449 - Happiness Habits
Instructor: Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes PhD, LPC-MHSP, LMHC
Executive Director: AllCEUs Counseling CEUs and Specialty Certificates
Podcast Host: Counselor Toolbox, Happiness Isn’t Brain Surgery
Objectives
~ Learn why these habits contribute to recovery from addiction and mood issues and techniques to help clients implement them
~ Habit: Awareness and Authenticity
~ Habit: Acceptance
~ Habit: Gratitude
~ Habit: Compassion
~ Habit: Breathing
~ Habit: Purposeful action and Long-Term Goals
~ Habit: Back-Talk
~ Habit: Thought Conditioning
~ Habit: Be Sense-sational
Biological Impact of Happiness
~ Reduced risk of diabetes (41% - 100%), autoimmune issues, cardiovascular disease (anxiety, depression 80%)
~ Reduced activation of the HPA-Axis
~ Improved hormone balance
~ Improved sleep
~ Reduced pain
~ Slowed aging process
~ More energy
~ Releases endorphins
Emotional & Cognitive Impacts of Happiness
~ Difficulty to be simultaneously happy and unhappy
~ Changes the lens through with the world is viewed
~ Increases cognitive flexibility
Social Impacts of Happiness
~ Happy people tend to attract happy people
~ Happy people often have more energy to devote to relationships
~ Improved social relationships increase happiness
Awareness and Authenticity
~ To get your wants and needs met, you first need to be aware of them
~ Practice Mindfulness
~ What do you need
~ What vulnerabilities do you currently have
~ How can you mitigate them
~ How can you prevent them
~ Why is it important to prevent them?
Awareness and Authenticity
~ Living authentically means living in a way that is true to yourself.
~ Define what happiness means to you:
~ What makes you happy?
~ How will your thoughts and outlook change when you are happy?
~ What is the impact of happiness on your health and body (energy, sleep, weight, pain, illness…)?
~ When you are happy, who do you see in your support system and what will your relationships be like?
~ What will be different in your day to day life, hobbies and activities when you are happy?
~ How can you start making these things happen? (Principle of Reciprocity)
Acceptance
~ Fighting against things that are unchangeable (or not realistically changeable by you) wastes a TON of energy.
~ Feelings
~ Other people
~ Certain situations
~ Accept the situation by saying “Okay, what now?”
~ Decide whether you will…
~ Change part of the situation to make it more tolerable
~ How can you do this?
~ Change your reaction to the situation
~ How can you do this?
Gratitude
~ It can be easy to focus on all of the things you don’t have or what is not going right
~ An attitude of gratitude helps you
~ refocus on the positive
~ appreciate the simple things
~ Let go of envy and jealousy
~ Even if one area of your life is a mess, it is likely that you have other things to be grateful for.
~ Activities
~ Keep a gratitude list. Add at least one thing that went well each day
~ Look around and compare yourself to others who are not doing as well and/or the you in the past
Compassion
~ Compassion means sympathetic awareness of others' distress and a desire to alleviate it
~ People may have compassion for others but not for themselves
~ Many of us were raised to think that if we are compassionate with ourselves it means we are lazy, weak or a failure.
~ Activity
~ Think of three times you have been compassionate in the past week. To whom? Why? How did it impact them?
~ How are you compassionate to yourself? How could you be?
Breathing (and Laughter)
~ Deep breaths help oxygenate blood and reduce fatigue
~ Slow deep breaths also help lower heart rate and trigger the relaxation response.
~ Laughter not only makes you breathe deeper, but it also releases endorphins.
~ Activity
~ Practice deep breathing after each meal
~ When you are stressed, take a few deep breaths
~ Schedule in 10 minutes to laugh every day.
Purposeful Action and L