Confidently Insecure

Dodging capitalism around self-care is already hard enough...but even tougher when you're in a vulnerable state like GOING THROUGH A BREAKUP (it's almost like our host Kelsey isn't over her breakup...) BUT luckily we have Angela Jai Kim, founder of Savor Beauty and spas and author of Radical Radiance: 12 weeks of Self-Love Rituals to Manifest Abundance, Beauty, and Joy to teach us not only how to cultivate a routine thats good for our outside beauty but our INNER SOUL as well.

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BOOK: https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Radiance-Self-Love-Manifest-Abundance/dp/1250853192

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SOUND THE FRIENDSHIP ALARMS!!! ALLISON RASKIN (best selling author, podcaster, and fellow former buzzfeed co-worker) IS HERE TO PARTY ON OVERTHINKING BREAKUPS!! WHY DO WE OBSESS? WHY DO WE INSTA STALK?! wHYYYyYYyyYYy ARE OUR BRAINS THIS WAY?! EVEN IF WE'RE THE ONES WHO ENDED IT?! How can we learn from 2 women who have self admitted to overthinking their love relationships? Tune in to find out!

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NDE, NRE, and ZNT!!! Zach Noe Towers is here to listen to Kelsey spill all her new tea about NEW D*CK ENERGY (the energy that comes with sleeping new people after your breakup), and NEW RELATIONSHIP ENERGY aka NRE and what is IS and IS NOT (it's not love bombing!!). You get to hear all the juicy details of adult summer camp and why Kelsey recommends it for EVERY ONE going through a life change!

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ooooo always an awkward convo - money - isn't it? Well how could we make it more awkward??? LETS ADD A BIG OLE EMOTIONAL BREAKUP ENVIRONMENT TO THE CONVO SHALL WE!? Kelsey chats with pal of the pod and friend IRL, Tori Dunlap (@herfirst100k) about her real financial uncoupling with her ex boyfriend. From moving out of the house, to shared items, even their car - its about to get EXPENSIVE UP IN THIS EPISODE!!!

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THE FIRST DAY after a break up typically looks like a lot of ice cream or strippers depending on which side of the breakup you were on! Kelsey walks us through her first week as a single woman in over 5 years! How shes doing...how shes doing it...and what she's learning along the way.

This ones a little different confidantes....thank you for being there for us for the last 5 years. It's been a crazy journey and I hope this episode shines a little light on what's been going on...how I'm moving on...and how I've been okay with not being okay. I love you guys so much.

Are you tired of "being straight"? Do you FEEL THE GAYNESS IN UR BONES?? DO YOU FEEL LIKE SOCIETY HAS MADE YOU ADOPT COMPULSORY HETERONORMATIVITY (...and what is that giant word anyway?) ?! Then we've got the pod episode for you! Marlee Liss (sensuality and somatic coach, friend of the pod) and Eva Bloom (Queer-Inclusive Sex-Ed coach) are 2 besties and fellow queers who both came out and RE-came out during the pandemic. After their new arrivals into the queer space, they wanted to know WHAT WHO WHEN WHERE AND WHYYYYY compulsory heteronormativity exists and how they could help others undo what the patriarchy has done...and drumroll...Marlee & Eva created and now run the F*ck Comp Het Support club: https://www.patreon.com/FckComphetSupportClub !!!! And this episode, they're here to tell us all about it!

WHAT IS COMP HET? It's the theory that heterosexuality is assumed and enforced upon women & non-binary folk by a patriarchal and cisheteronormative society. The term was popularized by Adrienne Rich in her 1980 essay titled "Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence".

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https://www.evabloom.ca/

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Whitney Eckis (host of Under The Influence podcast) has built a career in marketing for some of the biggest brands on EARTH! But what about YOURSELF?! How do you go from being a global social media queen for the coorporate life into starting your own business and following? Whitney's here to break it all down as we learn the power of community!

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 @mela

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Her new show is as intimate as the episode title its self! Jacq "the stripper" Frances talks us through her life as a famous stripper (who came out as queer during her career) who fell in love...and out....and ultimately made a show out of it! From Dancing to Divorced, Jacq is a wild ride!

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SEE JACQ'S SHOW:

⭐ Divorced in Paradise ⭐

7/19 Nashville

7/22 Chattanooga

7/23 Atlanta

7/24 Charlotte

7/28 Philly

7/29 Brooklyn

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HELLO DO YOU LIKE TO SELF-SABOTAGE JUST LIKE YOUR DEAR OLD HOST, KELSEY DARRAGH?! (bonus points tell me how many years you've been listening by knowing that I always call my inner voice the C-word!) What does self-sabotaging look like? Why do we do it?? AND MOST IMPORTANT HOW THE HELL DO WE STOP?!

FRET NOT! We have expert, podcast host, Certified Trauma Support Specialist, Holistic Life Coach and Reiki Master Practitioner AMY FIEDLER here to teach us how to connect the dots, bitch!

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Podcast: Connect The Dots Bitch! https://anchor.fm/amy-fiedler

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