dominatrix, performer, and kink educator Saint Arson (aka Arson Leigh) to dive deep into a topic that’s still drenched in stigma: male submission.
From the myths of masculinity to the power of being ass-up and emotionally available, this juicy episode unpacks what it means to be a submissive man - and why that might just be the sexiest kind of rebellion.
They cover everything from how patriarchy has f*cked up our ideas of dominance, to how to approach your dom with actual respect, to the shame (and secret pleasure) many men carry when exploring submission. Plus: latex fetishes, bratting, massage seduction, and why being a good sub is more than just calling someone “mommy” (spoiler: don’t call her that).
Whether you’re a domme-in-training, a submissive king in the making, or just curious about kink dynamics—this one’s for you, curious f**kers.
🎙️ Support Come Curious
Keep us thriving, vibing, and kink-positive at patreon.com/comecurious
⭐ Rate & Review
Feel seen? Feel empowered? Give us that 5-star, baby.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
1 hr 18 min
July 24, 2025 Do Extroverts Cum More?
This week, Florence and Reed get curious about how our social wiring plays into horniness, hookups, and sexual satisfaction.
From voice notes and sex parties to social burnout and sober raving, they’re unpacking how your being an introvert or an extrovert might just be linked to your sex life, libido, dating style - and yes, even how much you orgasm.
Is being an extrovert the secret to better sex? Do introverts make better long-term lovers? And what the hell is an ambivert anyway? We’ve got juicy studies, spicy confessions, and a whole load of personal stories to break it all down.
Whether you're the life of the party or a proud homebody, this one’s for anyone who’s ever wondered: is it just me, or is everyone else cumming more?
Curious f**kers, let’s get into it.
Rate & Review
If we’ve ever made you cum, cry, or contemplate deleting Hinge — hit us with that five star, babes.
🎥 Want more? Watch our LIVE Q and A's, get bonus content, and support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/comecurious
📲 Follow us on Instagram
@comecurious
@florencebark
@reedamberx
DM us your stories, questions, and voicenotes!
Produced by Bethany Burgoyne
@bxsassy2

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
1 hr 1 min
July 17, 2025 Breakups verses Breakdowns
It’s time to talk about… BREAKUPS.
Heartbreak, codependency, situationships, spirals - Florence is coming to you solo this week and sitting down with her incredible friend, author, and podcast queen Kelsey Darragh (Confidently Insecure) to unpack the brutal, beautiful chaos of breakups.
From sobbing through situationships to sexually addictive rebounds and emotional rock bottoms, Kelsey shares the raw reality of what happens when love crashes and burns - and how she turned her own heartbreak into a science-backed, self-loving healing journey.
They dive deep into co-dependency, the power of narrative, breakup bootcamps, why we chase emotional chaos, and how to stop choosing partners who can’t (or won’t) show up. Plus, there’s chat about fertility, freezing eggs, terminating pregnancies, and the surprising turns life takes after healing heartbreak.
This is one for anyone who’s ever been dumped, devastated, or just trying to piece themselves back together. Whether you're fresh out of a situationship or still haunted by a breakup from years ago — this one's for you, curious f**kers.
Support Come Curious
Keep us thriving, vibing, and healing in public at patreon.com/comecurious
Rate & Review
If we’ve helped you feel less alone in your mess — hit that 5 star, baby.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
1 hr 3 min
July 10, 2025 Sisters Uncensored - Hereditary Horniness
This week, Reed is joined by her ultra-creative, beautifully-queer sister Flynn for an unfiltered heart-to-heart convo about growing up side-by-side, navigating sex and privacy in a shared household, and the surprising overlaps in their kinky little brains. Think BDSM, tentacle kinks, tickling obsessions, and the sweet, sensual power of a backstroke.
They get real about sisterhood dynamics, the trauma of shared childhood bedrooms, the secret art of masturbating in silence, and the emotional gymnastics of being parentified daughters. Plus: why Flynn might be your fave new creative crush — she designs gorgeous sets for Babestation, crafts chainmail necklaces, paints murals, makes rugs, and probably solves jigsaws faster than you cum!
This one’s got all the juicy bits: identity, intimacy, inherited shame, and what it’s like to explore your sexuality while trying not to think about your sibling doing the same...
So settle in. This is Come Curious like you’ve never heard it before — tender, raw, freaky, and full of sisterly care.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
1 hr 5 min
July 03, 2025 How Kinky Are You?
It’s time to talk about… KINK.
Blindfolds, bondage, being a gang bang princess — this episode is dripping with all things freaky. Florence and Reed are diving clit-first into their favourite topic ever: kink. From tickle fetishes to golden showers, degradation to dentist gloves, it’s a wild ride through the buffet of BDSM and beyond.
They’re taking the ultimate kinky quiz, swapping filthy stories (shoutout to the sushi date turned “Mommy Dom” moment), and giving you the lowdown on how to explore your kinks safely — whether you're a seasoned switch or a curious newbie with a fresh pair of handcuffs.
Consent, safe words, self-pleasure tips, kink shame spirals — it’s all here. Plus, loads of listener confessions that prove: you lot are DIRTY. And we love to see it.
So… how kinky are you, curious f**kers? Get your ropes ready. Let’s find out.
Support Come Curious
Keep us wet, wild, and whispering dirty things in your ears: patreon.com/comecurious
Rate & Review
If we’ve ever made you squirm, squeal, or say “Yes, Mummy” smash that 5 star, baby.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
52 min
June 26, 2025 Conquering Ageing - From f*** no to f*** yes!
It’s time to talk about… AGEING.
From saggy titties to spiking libidos, Florence and Reed are diving deep into the wild, wobbly, and wonderful world of getting older. This episode is a full-body embrace of wrinkles, weight changes, and the shifting sands of self-esteem — and we’re not holding back.
Why are we so terrified of ageing? Is it all doom, gloom, and bingo wings? (Spoiler: absolutely not.) We’re talking stretch marks, gray hairs, changing libidos, and learning to actually love your body — not just tolerate it. Plus, we’re busting myths with juicy facts that’ll make you want to fast-forward to 50 (hello longer orgasms and bigger clits).
Whether you're hitting your thirties or living it up in your sixties, this one’s for anyone who’s ever felt a little weird about getting older. Curious f**kers, it’s time to go from fuck no to fuck yes on ageing.

Rate & Review
If we’ve ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink your anti-aging cream — smash that five star, baby.

To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious

Follow us on Instagram
@comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes!
Follow Florence @florencebark
Follow Reed @reedamberx

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
49 min
June 19, 2025 Am I Gay? The Gay Checklist
Ever Googled “Am I gay?” and clicked on the weirdest quiz imaginable? You're not alone. In this gloriously queer and candid Pride Month episode, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into the wonderfully confusing world of sexuality with zero judgment and all the juicy honesty you’d expect.
From bisexual panic and gay porn epiphanies to kissing your best mate and not feeling “gay enough” — nothing’s off-limits. They work through the infamous 10-question “Gay Checklist,” opening up about their own chaotic journeys through queerness, identity, imposter syndrome, internalised biphobia, and the confusing politics of desire.
Whether you're questioning, fully out, or just feeling curious, this episode is a rainbow-coloured hug for your confused, horny, beautiful soul.
Curious f**kers — get your flags out and press play.

To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious

Follow us on Instagram
@comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes!
Follow Florence @florencebark
Follow Reed @reedamberx

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
57 min
June 12, 2025 Get F***ed!
It's time for a special minisode dedicated entirely to our beloved Get F***ed segment — because sometimes life gives you so much material that one regular episode just isn't enough to contain the chaos.
Florence's discovered her own sweat is literally giving her a rash (evolutionary fail, much?), while Reed drops a major bombshell about her relationship status. We're serving up burst pipes, breakup revelations, body image battles, and the kind of messy honesty that makes you feel less alone in your beautiful disasters.
Don't worry, curious f**kers — next week we'll be back to our full-length episodes with all the regular segments and extended deep dives you love.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
27 min

About Come Curious

From the publisher's feed

Home of the world's most OPEN, HONEST & EXPLICIT conversations! You’ll be hearing all of our juicy sex stories, getting professional sex advice from therapists to dominatrix’s and spilling horny tea with your favorite public figures.