As women, we have experienced the Madonna-Whore Complex and have been put into one or both of the categories with different men. In this episode, we discuss the women who choose neither path. We also discuss the correlation of the Madonna-Whore Complex with the dismantling of patriarchy, misogyny, and the sigma female archetype who does not allow herself to be cast in either of these roles and therefore can guide us on our journey of self-transformation and wholeness. 

Welcome to Create Love Freedom — a living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign.

Explore the Temple:

• Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey
• Workbooks — [Full Moon Dark Feminine Energy Workbook] + [New Moon Light Feminine Energy Workbook] to guide your lunar rituals
• Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiation
• Feminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine

Step Deeper Into the Temple:

• The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the Feminine
• The Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & Sovereignty
• The ...

Self‑abandonment is the habitual overlooking—or outright suppression—of one’s own needs, feelings, and boundaries in order to maintain connection with another. For a woman socialized into a “feminine” role—encouraged to be nurturing, adaptive, and relationship‑focused—self‑abandonment can become nearly automatic. In this episode, we discuss how this unfolds, how it ties back to childhood wounding and insecure attachment, and how it plays out in unhealthy partnerships. 

Welcome to Create Love Freedom — a living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign.

Explore the Temple:

• Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey
• Workbooks — [Full Moon Dark Feminine Energy Workbook] + [New Moon Light Feminine Energy Workbook] to guide your lunar rituals
• Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiation
• Feminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine

Step Deeper Into the Temple:

• The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the Feminine
• The Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & Sovereignty
• The ...

In this episode, we discuss male aggression and assertiveness as idealized traits in American society, as well as how our masculine dominated society teaches male agency and selfishness through transgressing boundaries. 

 American society—through various institutions and cultural narratives—has often idealized aggressive and assertive behaviors in men, equating them with strength, leadership, and self-reliance. In this episode, we examine this issue, including the mechanisms through which male aggression, assertiveness, and forms of boundary-transgressing agency are taught and normalized. 

Welcome to Create Love Freedom — a living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign.

Explore the Temple:

• Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey
• Workbooks — [Full Moon Dark Feminine Energy Workbook] + [New Moon Light Feminine Energy Workbook] to guide your lunar rituals
• Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiation
• Feminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine

Step Deeper Into the Temple:

• The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the Feminine
• The Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & Sovereignty
• The ...

In this episode, we discuss the difference between being emotionally needed versus emotionally loved in a relationship, as well as the cost of being emotionally needed versus emotionally loved for a woman in romantic relationships. 

 The distinction between being “emotionally needed” versus being “emotionally loved” touches on deep aspects of interpersonal dynamics, self-worth, and personal autonomy. Although both roles can be intertwined in relationships, they carry different emotional weights, implications, and potential costs—especially for women who might often face societal pressures and expectations in their relational roles. 

Welcome to Create Love Freedom — a living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign.

Explore the Temple:

• Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey
• Workbooks — [Full Moon Dark Feminine Energy Workbook] + [New Moon Light Feminine Energy Workbook] to guide your lunar rituals
• Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiation
• Feminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine

Step Deeper Into the Temple:

• The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the Feminine
• The Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & Sovereignty
• The ...

In this episode, we look at the correlations between Persephone and the Shadow Empress feminine archetype and their connection to duality, transformation, and the reclamation of feminine power. Both figures challenge traditional dichotomies, urging an embrace of the full spectrum of the feminine experience—from the light of creation to the dark of transformation. In doing so, they provide a compelling model for integrating all aspects of the feminine self in our lives.   

Welcome to Create Love Freedom — a living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign.

Explore the Temple:

• Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey
• Workbooks — [Full Moon Dark Feminine Energy Workbook] + [New Moon Light Feminine Energy Workbook] to guide your lunar rituals
• Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiation
• Feminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine

Step Deeper Into the Temple:

• The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the Feminine
• The Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & Sovereignty
• The ...

In this episode, we discuss the law of detachment, the law of attachment, healing inner wounds using detachment, and how the feminine can transform her relationships with men using sacred feminine practices and decentering men. 

By embracing both sacred feminine practices and the law of detachment, a feminine woman can create a life rooted in self-love, authenticity, and healthy, empowering connections—whether in solitude or with a partner. 

Welcome to Create Love Freedom — a living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign.

Explore the Temple:

• Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey
• Workbooks — [Full Moon Dark Feminine Energy Workbook] + [New Moon Light Feminine Energy Workbook] to guide your lunar rituals
• Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiation
• Feminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine

Step Deeper Into the Temple:

• The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the Feminine
• The Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & Sovereignty
• The ...

Prioritizing self-discovery is an ongoing, dynamic process that involves cultivating a deeper understanding of a woman's inner world, values, passions, and goals. For a woman aiming to reclaim her individuality and authenticity, self-discovery can be both a transformative and empowering journey. 

In this episode, we discuss how to embody our self-discovery journey. 

Welcome to Create Love Freedom — a living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign.

Explore the Temple:

• Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey
• Workbooks — [Full Moon Dark Feminine Energy Workbook] + [New Moon Light Feminine Energy Workbook] to guide your lunar rituals
• Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiation
• Feminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine

Step Deeper Into the Temple:

• The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the Feminine
• The Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & Sovereignty
• The ...

Reclaiming independence in a relationship or after ending a relationship starts with reconnecting to who the feminine is as an individual, rather than as part of a partnership. In this episode, we dive into how we as women can reclaim the parts of ourselves that we give away to our partner. 

Welcome to Create Love Freedom — a living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign.

Explore the Temple:

• Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey
• Workbooks — [Full Moon Dark Feminine Energy Workbook] + [New Moon Light Feminine Energy Workbook] to guide your lunar rituals
• Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiation
• Feminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine

Step Deeper Into the Temple:

• The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the Feminine
• The Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & Sovereignty
• The ...

The idea of soft, quiet feminine power centers on an inner strength that doesn’t rely on volume or overt dominance but on presence, intuition, and a deep sense of self. It’s the subtle art of influencing the world through calm resilience, empathy, and authenticity. 

 Quiet power is less about making a lot of noise and more about having a consistent, grounded presence. For a woman, incorporating quiet power means embracing who she truly is, setting clear boundaries, listening both to herself and others, and cultivating resilience. This approach can transform personal interactions and leadership styles, showing that sometimes the most effective influence is gentle, authentic, and calm. 

Welcome to Create Love Freedom — a living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign.

Explore the Temple:

• Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey
• Workbooks — [Full Moon Dark Feminine Energy Workbook] + [New Moon Light Feminine Energy Workbook] to guide your lunar rituals
• Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiation
• Feminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine

Step Deeper Into the Temple:

• The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the Feminine
• The Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & Sovereignty
• The ...

In this episode, we conclude our last episode in the Difficult Mother Series where we discuss the inner wounds we can experience as daughters with difficult mothers, how it affects all of the future relationships we have throughout our life whether friendships, with colleagues, or in romantic partnerships, and also how having inner wounds from a difficult mother can correlate to insecure attachment trauma. 

Welcome to Create Love Freedom — a living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign.

Explore the Temple:

• Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey
• Workbooks — [Full Moon Dark Feminine Energy Workbook] + [New Moon Light Feminine Energy Workbook] to guide your lunar rituals
• Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [Unleash Your Dark Feminine 14-Day Challenge] to begin your initiation
• Feminine Reclaiming Quiz — Discover what holds you back from embodying your Divine Feminine

Step Deeper Into the Temple:

• The Crown Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Remembering & Reclaiming the Feminine
• The Temple Gate — A 3-Day Ritual of Self-Healing & Sovereignty
• The ...