Dhom grew up in a poor village in the Philippines. Regularly drinking alcohol by age 14, he joined a gang and was involved in violent and illegal activities. The power of his growing alcoholism and disregard for his own life were acted out in various crimes and games of Russian roulette with a loaded .38 caliper revolver. Run-ins with the law became more frequent and he believed a geographic move to London would ease his troubles. But his worsening alcoholism accompanied Dhom and was fueled to new heights by the easy and attractive pubs he found on every corner. Soon, he was involved with nefarious friends and was being banned from many of those pubs because of his brutal behavior. His disregard for his own safety culminated in heavier drinking and instigating fights with night club bouncers. Dhom managed to function long enough to marry and have a child, but his violent and abusive behavior spurred on by ceaseless drinking, inevitably resulted in his wife leaving him and taking their son with her. As his bottom was fast approaching, Dhom’s moment of clarity emerged out of a black-out in the form of a scrolling advertisement at the bottom of a TV screen with a phone number to get help. He crawled over to the phone, made the call, and was soon attending AA.

Dhom encountered many challenges early in his AA sobriety, not the least of which was feeling isolated in meetings where there were few other Asians and/or people of color. But he persevered and soon discovered a broad cross-section of recovering alcoholics with whom he could trust his life. He got a sponsor, worked the steps, became involved in service work, and sponsored others. By the time he moved from London to Ottawa, his entire life had been improved by his active participation in Alcoholics Anonymous.

Dhom’s tale is rich, colorful, and inspiring. If you listen closely, I think you’ll find many similarities in his story that might not otherwise be familiar. But it’s a story that has a solid place among the other stories on this podcast series. So, please invest the next hour with this episode of AA Recovery Interviews with my with my affable friend and AA brother, Dhom R.

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