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In this episode, we discuss the abandonment wound - where it comes from, it's connection to attaching insecurely as children, it's effect on our adult relationships, and how to heal.
Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.
Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.
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The Sovereign Ledger
Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.
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Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.
In this episode we discuss people with avoidant attachment in relationships and their need for space in intimate relationships, their self-doubts and negative thinking, and the reason why they avoid conversations that lead to deeper bonding and intimacy with their partner.
Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.
Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.
Explore Create Love Freedom
The Sovereign Ledger
Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.
Explore The Sovereign Ledger
Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.
In this episode, we discuss becoming hyper-independent as a defense mechanism due to negative experiences in childhood and as adults. We discuss how to heal from hyper-independence and how to support someone who is.
Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.
Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.
Explore Create Love Freedom
The Sovereign Ledger
Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.
Explore The Sovereign Ledger
Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.
In this episode, we discuss the fantasy bonds we can create in childhood and transfer into or adult romantic relationships. We also discuss how a critical inner voice can be part of our fantasy bonding.
Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.
Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.
Explore Create Love Freedom
The Sovereign Ledger
Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.
Explore The Sovereign Ledger
Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.
In this episode, we continue or discussion on people with avoidant attachment in relationships by discussing the avoidant's difficulty responding to their partners signals for reassurance and why this is so critical in healthy, secure relationships. We also discuss the deactivating strategies an avoidant will use to push their partner away and why avoidants feel the need to use these deactivating strategies with the people they care most about, even though it is a self-sabotaging behavior and ultimately leads to the destruction of the relationship.
Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.
Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.
Explore Create Love Freedom
The Sovereign Ledger
Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.
Explore The Sovereign Ledger
Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.
In this episode, we discuss Machiavellianism personality trait - the colleagues who are cunning, manipulative, and are driven to use whatever means necessary to gain power and success in the workplace.
Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.
Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.
Explore Create Love Freedom
The Sovereign Ledger
Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.
Explore The Sovereign Ledger
Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.
In this episode, we discuss the differences and similarities between someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). There are several common characteristics of both maladaptive behavioral patterns that come from different root causes.
Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.
Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.
Explore Create Love Freedom
The Sovereign Ledger
Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.
Explore The Sovereign Ledger
Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.
In this episode, we discuss avoidants in relationships and their push-pull behaviors, their difficulty committing in relationships, and their need for secrecy in relationships to protect themselves.
Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.
Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.
Explore Create Love Freedom
The Sovereign Ledger
Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.
Explore The Sovereign Ledger
Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.
In this episode we discuss the connection between our patterns of self-sabotage and our mother wound.
Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.
Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.
Explore Create Love Freedom
The Sovereign Ledger
Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.
Explore The Sovereign Ledger
Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.
In this episode we discuss defense mechanisms - why we developed them, why we use them, several common defense mechanisms, and how to heal.
Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.
Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.
Explore Create Love Freedom
The Sovereign Ledger
Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.
Explore The Sovereign Ledger
Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.
From the publisher's feed
Create Love, Create Freedom is a podcast about psychology, mythology, identity, relationships, culture, and the interior life.
Hosted by Allison N. Fischer, the podcast…
Drawing from psychology, mythology, archetypal traditions, literature, philosophy, and the lived experience of women, episodes examine themes of descent and return, integration, power, love, belonging, solitude, wisdom, boundaries, responsibility, and the long process of becoming more fully oneself.
Some episodes begin with a psychological question. Others begin with a myth, an archetype, a relationship, or a cultural pattern. Together, they form an ongoing inquiry into the inner life—and into what becomes possible when we learn to meet our lives with greater consciousness, agency, and wisdom.
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Visit www.createlovefreedom.com for the journal, podcast archive, and original studies.

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