Former New Zealand SAS commando Damian Porter—known online as @hownottodieguy—joins me to break down real self-defense for everyday people. We cover why sport fighting skills aren’t enough, how to build situational awareness, and what it really takes to protect yourself and your family.

Damian explains the three pillars of effective self-defense:

• Win the fight (simple tactics anyone can use)
• Stay out of jail (legal aftermath and decision-making)
• Handle the trauma (stress control and recovery)

You’ll hear practical strategies for spotting red flags early, staying safe in transitional spaces like parking lots and public transport, protecting your home and car, and using tools ranging from pens to fire extinguishers to firearms. Whether you’re a parent, a student, or just someone who wants to feel safer moving through the world, this episode gives you actionable steps you can use today.

About Damian Porter
Damian is a former NZ SAS commando specializing in counter-terrorism and hostage rescue. Today he teaches civilians and organizations how to apply military-tested safety and self-defense principles in everyday life.

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